How do i deal with family! venting time…
Ok i dont know what to do about it anymore… Im veyr close to my fmaily but they are sooo unhealthy ! eating dinner around 10pm all that greasy stuff with crabs and then thye are sugar addict baking cookies, brownies atleast twice a week. they try to incourage me to workout and eat healhty not eat all those things they eat but come on! when cookies and cakes and brownies are infront of you everysingle day what are you gonna do!I cant even tell you how unhealhty and out of control my family’s attitude is and its affecting me badly cause im very close to them theya re all overweight but doesnt wana do anyhting about it and are takign me down with them.
I cant even sleep early they have the music on tv on and wont go to bed before 1am that leaves me so tired for my morning workout. My mom is the most unhealthy person feeding us with food is all she likes to do , appreciating her food makes her happy and then she has such a negative view of life always brinign us all down. I have tried sending her to a psychaitrist but she didnt go, shes a pessimistic person always crying over everything and complainign how her kids didnt turn out to be how she wanted and how ‘I’ am the cause of her stress sicne ‘Im not married yet’ evryday she keeps pushing me into marrying the worst guys one would come accross and tells me how i would be left alone and how over-aged Im and wont ever find anyone in my life . Shes a control freak as well. I have hit rick bottem and the only way i cna make her happy is doing everyhting as shes says and throw myself into marrige wiht who ever she says.
I dont know what to do naymore, i get optimisitic and start working out then all these negatiivties and my mother weigh me down and i get hopeless. I try to get my mind cleared up but when i see her and the look on her face and she tellign me whos duaghter got married and whose daughter just had a baby it just all comes back to me. Im gettign really really tired and unable to enjoy the best yrs of my life..
sorry guys just needed to vent …. without being judged or anything.
April 14, 2009 at 11:09 am
You are only 25 and already over-aged? Tell ‘mom’ that she now has me feeling ancient.
What are your options for finding a place to live on your own? If not, try to make the best of things. The family can do and tell you anything. But it is totally up to you how to react. Keep your head up and moving forward!
beekpr1