Inspired vs friends
There are many people on this site that inspire me. Sometimes it is the amazing stories of overcoming physical, mental, emotional trauma or simply overcoming themselves. Sometimes it is the shear progress of where they were and where they are now. Humbling.
There are many reasons to choose someone as a friend on this site as well. Sometimes it is the same reasons as mentioned previously. Sometimes it is reason that are far more shallow. As a man, I am not ashamed to say that I compare myself with a lot of guys on here. I look better than they do, they look better than I do, I wish I looked like they do. And sometimes I see myself in a lot of these guys. Hey, I was there once. I was in their shoes, struggling to make that life change. A change for the better. A bad breakup can do good and bad things to ya. I love playing the "dad" and encouraging the underdog to succeed and achieve.
I am not looking for this to be a hookup site. I am a little old fashion and still blush. I have very high standards and prefer personality, intelligence, accountability, honesty, and most of all - someone who will stand up and confront me when I deserve it.
I’ll stop here because I said what I wanted to say and I am starting to ramble. If I selected you as a friend - no disrespect - on the contrary I hold you in high respect and want only the best for you and to succeed in your goals. I am standing behind you and cheering you on!
