“…I don’t want to get as big as you…!”
December 28, 2006As the cold bug has pretty much left my system a few days ago and I have been back in the gym getting my training back on track and my intensity back up. The oddest part of it all is that I have actually GAINED 4 pounds while down with the cold for the week! For the last month or so, I have been literally force-feeding myself and it has been working. I can actually see the scale moving almost daily. Of course with the size comes a slight sacrifice in definition for me…..fortunately I have always had a fast metabolism and a light frame, so I am not overly-bulky. And I do like the size. At first I could not tell, but little things were tell-tale. I found a ring that was given to me for my birthday in June that will not get on my finger now….my "big jeans" now fit snugly on my quads, and getting out of bed is a complete chore as now I feel heavier and it is apparent upon first awakening…….no complaints, though!
Now, today was a great training day, and as usual I go into the locker room to flex and assess my weak points and strong points. Some guys will do a set movement and then pose in the mirror during a workout on the gym floor. I am still a little gun shy for that so I wait until I am done with my routine and save the flexing for the locker room. And my gym has the BEST lighting and mirrors in the locker room and you can pose and look like Mr. Olympia! So with that, I take off the sweatshirt and start checking out the shoulders to see if I hit the rear and side deltoids hard enough to make them stand out, and this young kid walks in. He says hello, and I say "hello, just being vain and checking the progress!" The young guy then asked me "do you compete?" I said "not hardly, but I appreciate the compliment!". He then goes on to ask me about how he can put on muscle, what is a good routine, and to top it off, he then says "but I don’t want to get too big, not as big as you, no offense!" Now, to me this was not an offense, but a compliment! I always dreamed of one day that little 119 pound me would be considered as "muscular", but to be considered muscular and to be considered "too big" was great!
So, to answer his question, I told him that it would be impossible to get to be this big unless he really REALLY wanted to, was willing to sacrifice any other activities other than bodybuilding, eat until he was sick and tired of eating, lift insanely heavy weights until he felt like he was going to pass out, and then start it ALL OVER AGAIN! To say that "I want to train, but not get too big" is like saying "I want to learn to play the piano, but I do not want to become like Mozart"! Silly, isn’t it?
In any case, I gave him some food for thought, told him to RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH, and then come to the gym with a PLAN, and if he ever needed help or a spot, if I’m there and in between sets I’d help. Now, will he stick to it? Maybe, maybe not. But with his remark, he has certainly helped me to keep going towards my goal…GET BIGGER!
And with that, time for another meal in preparation and eating towards the next workout…
Happy New Year Everyone!!







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