OKAY NOW IM PISSED!
Sorry if you got the wrong impression!! My Husband is NOT Jealous! Its Rude and disrespectful for people to talk to anyone in that way….NO Matter what they are or ARENT wearing in their pics ya know what I mean! I have a cute little santa bikini on OMG!! Im a slut now huh….free game for all the pervs that wanna whack it and talk to me?? Grow the F up and go to adultfriendfinder or some free porn site to find you some action creep! Wow! Is it a crime to like the way you look and put, what you feel is a pretty pic of yourself up and expect that some jerk isnt going to send you UNSOLICITED PM’s and be a Fing jerk!! AGAIN THIS ISNT A DATING SITE FOLKS!!!! Or am I WRONG?????? Im sorry for having to get back on here and say this but, Im really a VERY VERY Nice Person and am pissed at some of the BS I am hearing from the jerks that Don’t know what your talking about!! Sorry but, this is Bullcrap!! ~
November 29, 2007 at 8:30 am
Hey I totally agree–all you guys trying to say she brought it on herself are idiots! Her goals are CLEARLY listed at the top of her profile and if you can’t understand that you’ve got bigger problems. Her avi is beautiful and tasteful–she looks like a lady and not like those skanks that show off their privates all the time! She definitely doesn’t deserve the comments some of you guys are making. My husband isn’t jealous when guys make rude or nasty comments–he is furious that i would be DISRESPECTED in that manner. This is not what this website is about–it is about goals, achieving them, and posting gains of your progress for advice and support.
November 29, 2007 at 8:33 am
Well said! Sorry about the few but most of us are positive friends and supporters. I think your Avi is very tasteful. Your progress pics look great!! Keep training hard:)
November 29, 2007 at 8:39 am
I feel ya! Totally disrespectful. And there is no reason for them now to bring the hubby in and try to make him into a green-eyed monster just b/c you don’t want him to feel like you’ve been disrespecting him online.
Oh yeah, and you did bring this on yourself by taking care of yourself and being a natural beauty *roll eyes* How dare you post a pic of yourself! Especially one that shows the hard work you’ve put into your physique. Pull out those oversized sweat pants and cover up your face if you want to be left alone. (sarcasm…my specialty) LOL!
Good luck! Some people will argue you to death over whether the sky is blue.
Cristal
November 29, 2007 at 8:40 am
Thank you so much!! I really appreciate your kind words!! I love and respect my hubby and would be very upset and not want him on a site if women were talking to him like that! ya know…..~Beth Thank you again!!
November 29, 2007 at 8:47 am
I know it’s easier said than done, but just ignore the negativity - it kinda bothers me that some people suggest one is asking for it if they post a certain type of pictures (WTF?!), but I’ve come to find that there’s jerks everywhere and no matter how hard you try, they’ll still be jerks regardless, if not with you then to someone else (or, to you some more because they also tend to be the type to push people’s buttons!). Focus on the ones that love and cheer you on, chickie - there’s more good than bad here to support you
November 29, 2007 at 9:06 am
The way I see it… THIS is the place where you can put the pictures up of yourself where you can show off a little bit. You shouldn’t have to deal with disgusting remarks from losers or comments from people who think you might be too revealing. For the most part I think this is a positive site and very supportive and I think anyone who’s on here for reasons other than to improve their health and physique need to get the heck out.
November 29, 2007 at 9:09 am
THANK YOU THANK YOU DCJOSH77!!! YEAH!! YOUR RIGHT ON IT!!! EXACTLY!! WELL SAID!! HAVE A GREAT DAY AND THANKS FOR SAYING IT SO WELL FOR ME…..:) ~BETH
November 29, 2007 at 9:13 am
Well I think your santa suit pic is very tasteful!!
You are not showing any naughties and your pic is less revealing than a bikini. I dont see any harm in it at all. Your a lovely looking woman and you should be proud of your progress, I would’nt change a thing. And I am sure your husband is proud ( not jealous ) of you too!
November 29, 2007 at 10:40 am
I don’t think it is always what you wear. If you’ve seen my photo, I just show my sholders and one leg. Sometimes I get a nasty person emailing me. Some people don’t know how to be respectful when they want to tell you they think your attractive.
November 29, 2007 at 12:26 pm
Come on guys! Let’s get along and not get our feelings hurt. CRLGRL, I think that beth shouldn’t have to take down her pic. Part of the point trying to be made is that we should be able to post tasteful pics of ourselves w/o getting crude remarks…there just needs to be a line between tasteful compliments and tacky come ons. FAMILYLOVE–don’t get so defensive. I could see how beth could interpretate your 1st comment as insinuating that she brought this on herself.
Please don’t take offense to my comments guys, just my opinion.
November 29, 2007 at 12:47 pm
I don’t have different standards at all. There are some that do, and if that works for them fine. I think your picture is fine, and I would be fine with my wife posting it as well. It is exactly what you described, and cute bikini outfit that fits the season. I like it, and would love to get one similar for my wife.
November 29, 2007 at 12:56 pm
Well, here’s my 2 cents into this, I think this site is to encourage one another on their future goals and accomplisments. I have seen some great accomplishments and from some of the true winners! Some pics don’t always reflect a pose or muscle group, but just how good or bad we look or used to look like. It is called INSPIRATION, not to "hook up" with me or whatever. Unfortunately, not everyone sees this site as that and we have to unfortunately contend with immature people like that sometimes. To all of you, keep on fighting the good fight and accomplish all your goals!
November 29, 2007 at 7:26 pm
Your avi is very cute. Wow. I had a guy ask me if I wanted to see naked pictures of him and I said no and asked him not to contact me anymore and he hasn’t. Your right. This is NOT a dating site. Be proud of your accomplishments and good for you for telling it like it is!
November 30, 2007 at 4:09 pm
Unfortunately there will always be some idiot out there to ruin it for others. Most of us are here for the right reasons. I’ve learned to just ignore the morons. You can always forward their messages to bb.com admin guy and he’ll suspend them.
December 11, 2007 at 7:21 am
If anyone gets a harassing or distasteful PM, please forward it to me, thanks, and we’ll take care of it.
January 10, 2008 at 6:03 pm
I wanted to say i’m glad this issue is being raised! I have stated on my occupation that i am a trainer…and only 3 emails that i have received have been ligitimate training questions…another handful were very respectful comments without lude insinuations…but some were just AWFUL and lacked any thought or mindfulness at all! You are a beautiful woman and your accomplishments are wonderful! You are on my friend list and i’m very glad for that!! Keep up the good work!! I’m also sure your husband is very very proud of you!!