IS It Just me…..???
Or does it mean that If I have a profile on here, that I am Free game for lude remarks and non professional comments about my body? I came on here thinking it was a place for like minded individuals that are all here to help support and learn from one another and respect each other! Isnt this a site for that purpose?? I didnt sign up and WOULDN’T sign up for some *dating* site….I AM HAPPILY Married and WANT to Stay that way…….I want to make new friends and learn new things about building muscle, competing, and help marketing my career goals in the fitness industry, but, I DONT want to have my hubby walk up and see some comment made in a seemingly derogatory manner and accuse me of wtf ever! Please tell me a Polite way to say hey, be nice and respectful and we can talk and be friends…..or get the F* away from me and go to HotBabesInHeat.com sorry don’t mean to sound like a Biotch………! :)
November 29, 2007 at 7:28 am
Amen sista woman! I’ve had the same issues myself and it is definitely not cosher! This is a bodybuilding site yet I’ve seen more chicks "parts" then I have seen gains and physical improvements. I think that has something to do with the vulgarity of other men’s comments.
November 29, 2007 at 7:28 am
I do agree with what you are saying!! I don’t like it when people say things to me or my wife that don’t pertain to bb and fitness. You can put a view prior to posting on your site. Good luck with your goals.
November 29, 2007 at 7:30 am
Fern aka msfitness68 commented on the same thing last week i think. But you have to understand there are immature ppl where ever you go on the net. Although there are many mature ppl here they have their own little circles so you have to get into one of those circles and invite like minded individuals to that circle. just analyze comments and you will see who is here for what
November 29, 2007 at 7:33 am
I mean this in the most respectful way possible. but you’re not exactly posing on stage as a bobybuilding or figure competitor. In your current profile pic, you’re wearing a fuzzy Santa Clause bra with red stockings and knee-high black high-heel boots.
That usually opens the door for suggestive comments…it’s only human nature to flirt with one another!
November 29, 2007 at 7:35 am
Amen sister! I think that a few on here feed off the constant attention from the opposite sex. Tastless pics produce tasteless comments. Unfortunetly that spills over onto the rest of us. I completely agree with you. There are ways to say that you have acheived a great body w/o it sounding vulger. Sorry you are getting the negative attention
Cristal
November 29, 2007 at 7:36 am
Yeah!! I thought I was going to be bashed for saying that!!
My Luv to Ambrosia and KVN!! Its ok to tell someone that look good but, in a polite manner ya know! I don’t try to hide things from my hubby and he knows my passwords and I wouldnt want him to think I am being disrepectful to him in anyway! I have defended my being on this site to meet people in the Figure Arena, track my progress, learn new things and help Market myself to gain Notariaty!! Im a NICE person and As Long as some one respects me and the fact that I am NOT on a dating site looking for some action!! I would love to know them and talk and learn from them!! okay enough on this Rant!! Wow!! I love that when I am working out I am So much more Aggressive with things! Whe I use to be a little baby and let people walk on me and never spoke up about it!! 
~Beth
November 29, 2007 at 7:56 am
Can’t say I agree with you Jwojo. Her pic looks like it was taken on a professional set. Maybe her working out has led her to some fitness modeling. I’d be posting my pics if I got a fitness model job. It’s just another way of showing your fitness success…there’s other ways than just being in comps.
November 29, 2007 at 8:07 am
Guys are pretty much always on the prowl. And sometimes they just throw something outthere to see if a woman is game. My wife gets comments all the time, I don’t worry about it. If a man can take my wife off the internet, I mean not even in person, but the internet, he can have her.
November 29, 2007 at 8:08 am
I’d say jwobo has a point. Its a shame that your husband is the jealous type and would give you a hard time just because some a-hole posted a lewd comment. Of course, he appears to have a lot to be jealous about. Tell him its the price of being married to someone who is beautiful and famous!
November 29, 2007 at 8:22 am
Why are we bringing her husband into it? She’s sayin that she doesn’t want him to be disrespected. I wouldn’t want my hubby to see some of the comments that have been posted to me. The comments are unwarrented and maybe we don’t want our husbands to think we are throwing ourselves out there giving reason to receive those type of comments. Besides, whether the hubby is upset or not…it doesn’t matter. That’s beside the point.
November 29, 2007 at 8:26 am
Amen GRLEGRL!! Luv ya sista!! Jwojo can kiss my azz too!! what a petty jerk you are!! Brent if you have a wife or a girlfriend would you want that for her! Please correct me if Im wrong…this site is meant for Serious fitness minded individulas that are here to help Each other and support it other in their FITNESS goals!! Not, be treated like a meat market!
November 29, 2007 at 8:34 am
For me it has nothing to do with my husband. It has to do with self respect. you will never see a picture of me showning my booty ore my boobs hanging out of my shirt. That is for my husband to see and no one else. If you post pictures that look like you are in bedroom clothes than dont get mad that people make comments. even when I see a pic of a female that is not clothed I am like wow she is hot. people can not help it. some voice it others dont
December 11, 2007 at 12:49 pm
Word! To familylove in last post… you rock!