Keepin it REAL!! *Bethy* BodyBlog

Sorry if you got the wrong impression!! My Husband is NOT Jealous! Its Rude and disrespectful for people to talk to anyone in that way….NO Matter what they are or ARENT wearing in their pics ya know what I mean! I have a cute little santa bikini on OMG!! Im a slut now huh….free game for all the pervs that wanna whack it and talk to me?? Grow the F up and go to adultfriendfinder or some free porn site to find you some action creep! Wow! Is it a crime to like the way you look and put, what you feel is a pretty pic of yourself up and expect that some jerk isnt going to send you UNSOLICITED PM’s and be a Fing jerk!! AGAIN THIS ISNT A DATING SITE FOLKS!!!! Or am I WRONG?????? Im sorry for having to get back on here and say this but, Im really a VERY VERY Nice Person and am pissed at some of the BS I am hearing from the jerks that Don’t know what your talking about!! Sorry but, this is Bullcrap!! ~

Or does it mean that If I have a profile on here, that I am Free game for lude remarks and non professional comments about my body? I came on here thinking it was a place for like minded individuals that are all here to help support and learn from one another and respect each other! Isnt this a site for that purpose?? I didnt sign up and WOULDN’T sign up for some *dating* site….I AM HAPPILY Married and WANT to Stay that way…….I want to make new friends and learn new things about building muscle, competing, and help marketing my career goals in the fitness industry, but, I DONT want  to have my hubby walk up and see some comment made in a seemingly derogatory manner and accuse me of wtf ever! Please tell me a Polite way to say hey, be nice and respectful and we can talk and be friends…..or get the F* away from me and go to HotBabesInHeat.com sorry don’t mean to sound like a Biotch………! :)  

I trained with an old friend of mine, he’s a seasoned bodybuilder and offered to train me for free, since Ive Never formaly trained myself or anyone else to be a Competitor (other than cheerleading) and I really thought I had to go to the next level mentally and physically!! Well, I trained with him once about 10 years ago and he promised to make me Cry and that he would make me quit before I could finish the workout…..I told him he may make me cry but, Wouldnt make me quit!! Stubborn me, trained that first day chest and tris!! I cried but, didnt quit and was pushes Beyond any limits I had ever gone before. When I woke up and my triceps looked like the elephant man I KNEW it wasnt good. Needless to say I blew them completely out and went through 6-8 weeks of physical therapy and didnt train with my friend Again! But, now that I WANT to compete I thought heck its free and that may be Just what I need to Reach for greatness!! Im a personal trainer and have never trained bodybuilders or athletes so, Im not up on what I will need to be doing, and know I want to feel like Im doing *enough* in the gym to get the results I Need to compete!! (To make a long story shorter….)So, I trek my butt and hour away from home to my friends gym and well, it didnt go good! Im NOT afraid of physical pain and exertion……but, think maybe that being mentally beaten and not allowed to even catch my breathe while working out even between exercises, and being put through some what the ringer. That may not be quite what I Needed! Thank God, I have several other friends that compete and they reassured me that that was NOT a Good method. (at least not for me) Anyhow, I have a wonderful support group and a VERY Knowledgable Trainer that assures me I can catch my breathe between exercises and get water so that I can actually tackle the task at hand without having to be spotted almost the ENTIRE set….!! I love my friend but, think maybe its best we stay friends and not try to endeavor into a training relationship per say!! whew!! had to get this off my chest!  thanks! P.S. it was a great leg workout….I may have to do it ON MY OWN!!! hehehe 

Okay I see More than one ALmost Naked girls…..hhhmmm does one NEED to spread there legs to show off there muscle definition?? okay I know I have the sexy christmas pic….but, its just a motivational pic for me…Not judging just saying……I Promise any NEW pics I will be putting up will be PG13….teeheehee!! Kudos for the ladies confidence and nice assets….but, this IS a BODYBUILDING Site not an adult sex site….or is it??? lmao okay Rant done……..!!

Okay so, I have incorporated the help of a very close Personal Trainer, Pro Bodybuilder friend of mine, to help me tweak what I already know, but, want to hear him reassure me, and also Teach me ALOT that I don’t know! I have almost got my diet down to an art…..and really want to step up my training sessions, since I feel like I’m not doing enough or getting enough out of them! I asked him to train me a couple of days a week and KNOW he will kick my Azz in the process….But that’s EXACTLY what I WANT!!! lol  I will be playing around with my workout tracker and workout journal later this week sometime to compare how things will be changing for me!! I’m so glad to have found this site! It has been such a Motivational awesome experience thus far!! Thanks to all that have shared Knowledge and Encouragement! I Can’t wait to get there!! ~Bethy  

Nothing Super Exciting today….Still Majorly BUMMED about the UT / Aggie Game. Watched that Catastrophy at the gym last night, with a bunch of fellow gym rats as we all ran back and forth watching the games and running to do a set  then running back to see what was happening and ALL Praying for a Miracle……But, to no avail!! We Lost! 30 to 38. So today, the gym was busy for a Saturday……Thanksgiving day repentance? So, I did my 3 miles on the treadmill and proceeded to Kill my abs! It felt so good to actually do some ab work that I could feel! I will definitely be keeping this ab workout as part of my training regimen!! Okay I will try to be better at this blog thing! Have a Great Night! ~Beth

Okay this has nothing to do with my training or progress! But, I have to give this Shout out to one of the Niceiest people I have meet on Bodyspace and Myspace!! Fern Ms fitness took home the 1st place trophy in the Masters Figure and 4th Overall this past weekend. And I couldnt be happier for her and just wanted to say Congrats!! She is an Awesome person and a Fantastic athlete! I hope I can do half as good as she has. She is Truly an inspiration!! (I know I said it) hehe Congratulations Fern!! You deserve the BEST!! Thanks for being You!! ~Beth

Okay so I feel A little bit better! These pics *look* a little better than the last one’s! Yea, I know Im Not in the bikini….maybe I will take some in a bikini tommorrow….we will have to see how good I feel then!! haha I just thought I showed a little tiny progress…….so, to make my bruised ego feel better I decided to take some pics to try to save face from my other pics taken 5 days ago! Amazing what 5 days can do of eating clean and hitting the gym…..! So, I am a little pleased with myself!! Hope all you out there in BodySpace world are doing just Fine tonight and are feeling good about your training and progress Too! If not, give me a shout and I will cheer ya up or make you laugh hysterically!!

 ~Bethy

Well, I was a Bad Girl and slept in……..after being sick most of the week (Magnisium Citrate…..long kinda funny story but, ugh…dont do it) lol and then taking my before pics last night I am drinking my coffee and off to Run the gammot of Cardio as long as my little body can stand today!! I must admit I am Still Very depressed at my Before pics!! I looked better than that, after walking out of the hospital after Birth!! It’s my own fault for making the choice to eat and drink Crap, and not exercise!! I figure I will focus on my cardio for a week or 2 and keep my diet tight and then I will have lost some of the fat that is haunting me!! I must admit having been Bulimic for all of my 20’s and into my 30’s it is Real Hard to see the pics and not do some of the *Old* methods!! Cause they are quick!! NOT!!! I KNOW the Right way and choose that path! I do appreciate all the well wishes and support I have received! Gawd Knows I Totally Need it!! Not Too much support  at home right now…….No not whinning just saying…..:) hehe