Comments on: Married people flirting on bodyspace… more losers who need to get the f** http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/ Layne's ramblings & thoughts Fri, 11 Dec 2009 05:24:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=0.32 by: rmissg818 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-11363641 Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:37:04 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-11363641 WOW!!! I love your opening statement. You are right. I love to read comments from those who are NOT afraid to step outside the box and articulate their opinion. Kudos to you. WOW!!! I love your opening statement. You are right. I love to read comments from those who are NOT afraid to step outside the box and articulate their opinion. Kudos to you.

]]> by: GHMLS http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-10852401 Wed, 12 Aug 2009 04:34:13 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-10852401 hey man, i know i'm a young guy but i've seen marriages go down the drain because of the very thing your talking about...keep on preachin' it hey man,

i know i’m a young guy but i’ve seen marriages go down the drain because of the very thing your talking about…keep on preachin’ it

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]]> by: JamerJay http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9629462 Sat, 31 Jan 2009 16:36:03 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9629462 Bro, i am so glad to see you've already brought this to the attention of people on this site. I guess I never really touched on the marriage/relationship issue.. But you're completely right. Like you &amp;#38;amp; your wife, me and my girl have a very solid relationship and trust each other completely to be on this site and know that it is for purposes regarding bodybuilding and fitness, not to pick up or flirt with girls or guys. I really don't think being old school is any excuse for what these men &amp;#38;amp; women are doing. Like you say.. There are married men &amp;#38;amp; women (anyone in a dedicated relationship, too) flirting openly and posting pictures that should not be seen by anyone but their own partners. I mean, there are married women here with children.. And they are posting pictures of themselves spread over furniture like pornstars. If I could also throw in another thought, which i'm not saying is 100% correct as i'm not married, but which I believe: I do not think flirting keeps a marriage alive. Trust, honesty, being deeply attracted to every aspect of your partner, and making sure you keep the romance and flirting alive in YOUR OWN ONE ON ONE RELATONSHIP is what keeps a marriage healthy. There is difference between a healthy 5 year relationship and drawn out 22 year relationship. How does this lady above even know her husband is still in love with her? I would question any man who thinks it's ok for his wife to flirt openly like this. There is something deeply wrong rooted in that relationship. I am glad you are highlighting the issue bro, keep it going!! Bro, i am so glad to see you’ve already brought this to the attention of people on this site.

I guess I never really touched on the marriage/relationship issue.. But you’re completely right.

Like you & your wife, me and my girl have a very solid relationship and trust each other completely to be on this site and know that it is for purposes regarding bodybuilding and fitness, not to pick up or flirt with girls or guys.

I really don’t think being old school is any excuse for what these men & women are doing.

Like you say.. There are married men & women (anyone in a dedicated relationship, too) flirting openly and posting pictures that should not be seen by anyone but their own partners.

I mean, there are married women here with children.. And they are posting pictures of themselves spread over furniture like pornstars.

If I could also throw in another thought, which i’m not saying is 100% correct as i’m not married, but which I believe:

I do not think flirting keeps a marriage alive. Trust, honesty, being deeply attracted to every aspect of your partner, and making sure you keep the romance and flirting alive in YOUR OWN ONE ON ONE RELATONSHIP is what keeps a marriage healthy.

There is difference between a healthy 5 year relationship and drawn out 22 year relationship.

How does this lady above even know her husband is still in love with her? I would question any man who thinks it’s ok for his wife to flirt openly like this. There is something deeply wrong rooted in that relationship.

I am glad you are highlighting the issue bro, keep it going!!

]]> by: str8flexed http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9628752 Sat, 31 Jan 2009 15:13:19 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9628752 looks like i'm not the only one here who actually has a brain: http://blog.bodybuilding.com/JamerJay/2009/01/27/bodyspace-glorifying-the-rise-of-the-female-attention-seeking-pornstars-2/ looks like i’m not the only one here who actually has a brain:

http://blog.bodybuilding.com/JamerJay/2009/01/27/bodyspace-glorifying-the-rise-of-the-female-attention-seeking-pornstars-2/

]]> by: Richard http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9613422 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 23:32:26 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9613422 Layne is 100% correct, and obviously has some morals, unlike the ever-growing number of desperate, pathetic BodySpace members seeking love and attention in the wrong places. I’m sure their families would be proud if they were to come across their BodySpace profiles. Love may fade but doesn't mean you have to chase someone 20 years younger on BodySpace to feel good about yourself. Disgusting. Layne is 100% correct, and obviously has some morals, unlike the ever-growing number of desperate, pathetic BodySpace members seeking love and attention in the wrong places. I’m sure their families would be proud if they were to come across their BodySpace profiles. Love may fade but doesn’t mean you have to chase someone 20 years younger on BodySpace to feel good about yourself. Disgusting.

]]> by: miami_fever http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9603842 Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:01:41 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9603842 layne is the **** and dont forget it! all you hoes who dont respect your significant another enough to show love to them you have yet to grab the concept of pure and true love! layne is the shit and dont forget it! all you hoes who dont respect your significant another enough to show love to them you have yet to grab the concept of pure and true love!

]]> by: t9388cs http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9523812 Sat, 24 Jan 2009 19:18:35 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9523812 Thanks for speaking up Layne. The site is bodybuilding.com! It's sad when people have such self-esteem issues and need this kind of attention from others. I get my self-esteem boost by lifting heavier than I did the day before, not from others, from my own personal accomplishments!!! Thanks for speaking up Layne. The site is bodybuilding.com! It’s sad when people have such self-esteem issues and need this kind of attention from others. I get my self-esteem boost by lifting heavier than I did the day before, not from others, from my own personal accomplishments!!!

]]> by: MamaBall http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9469792 Thu, 22 Jan 2009 18:02:25 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9469792 Exactly! Exactly!

]]> by: kiss_rythmn http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9401742 Tue, 20 Jan 2009 00:37:07 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/str8flexed/2009/01/04/married-people-flirting-on-bodyspace-more-losers-who-need-to-get-the-f-out/#comment-9401742 Oh boy Layne you really got this rollin!!! Ha. So i guess I am going to have to put my measely two cents in as well! i agree with Layne 100%. I've only been married to Ben for 2years so I'm sure I dont know what i am talking about either...ha! But, I do know that I have enough respect for myself, my body and my marriage not to put up provacative pics just so I can get some attention from random guys on bodyspace. The times when I have received inappropriate comments I have simply deleted them. BL85...Marriage is something GOD created, not us! Yes, sexual urges are normal, but lusting after someone youre not married to and subjecting yourself to forms of temptation (ie. flirting, porn, dirty magazines, etc) only set one up for failure in a marriage. You make it sound like all men will cheat because it is in a man's nature to. Yeah, temptations are out there and in today's society they surround people every day. But like anything worthwhile, a marriage is something that takes work...hard work! My husband and I may have only been together for a few years, but we make it a point in our lives to keep our marriage GOD centered and focused! Oh boy Layne you really got this rollin!!! Ha. So i guess I am going to have to put my measely two cents in as well! i agree with Layne 100%.
I’ve only been married to Ben for 2years so I’m sure I dont know what i am talking about either…ha! But, I do know that I have enough respect for myself, my body and my marriage not to put up provacative pics just so I can get some attention from random guys on bodyspace. The times when I have received inappropriate comments I have simply deleted them.
BL85…Marriage is something GOD created, not us! Yes, sexual urges are normal, but lusting after someone youre not married to and subjecting yourself to forms of temptation (ie. flirting, porn, dirty magazines, etc) only set one up for failure in a marriage. You make it sound like all men will cheat because it is in a man’s nature to. Yeah, temptations are out there and in today’s society they surround people every day. But like anything worthwhile, a marriage is something that takes work…hard work!
My husband and I may have only been together for a few years, but we make it a point in our lives to keep our marriage GOD centered and focused!

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