How Can You Mend A Broken Heart?
I’m thinking, I have a broken heart. My husband broke my heart. He suffered some heartache himself, except, he’s over it and I’m not. Here’s where it pays off to be single, he breaks your heart and you can go on the hunt for another heart-breaker! However, in the married life, not that easy. Atleast it shouldn’t be. Although all apologies have been made and everything is now back to normal there is this unexplainable sadness that surfaces out of nowhere. I’m not harboring hate, anger or vengence. If I close my eyes and shut the world out, I wish it would have never happened. I’m disappointed. Then there were friends who were privy to our situation who no longer call now that all is settled. I guess there’s nothing to gossip about. I’m not only disappointed but also embarrassed. But what hurts the most, is knowing how we tore into each other. It was ugly, hurtful and I’m still spinning from it.
December 23, 2008 at 8:21 am
Thats too bad that things like that happen. I feel for you. Sorry never really heals the heart does it. Only time and several intense workouts seem to heal the heart. With something so sad sitting upon you its probably hard to enjoy the holidays but I hope you do have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Years.
December 23, 2008 at 8:44 am
I was just watching the Wizard of Oz with my kids and what the Wizard says to TinMan is so true; "hearts (love) will always be flawed until someone invents one (a heart) that can’t be broken (I paraphrase).
December 23, 2008 at 8:58 am
The saying goes that time heals all wounds. I disagree, I think it’s a combination of time and communication. Good luck, you know I know how you feel.
December 23, 2008 at 9:15 am
I’m sorry to hear about your hurt. Marriage is the hardest thing I’ve ever done (harder than a Ph.D. or childbirth/parenting). Good luck girl! I hope you heal as much as possible and are able to move forward together.
December 23, 2008 at 9:21 am
Such is married life.
My husband and I have been through the wringer too. Like cjacks said, time and communication helps.