Two girls…one guy.
We started off by discussing fitness, his loss of appetite, feeling tired and so on. Then, out of left field, he said, "I think my girlfriend is bi-sexual." To leave alone or to go on, I wondered. I kept things going. "Why so?" I was told she wanted a threesome, two girls, one guy. I asked if he went for it and well…hush, I can’t tell you that! LOL.
I thought about the ultimate man fantasy for the rest of my day, two girls and one guy. Why? Seriously, you can only do so much. Hey, I hear some of you….you’ll die trying! Uh-hun…LOL. Then I thought about two guys and one girl. Well now, sounds like a lot of work! I’m thinking, if you’re game, well why the hell not. Who you saving it for? We’re all headed to 80 or so, if we’re lucky. At that point, I’m thinking no one will so much as glance in my direcion. How many elderly people do you look at and think…"Yeah, I want some of that!" Hell, at that age you might have Parkinsons and you’re partner would come just from you slapping his meat around trying to grab it! LOL.
So, should you play it up while you ‘got game?’ I wonder about morals, integrity and what have you. Is what you do who you are? At some point, is what you "did" simply that, something you did and you no longer are that person, but you do have an intersting story to tell. I called up my husband, filled him in on the conversation over lunch. He laughed, is it of interest I asked. LOL…hmmm, what to think, what to think.
June 25, 2008 at 1:14 pm
I say go for it if you want. It sounds like your interested and curious. You said yourself that you don’t see it happening at 80yo. So, get it on and enjoy it if you want. Quit thinking about it. JUST DO IT!!!
June 25, 2008 at 1:26 pm
Experimentation often torpedo’s stable relationships. If you’re single and swingin’ there’s something to be said for new experiences, but since trust is the biggest must have in any relatonship, and sexual solidarity is part of trust, the risks outweigh the benefits.
June 25, 2008 at 1:50 pm
You are what you do. And while I haven’t had the ‘dream’ of a 3some fulfilled, I’ve done a lot that I shouldn’t have, knowingly and willingly. Looking back it was an experience to learn from, but for everything you gain there’s something lost.
June 25, 2008 at 8:46 pm
Sounds like we share the same fantasies. I do say go for it. I’ve been warming hubbie up to the notion for 3 years now. lol I figure he’ll probably cave in about the time nobody looks at me.
June 25, 2008 at 9:10 pm
As long as you both talk it out and understand that once done, can’t un-do it. Some times we look back at our past experiences and say "wow, cool." and some times "OH SHIT, what have I done." If the risk out weighs the reward maybe just talking about it would be fantasy enough. If your relationship is strong enough to endure it, then I’de say explore to your heart’s content. ANYWAY, good luck. C
June 27, 2008 at 12:00 pm
You know I’d love to try it. But I don’t think most people’s egos would allow for it just to be a "good time." If your ego is at all fragile, I think you’d be left wondering did they prefer the other person.
When we were only dating my now wife once brought it up and said she was interested, but, I think if I suggested it now I think it would shatter her confidence "aren’t I enough".
June 29, 2008 at 8:04 am
Don’t know girl i think the thrill would def b rockin. Just so euphoric (taboo) what a high. It b hard to stop. Like a drug I think you would always try to reach that level again.
But hell I damn sure couldn’t resist. I guess if there is alcohol or something that involved you could get away with it.
Ive told my wife several times not that I wanted to but what ever it take to make her happy. I’d understand if she wanted to bring her friends home.
I know its a diff situation your considering doining it for your man. All I can really say is WOW Im jealous.