Sometimes, you can’t fix broke….
Lately there isn’t much to say. There is plenty going on, however, it’s one of those phases where sitting back and observing, analyzing the many situations is not only prudent but necessary.
My husband was a real bitch to deal with this weekend. In a “woe” is me mood. Everything was not right. Come Friday night, we had a stupid spat and so, I took off. Yep, to our backyard with my beer. We did make up about 15 minutes later, but ya know, by then…I was getting my drunk on. Come 2:30 in the morning I called it quits. The Saturday sun brought my punishing hangover to light. Hubby still out of sorts. By then we had a “talk,” life not going his way and he didn’t want to talk about it. Could be, due to my horrendous hangover I heard him loud and clear. I didn’t have it in me to fight or fix the situation. He wanted to work on the house and be left alone. So, he worked like a demon on the house and I laid in bed with my dibilitating illness. We had a normal Sunday, he wanted to grill, have a couple of beers and asked I join. Boy, I didn’t want to, I was still in pain, I did though. And so, as he got himself together, new game plan, new mission and of course great make-up sex (it always helps) I thought, sometimes, you can’t fix broke. There are times where broke is not worth fixing. It’s best to let go, move on and let it be. Sometimes, it’s not your job to fix broke. Then there are those times where broke will fix and mend on it’s own. And so, I drank to that, 4 pounds heavier now and no hangover….it was one tough weekend!
June 24, 2008 at 9:45 pm
I feel your pain, only ours is no longer fixable, after 19 years she is leaving, not for the lack of trying on my part.
Hang in there if you can, do what you can now to make it work. I know this is not real encouraging but I just had to reply seen as this sure sounded familiar, just the other way around for us.
Sure could go for a beer now,,,,