HEY…mind the pussy
While at the gym a couple of newcomers were working out next to me. One of the guys couldn’t lift a certain amount of weight and his friend said to him, “you’re such a pussy.” Those men and I made eye contact and they apologized. First of all, just the word itself brings a visual to my mind. Don’t know why, it’s a no effort required visual. I’m thinking it’s simply due to conditioning. Certain words bring out certain thoughts…like ass or dick. Did you get a visual or am I just one sick thinking puppy? Aside from the visual, something else irked me, at the moment, I walked off disturbed and not sure what was so disturbing.
Needless to say the word “pussy” has been on my mind and I’ve noticed the term is coined in many different ways. For example, “you’re a pussy” or “pussy whipped” or “pussified.” Despite the many ways in which the term is coined what was apparent is the association of ”pussy” with weakness, less than, being timid or somewhat unmanly. The other obvious fact, it’s not a compliment. And so I can’t help but wonder and ask myself, does it jive? The association of “weak” and “feeble” with the word “pussy?” As adults have we processed such thoughts through our heads and questioned the evolution of it?
So, along comes my husband, he was frustrated and said he was a “pussy” for not having such and such license. LOL, ironic isn’t it? So, I asked…”Honey, why pussy?“ To which he just didn’t have an explanation for.
It just doesn’t make sense to me to be honest with you. Taking the word itself, in it’s literal sense a pussy rules the animal kingdom. What is it, a lion, tiger? Male or not, it’s still a pussy. Taking the word itself into account, if you don’t get any, you’re not happy. Someone is always in chase of one. Then, there are those special cases where some men want to trade in their rod for one. Let’s not forget the the whole baby thing, you think taking a dump is work…yeah. The moral of this blog, to give you some PAUSE the next time, if ever, you decide to call someone a “pussy” or “pussify” a situation. Sexual or not, some people or situations are not worthy of the term….so hey, mind the pussy.
February 25, 2008 at 10:01 pm
I thought it ruled the world.
February 25, 2008 at 10:16 pm
LOL…you are quite the MAN! A very smart one indeed.
February 26, 2008 at 11:45 pm
So is that how I got here? Damn I’ve been lied to!
February 27, 2008 at 6:41 am
Unfortunately, or not, I most likely experience that no effort visual way too much….hhmm…
February 27, 2008 at 7:13 am
a "pussy" can’t be weak it gives life, and controls men and women. Most men are insearch of one or more and when they find it they become very weak so tell me where, who and what has the power…
February 27, 2008 at 9:43 am
A "pussy" can make you rich, and can also get you killed. And all I have ever heard was how good it is.