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Created:02/25/2007
Last Modified:05/27/2007
Total Comments:6



Setting the Example

I think transforming my body has been on my mind for some time now. My mom passed away in 2001 and along with her passing went a lot of emotional baggage that I’m not even going to bore you with. I was laid off later that year - that was a GREAT thing - and I decided to change my life. I changed careers and started making lifestyle changes with the main goal of getting back in shape and losing about 40 to 50 pounds.

Progress was slow, but over the next 3 to 4 years I did lose some weight. I started noticing something though…everytime I went to a staff development, which was quite often, I couldn’t help but notice that 80 to 90% of the teachers in the room were overweight if not obese and I was probably in that group!! The more and more I thought about this, the more I started thinking I had to change. After all, like it or not, I was (and still am) a role model for so many impressionable 11 to 14 year olds and everyday I hear something about child obesity.

So, in December of 2005, I got serious. I started going to the gym 5 or 6 days a week instead of 2 or 3 days. I started running even though I had always told myself that I absolutely HATE running. After a few months, I got to a good weight for my height, but I was still not satisfied. My body was still soft and mushy even though my weight was ok according to all the charts.

I started paying attention to how the guys in the gym workout. They didn’t do all that much cardio, why should I? They lift weights, why shouldn’t I do that? So I started lifting. I wouldn’t have called it bodybuilding, after all, I just wanted some "tone". But, something amazing happened - my body really responded - I was actually changing my body, seeing some REAL results.

I went back to school after the summer break thinking I looked a little bit better than before summer break. I mean I had lost a little bit more weight, but not too much. My colleagues were stunned at the transformation. People I had never talked to came up to me and told me how good I looked and many people were interested in what I was doing.

I still think about the make-up of the room every single time I’m in a staff development, but now I’m in the minority. What’s on my mind now, though, is not how do I change me, but how can I use my journey to make an impact in the world? How do I motivate other teachers to realize that they are role models and how can we change the direction of our kids today if we’re not setting a good example? Any ideas out there? Please share.

6 Responses to “Setting the Example”

  1. jdmalm123 Says:

    Great story and well-written. Congrats on making amazing changes (you look flawless). Your appearance and testimonial alone will help many. I would suggest you let people approach you and then just tell your story. They may or may not respond, but that’s up to them. Just like you, if they haven’t made an internal commitment, then there’s nothing you can do if they are not in "student" mode.

    We need more teachers like you. Your mom is looking down on you with much pride. :)


  2. tbilisi25 Says:

    Everyone needs to find a motivator within themeselves. I don’t believe in motivating someone who is not interested. We can set good examples and that’s pretty much all we can do. Other teachers will look at you and believe me they will be enveous, wanting to be in the similar shape. If they need help, I’m sure you will not hesitate to put them on the right track. Hard work pays off. Good luck!


  3. wannabe400club Says:

    Congrats on making amazing changes!!!!


  4. hecklerhk91 Says:

    Well, you look great!! I’d kill for abs like yours, I have a LONG way to go for that, can’t quite grip the diet concept, keep up the good work, you make an excelent role model for the kids!


  5. kingtriton Says:

    I’ve been a teacher for a while so I know what you mean. Many overweight teachers and it doesn’t set a good example for the kids. You look fantastic! I also coach so I have lot’s of chances to teach the kids about fitness. Good job!


  6. BahamaMan Says:

    Hey Teach, You’re one of my new favorite people on the site! Talk about finding a kindred spirit. I’m also blessed/cursed with the desire to change the world. I’m going to cover some of that ground in upcoming blogs. Cheers, Mike


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