Setting the Example
Sunday, February 25th, 2007I think transforming my body has been on my mind for some time now. My mom passed away in 2001 and along with her passing went a lot of emotional baggage that I’m not even going to bore you with. I was laid off later that year - that was a GREAT thing - and I decided to change my life. I changed careers and started making lifestyle changes with the main goal of getting back in shape and losing about 40 to 50 pounds.
Progress was slow, but over the next 3 to 4 years I did lose some weight. I started noticing something though…everytime I went to a staff development, which was quite often, I couldn’t help but notice that 80 to 90% of the teachers in the room were overweight if not obese and I was probably in that group!! The more and more I thought about this, the more I started thinking I had to change. After all, like it or not, I was (and still am) a role model for so many impressionable 11 to 14 year olds and everyday I hear something about child obesity.
So, in December of 2005, I got serious. I started going to the gym 5 or 6 days a week instead of 2 or 3 days. I started running even though I had always told myself that I absolutely HATE running. After a few months, I got to a good weight for my height, but I was still not satisfied. My body was still soft and mushy even though my weight was ok according to all the charts.
I started paying attention to how the guys in the gym workout. They didn’t do all that much cardio, why should I? They lift weights, why shouldn’t I do that? So I started lifting. I wouldn’t have called it bodybuilding, after all, I just wanted some "tone". But, something amazing happened - my body really responded - I was actually changing my body, seeing some REAL results.
I went back to school after the summer break thinking I looked a little bit better than before summer break. I mean I had lost a little bit more weight, but not too much. My colleagues were stunned at the transformation. People I had never talked to came up to me and told me how good I looked and many people were interested in what I was doing.
I still think about the make-up of the room every single time I’m in a staff development, but now I’m in the minority. What’s on my mind now, though, is not how do I change me, but how can I use my journey to make an impact in the world? How do I motivate other teachers to realize that they are role models and how can we change the direction of our kids today if we’re not setting a good example? Any ideas out there? Please share.






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