my new training partner
Sunday, March 29th, 2009
since i began weight training nearly three years ago i have trained on my own for at least 95% of the time. training partners came and went at different times and there was always a good reason not to train with them - not committed enough, different training goals, unreliable ect. ect. so i decided that it was best to travel the path alone and found myself most comfortable training by myself - no distractions, no let downs, no excuses! i alone was accountable for all my successes and failures!
the christmas before last i had the oppertunity to train with a former mr.ireland and while it was great to gain vital knowledge from him i was severely lacking in strenght in comparrison to him and after about two months we stopped training due to work commitments ect.
more recently we have begun training together again and while there is still a big difference in strenght i have closed the gap significantly enough to be able to have training sessions that doesnt involve stripping and loading the entire bar every set
commiting to train more regularly and meet each other half way when it comes to arranging times to train ect has greatly improved my whole attitude when it comes to this sport and it has allowed me to reflect how training alone or with partners can effect your overall goal!
training alone - this is like running a marathon on your own, you will continue to make progress and push yourself to YOUR limits! you never know exactly how your progress is in relation to everyone else running the marathon until you reach the end and you can compare your time with everyone elses at which stage it is too late to do anything about the reasult.
training with someone weaker than you - this is like running the marathon with someone chasing you, you will do enough to keep ahead of him and not to let him overtake you so that you win the race between ye but when you finish your time could be well down the overall field! i see so many gym rats bringing a much smaller or weaker training partner with them to the gym so that they can lord over their partner by using heavier weights and listen to his shallow compliments about how strong the weaker guy thinks he is - little fish in a f*cking huge pond!
training with someone stronger than you - now this is the real marathon in life. you train as hard as you can day in day out but everyday your still behind, every step of the race your losing yet you have to dig deep to try your best to keep up! this is where the difference is - you no longer have to train to YOUR limits, you have to train well beyond your limits and match his limits! it doesnt stop there because eventually you are going to have to train beyond his limits and only when you do this are you ready for the next leg of the marathon and the painfull thing is if or when you reach this stage you will again be chasing someone who’s limits are again much higher than the one you have recently attained! whenever you finish this marathon you will not necessarily have finished first but your guaranteed to not have finished last and i can guarantee you will have finished much further up the field than the first two options!
so look, leave your ego at home go to the gym and try train with someone much more advanced than you! sure your pride will be severely hurt having to strip away the plates on the barbell after he has finished his set and your poundages will always look small when compared to his! but stick with it and if you do so the day will come when you eventually find yourself matching him set for set, pound for pound and nothing will be more of an achievement than when you are able to progress further than him! but be humble if or when you do so, because it is a process you will have to repeat time and time again and you are not always going to succeed!






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