Car Accident/Health Problems/Cheating GF
Well right now I’m feeling extremely discouraged about continuing to pursue bodybuilding as well as life in general. I always try to maintain a positive attitude (hence my screenname) but my entire life I’ve had EXTREMELY bad luck to the point where its been a joke to everyone who’s known me throughout my entire life (even without me mentioning my bad luck because I don’t like to admit it and even try to deny it because I really don’t want things to keep happening). Well honestly, the joke is BEYOND old at this point. I really try to be a good person and try to always think positive but my life just continues to be one disaster after another. So what am I talking about?
Well I JUST sent in my very last car payment the other day and bragged about it to a friend who joked "knowing your luck you’ll get in another car accident right after sending it in". Sure enough, last night coming home from the gym, a guy T-boned my car!
Now of course with my luck its never just one thing. You see earlier in the day, I got back my blood test results that showed despite the last 4 months of no drinking, eating healthy, and lifting almost every single day, my numbers are STILL screwed up. Boy that really encourages me to keep eating bland food and busting my ass in the gym!
Well I guess I could still keep lifting to keep a nice body for the girl I’m seeing….oh wait…she’s cheating on me! Ok so I don’t have proof of that last one but she’s been extremely shady and all my intuition from my previous relationships tells me she’s screwing around with another guy. I’ve been giving her the benefit of the doubt and ignoring a lot of things but it’s pretty obvious at this point. Yah anyway, I guess I should get back to work before I get my pink slip, which will probably happen by the end of the day.
February 27, 2008 at 10:09 am
Hang in there. Sounds like you are having a rough day but tomorrow will be better. Ditch the girl, fix the car, and keep working out. In time it will all be worth it.
February 27, 2008 at 10:48 am
Ryan, I’m sending some needed positive vibes your way.
Keep at bodybuilding bro. It’s obvious that it has kept you safe from current events in your life.
-Jeff
February 27, 2008 at 1:53 pm
Ryan, shit happens man! Believe me it’s not that you suck at life, it’s the opposite (life)can really suck at times! It’s just that some people deal with it better than others. I know this, as long as you have someone to encourage you, someone that’s a positive influence really help make life a little easier. So I hope you have that person in your life and if not, you will soon!!!
February 29, 2008 at 9:09 am
Don’t loose hope darling. Its just a season. It too shall pass and brighter days are ahead.
February 29, 2008 at 7:29 pm
Dude, you’ve got to stick with it. Instead of thinking of lifting as a way to change your numbers use it as stress relief and learn to enjoy it. You’ve already got a strong physique and you’re only going to get better.