Not A friend anymore!!!
Tonight I was talking to an old friend that totally hurt my feelings and well iam just venting bc I dont want to eat instead….she told me that a coworker of hers saw my husband and asked her if his wife was in shape too!!! she tells me like this "well of course I lied and told her that yes you were in shape…." My friend knows the sacrifice that I have made to lose weight she knows that everyday I go to the gym and she knows my goals to get in shape… I know iam far from being where I want to be ,but it really hurts to hear from a so called friend that comment..
June 18, 2009 at 10:40 pm
keep your goals high and your head even higher! no one can take away what u put in day in and day out!
June 18, 2009 at 10:45 pm
Glad you are venting here then in the fridge ! Keep on pushing and don’t let anyone slow you down.
June 19, 2009 at 7:05 am
That sucks, but just turn it into motivation. For what it’s worth, we’re all proud of you.
June 19, 2009 at 8:57 pm
My dear friend, many people in your path will begin to feel threatened by you and your success now that youve found your TRUE self and living your true life. Most ppl search forever and never find it. I had an overweight friend who, I thought, was trying to sabotage me, so I stayed away for a while. Turns out, she just felt really bad about herself, which I could see as she was sleeping with so many men. I gave her space and eventually we bacame close again, I just make sure that food/diet dont come up by going out for coffee rather than supper or shopping, or meeting for drinks and saying Im driving so I cant drink…
You two may remain, or you may lose that friend forever, one thing is for sure, surrounding yourself with POSITIVE people, who LIVE THE LIFESTYLE, wether online or in real life CAN ONLY BRING BENEFITS. I promise you. Its exactly like a person who has just joined a new church! You can have friends from your old faith, but your true family is at the gym!!(your new church!!)
hang in there and dont look back, youre a the way to GREATNESS!!
your friend,
Sandra