Removed all Gallery Photos
I’ve decided to remove all of my gallery photos and just keep the progress section. I am frustrated and a little disappointed because I posted some progress pics and rarely if ever receive comments on them. I’m here for help, support, and honest critiquing on my progress. Since I have no local support I depend on the people from this site to help me accomplish my goals….that unfortunately has not been happening. Yes, I appreciate your compliments however I need to hear more than "that’s Hott", or "sexy"! I need to hear what needs help/work what I’m doing wrong or right from those of you that have been there. I appear to have many friends, but I never hear from them regarding my progress. I joined this site because I was told this was the place to be,….I’m beginning to question that and wonder if it isn’t just another "hook up" site!!
I have had to fight like hell for my right to improve my health and my body and even made a choice between that and my 27 year long marraige…I"M DEAD FKN SERIUOS about what I’m doing….I know I need to do the work, I have no problem with that! I want it BAD! But no man or woman is an island and we all need people…I am no exception…I have no bodybuilding friends locally…my friends/aqaiuntences put me down for what I’m doing so this site was critical for me….it was my only source of positive energy…..to bad it’s not what I was told it was.
Okay! I’ve said my piece…Have a great day and God Bless!
June 22, 2009 at 9:04 am
I would be happy to help you.. I understand where you are coming from! Do it for YOU and forget about the idiots on this site. There are WAY too many pervos and not enough real people to help on our journey. Keep your head up! You can do it!
June 22, 2009 at 9:05 am
Well said. I hear you 100%.
June 22, 2009 at 9:06 am
I’m starting to feel the same way. I’m fairly new to the site and I was told this was the best place to be. I’ve been looking around on the site and I’m finding more pornographic or "soft porn" from supposed role models than I’m finding actual help.
June 22, 2009 at 10:19 am
Maybe it’s your approach to this. Seems that there are a lot of people getting help here (and yes, some are here for hooking up). There are many that have really made changes after coming to this site. So maybe you were told right, but too the wrong direction at getting your help
June 22, 2009 at 10:24 am
Good move on removing the pole dancing pics. You were attracting the wrong kind of people….ones who are out looking for a "good time" rather than ones who are serious about fitness.
There are plenty of good supportive people on this site. You made a step in the right direction and hopefully you’ll see a change in the kind of support you get.
June 22, 2009 at 1:37 pm
I hear you Litlebit. Unfortunately, many women are kind of looking for that sort of thing. If they aren’t, I have no idea how to explain some of the pics they put up! Draping yourself across a bed with nothing on but a thong really doesn’t show off the physique. There are serious, normal people here. I just ask that you hang in there and don’t throw out the baby with the bathwater!
I’m new to this site and to bodybuilding so I can’t give technical advice yet, but I sure am here to give you support.
Julie
June 25, 2009 at 4:30 pm
You know yuo can hit me up for help anytime,
If yuo dont think so , try me.
I never hit on yuo and always offered help