Comments for kinkoshinkai's BodyBlog http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai Old age, new goals Thu, 16 Oct 2008 04:06:53 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=0.32 Comment on HELP!!!!! by dvsness http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/09/27/help/#comment-3314442 Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:19:28 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/09/27/help/#comment-3314442 So sorry :( So sorry :(

]]> Comment on Oops, Expo addendum by builder26 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/09/27/oops-expo-addendum/#comment-3246862 Sat, 27 Sep 2008 14:10:27 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/09/27/oops-expo-addendum/#comment-3246862 Wow...looking fantastic! If you can do it , I can do it...good work. Wow…looking fantastic! If you can do it , I can do it…good work.

]]> Comment on double standard. by janthony http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-3198012 Wed, 24 Sep 2008 00:16:27 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-3198012 Man, I'm right there with you, and I say "Say what you think and feel, and let them deal with it" If someone takes offense to it, it's probably because they resemble it way too much and it hurt. If someone is so stupid to let themself get to 300 lbs and say "How did I get this big?" (I mean, damn you were there weren't you?). Then let them deal with the comments, they chose to get like that. Man, I’m right there with you, and I say "Say what you think and feel, and let them deal with it"

If someone takes offense to it, it’s probably because they resemble it way too much and it hurt. If someone is so stupid to let themself get to 300 lbs and say "How did I get this big?" (I mean, damn you were there weren’t you?). Then let them deal with the comments, they chose to get like that.

]]> Comment on double standard. by davis003 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-3196112 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 21:02:20 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-3196112 If someone is making excuses for themselves you should let them be, they have their own problems. Just be nice to them like you would anyone, but I think if someone is bold enough to critisize the choices you're making to your face you should feel comfortable confronting them about their choices. Why are your choices wrong? What are their choices? Can they justify them? If they're not prepared to back up what they're saying they should stay quiet. If someone is making excuses for themselves you should let them be, they have their own problems. Just be nice to them like you would anyone, but I think if someone is bold enough to critisize the choices you’re making to your face you should feel comfortable confronting them about their choices. Why are your choices wrong? What are their choices? Can they justify them? If they’re not prepared to back up what they’re saying they should stay quiet.

]]> Comment on double standard. by smorgan1227 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893682 Mon, 25 Aug 2008 01:11:16 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893682 I get it all the time too. I got it a lot in the beginning from my family. My kids, etc. But now my son is riding his bike to the gym every day to workout. My daughter is trying out for Volleyball, and my husband is running as we speak. Our presence is a conviction. Kind of like telling an alcoholic that maybe they shouldn't have a drink. They take offense just because our we are so strong where they are weak. What we don't see is the conviction and even possible change they will make because of us. I get it all the time too. I got it a lot in the beginning from my family. My kids, etc. But now my son is riding his bike to the gym every day to workout. My daughter is trying out for Volleyball, and my husband is running as we speak. Our presence is a conviction. Kind of like telling an alcoholic that maybe they shouldn’t have a drink. They take offense just because our we are so strong where they are weak. What we don’t see is the conviction and even possible change they will make because of us.

]]> Comment on double standard. by kinkoshinkai http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893482 Mon, 25 Aug 2008 00:33:58 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893482 Dude, it is so not EVEN about the need to say anything. Re-read. It IS about the double standard of the acceptability of criticising a healthy choice versus the taboo of commenting on what is patently UNhealthy. The NEED to say anything is not at issue. The double standard of what is publicly or socially permitted IS. Dude, it is so not EVEN about the need to say anything. Re-read. It IS about the double standard of the acceptability of criticising a healthy choice versus the taboo of commenting on what is patently UNhealthy. The NEED to say anything is not at issue. The double standard of what is publicly or socially permitted IS.

]]> Comment on double standard. by CBRMitch http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893432 Mon, 25 Aug 2008 00:29:43 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893432 It can be difficult to look in a mirror and take complete stock of who you are, faults and all. On some level, we all lie to ourselves to get through it all, and obviously some lie more than others. It can be difficult to look in a mirror and take complete stock of who you are, faults and all. On some level, we all lie to ourselves to get through it all, and obviously some lie more than others.

]]> Comment on double standard. by PastorMan http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893422 Mon, 25 Aug 2008 00:25:47 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/08/24/double-standard/#comment-2893422 I guess my question would be...why the need to say anything or care what anyone says about you? You and I have chosen our lifestyle & they theirs...help them if they ask, but obviously we can't change those who feel no need for one. I guess my question would be…why the need to say anything or care what anyone says about you? You and I have chosen our lifestyle & they theirs…help them if they ask, but obviously we can’t change those who feel no need for one.

]]> Comment on USA’s by pitmommy http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/07/25/usas/#comment-2777702 Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:45:37 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/07/25/usas/#comment-2777702 Your so sweet I am so happy you had a great experience , you really deserve it Eddie. I hope your show went well . Too bad you missed the night show . If you plan to compete in salt lake , you will stay with me no arguement ok . Your so sweet I am so happy you had a great experience , you really deserve it Eddie. I hope your show went well . Too bad you missed the night show . If you plan to compete in salt lake , you will stay with me no arguement ok .

]]> Comment on two weeks by davis003 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/06/08/two-weeks/#comment-2716492 Tue, 15 Jul 2008 19:02:31 +0000 http://blog.bodybuilding.com/kinkoshinkai/2008/06/08/two-weeks/#comment-2716492 How's getting back in the groove going? How’s getting back in the groove going?

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