something difft…
so this post isnt about training or nutrition or anything else… its going to be me asking a simple question to all the guys out there….
boys, what the hell possesses you to either cheat or lie about being with another girl to your gf or choose another girl over your gf? espeically when your gf if a great girl that does and would do just about anything for you and doesnt withhold sex or anything like that… please explain this to me if you can… why would you boys ruin a great thing? and then after you’ve ruined it why don’t you do something about it???
if you havent figured it out, i’m against men as relationship figures at the moment… and I think Samantha from Sex & the City got it right to not get attached… maybe its just better that way….
April 17, 2007 at 7:39 am
we get bored
April 17, 2007 at 7:48 am
It can be stated in one word "strange". I hate to admit it but the change was all I wanted back in the day. Second marriage and 40 pound stopped that.
Sorry if I broke any guy codes….
April 17, 2007 at 7:48 am
Ive never been able to figure it out. Im faithful and have never cheated. If it comes to the point that I feel I need to cheat, that means that the relationship is that bad that its time to get out anyway. I dont understand cheating. Its stupid.
This will sound like a college student, but its almost impossible to cheat now adays anyway. One of my friends here at school got caught in the most improbable way. His girlfriend is back home and he got caught because the friend of his girlfriend is friends with the cousin of the RA of the girl he was sleeping with. (I think i got that right) Anyway, the whole thing blew up because of facebook. It was seriously the most ****ed up crap, like the type of stuff you see in movies.
April 17, 2007 at 7:55 am
Sorry to say it usually is just about the strange. Something new to chase. Most guys go through some phase like that. My second marriage got me to stop…….Good luck with this one…btw looking good
April 17, 2007 at 8:25 am
special k,
are there more guys like you out there, because i keep seeming to find the ones that want to stray from me and i admit, i can get a bit possessive at times but its because ive been mislead and had my trust betrayed in the past… you boys just dont know a good thing even if it hits you in the face…
anonymous #2,
why did your 2nd marriage get you to stop and not the first? and thanks, ill be posting a new progress pic soon, when i feel ive made some lol…
April 17, 2007 at 8:46 am
I know it’s hard but look at it as at least you know what kind of person he/ they are now. And, they are hopefully not the kind of friend, bf, etc you need in your life. Learn how to be happy with yourself and hold your head up high. I’m still single at 38 and very happy. You are better off alone than in a miserable relationship that WILL make you weak. If it’s meant to be the right person will come along. Good luck.
April 17, 2007 at 9:04 am
I don’t think it’s a man or a woman thing…. People just aren’t faithful anymore. Well, there are a few good ones left but most are already married or in a relationship. Keep your head high and learn to make yourself happy. Don’t ever depend on someone else to. Good luck to you.