Can Someone Explain This to Me?
I don’t understand what goes on in guys heads. Either one of them. Are they like connected by some kind of unseen wire or something?? You see I thought this was a bodybuilding and fitness website but I’m starting to think that it’s like Love Connection.com or something. I mean I know I have some pics up that could be looked upon as being suggestive and yes I can be a little flirty and sarcastic in my humor but that doesn’t mean I want to hook up with anyone on here and I damn sure don’t want to send you naked pics of myself. I guess hiding anonymously behind a computer screen gives people big balls to ask some of the questions they do.
Now I’ve got nothing against nudity and if I want to show someone my naked ass I will surely do it. But that will be my decision. I can assure you it takes more to see my naked bod then seeing me once on a website like this in my frilly undies so quit asking. The lucky few who have seen my bod naked actually took the time to get to know me and develop a friendship before they ever suggested anything so personal. I just don’t understand how you can come to a website like this, look at someone once and think that you have the right to ask to see them naked. And the thing that really pisses me off is that when I tell them I don’t do that or I don’t want to hang out on this site for hours having personal conversations with just them then I’m a bitch or a tease. What the hell is the matter with you??? I’m just here to make a few friends and learn a little about fitness. Now am I perfect little angel??? Heck no! Not by a long shot. I enjoy sex and nudity as much as anyone and I can be the biggest flirt that you’ll ever lay your eyes on. But there is a time and place for everything so just remember that.
March 9, 2008 at 8:20 am
Sorry you feel that way, if it makes you feel better I had a guy ask me for the same thing…talk about weird!
take care and good work on all you have done.
dont worry I have a girlfriend and dont want nudes…lol
take care!
March 9, 2008 at 8:26 am
Ok, first some guys are just like that. You have to ignore them. Second, for some reason this site has changed over the years and has become a bit of a pick up site. Not saying that is what everyone is here for. Certainly not my goal (too old for that). The other thing is, guys are immature for many years after girls grow up. It takes time, most of us grow out of that stage
I agree, use the site for what it is. Learn as much as you can, and be all that you can be.
i have met 2 friends on this site, and hopefully we’ll stay that way for years to come. It’s nice to meet people that in everyday life you would have never met, so I appreciate that about this site as well.
Good luck with your goals, and don’t let the people in the world that don’t view things your way influence what you think and feel.
March 9, 2008 at 8:27 am
Keep tellin it like it is!!! Yeah, I can understand your frustation, but don’t let the few ruin it for the whole. There are a LOT of great folk here and the majority of us are making friends and changing our lives for the better. Just ignore the idiots and keep doing you.
March 9, 2008 at 8:29 am
Yeah same here, I mean why do you think all the woman have more profile views than any of the guys, you have the pervs out that there just looking to see some ass and tits. I honestly am against because of what the site should stand for. My buddy closed down his bodyspace because woman where sending him messages not complimenting on bodybuilding but just trying to flirt with him, I was pisted. You know there are always going to be some bad apples in the bunch can’t let ruin the whole picture.
March 9, 2008 at 8:32 am
Flirty is one thing but if some one is not reseptive to it they should not be an ass about it! no means no
March 9, 2008 at 8:46 am
I don’t understand why they would want to see you nude, you left nothing to the imagination in your pics!
March 9, 2008 at 9:05 am
Some guys are just horndogs. There are guys who would try to use this as a free dating site, and probably unavoidable whenever there are pictures of women and an interactive forum. Don’t let the pervs get to you. Sorry that some of my fellow males are not shining examples of chivalry, but then again, I’m not perfect either. Keep up the hard work, you look great!
March 9, 2008 at 9:07 am
See that last reply is the kind of stuff I’m talking about. This Joe character isn’t even a member and doesn’t have a page and yet he thinks that gives him a right to be a smart ass! Hey Joe I already said my pics could be looked upon as suggestive and admitted I’m no angel but that still doesn’t give someone a free pass to ask for nude pics or to be rude. Girls in bikinis on the beach leave little to the imagination either but would you walk up to them and ask to see them naked? I doubt it because like I said the computer screen gives people bigger balls!
March 9, 2008 at 9:16 am
Hey Sammi,
Like most of the guys above sad, just don’t worry about it. Most of the members are here for the right reason - to talk about fitness. However, there are a few who have discovered that this site is simply full of people who care about their appearance and they have taken advantage of that. I look at it as one of the downsides to the Internet. I get friend requests all the time from men and I’ll go look at their pages and all of their friends are hot girls - they don’t have any male friends at all! These guys probably aren’t here to talk about fitness, lol!
March 9, 2008 at 10:03 am
Hey Sammi sorry for the sleeze factor but not all of it is guys. Believe it or not I’ve actually had a couple of request for nude pics. I know! I was shocked as well. I immediately filled the request though! LOL!! JK! sort of! Anyway don’t let it bum ya out. The internet is what it is.
March 9, 2008 at 11:05 am
Hey, thanks for the comment. Thats why I’m doing that. I figure that by writing it down it can help. i have a hard time with good diet.
but yea thanks.
March 9, 2008 at 11:10 am
Sammi,
Yeah some people have no sense! I mean that is just straight out rude! This is all about bodybuilding. The only question I have is…does this mean I have to send the pics back you sent me?…lmao
Real Men Have Mass!
March 9, 2008 at 11:25 am
Hey Sammi! I get the same kind of emails too. It only blows my mind that some guys thing you somehow ‘owe’ them pics or even talking to them!
But there are some VERY great guys on here too!! Hang in there!! Ignore the bad!! Eventually they will get bored and leave…or pic on the girls sending them trashy pics! lmao
March 9, 2008 at 4:23 pm
So I guess this means no pics?
March 9, 2008 at 7:00 pm
Those little shits are everywhere!!
March 9, 2008 at 7:04 pm
That is the way to stick up for yourself friend and all of the other women who are subjected to this mess. Even some guys do this to other guys. I mean one time a guy added me as a friend then asked me to get on a webcam with him. There are all types of people but for the most part people on here are awesome
March 30, 2008 at 11:01 am
Wow, sorry to hear that you get treated like that on here.
I LOL’d though at some of your descriptions, you are funny. Not cool though on them asking for nudes of you. You are right, time and place for everything, and if you CHOOSE to do that, it is/was your choice.
Congrats on your progress though, I know it does not look as though you are progressing, from someone else’s untrained eye, you are.
Keep up the good work, and live a little. It is nice to make money, but you have to enjoy life as well.
Cheers
September 10, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Yeah I don’t think you should be on here asking for some ass. this site is about fitness. maybe you should ban their ass!!!!!!
March 19, 2009 at 1:43 pm
WoW, what a hot discution.
forgive me if the writing is wrong. Im not very good in writing english.
1st of all: it’s normal for members to post sexy pictures because this sport is like that. male or female, doesnt matter, everybody in this sport wants a physique & it will be sexy most of times.
2nd: it’s normal for viewers to enjoy that sexiness or beauty. It is what beauty is about. it will rob their eyes.
3rd: it’s even normal to recieve eMails like that. it happens in everyday life. havent U ever heard words while walking in the streets? every woman has heard. because always there are some guys WRONG. I mean wrong because they just dont know what they want. they want love, friendship & ofcourse sex but they have lost the grip. they have gone so wrong that cant see what the RIGHT is. so they cant relate to a girl & make a healthy friendship & love relationship and obviously thay treat that way.
I do not prove what thay do, Im saying: what thay do is wrong but just what thay are able to do.
I hope everybody love, because It is the only way to find the truth. they may find it too, who knows?
afterall, U look sexy & U have to be familiar with such proposals. the more beautifull, the more trouble