I’m not a stalker
Is it wrong for me to add a "friend" and then if I’m not accepted as a mutual after 3-4 days, to just remove it? lol I mean, do I REALLY CARE? No, not really, but if I come across a profile that I think that person has done a great job, or looks interesting, I may add them. I don’t just go adding as many people as I can just to build my number up. I’ve been on here for years now, and over that time I’ve got quite a few "friends". But like most, I only keep up with a handful at most. I just don’t like having people in my "Stalking" category! haha Nor do I like having people in my "Fan Club". I guess I just like to add whoever asks. I don’t judge 
Thoughts?
July 17, 2009 at 9:48 am
I agree with you. I am the same way, I have a few friends that I keep up with and others that I don’t are stuck in that "stalking" folder.
July 17, 2009 at 9:49 am
Here, here! I Joey!
I normal read person blogs, and look at persons workout videos and try to learn something.
I also look at there reason and the stats to see if I am similar. Perhaps I can learn something from them. Or help encourage them!
I also like to keep up with those I have left comments on there blog or on the forum. So I friend them and see how they are doing ever so often! And leave words of encouragement.
No you and I are not stalker even if it say so on our profile! LOL!
July 17, 2009 at 9:52 am
I hate the whole stalker thing too…but if people are in your fan club and you dont want to add them then you should be able to deny them. Also why do people add you then never even say hello??? LOL so weird
July 17, 2009 at 9:55 am
i add peeps who interesting, but after a few days if i am still in stalking…i delete…
July 17, 2009 at 10:02 am
I like to look at a lot of things. If i see a person has more fan club people than mutual friends i don’t even send a request, its obviuos what they want….popularity. Also if I see that someone hasn’t been logged on in at least the last 10 days i don’t send them requests either because it shows this is not as much a priority to them as everything else. Notice i have a very small number in my stalker column.
July 17, 2009 at 4:28 pm
I like to make people stalk me…i delete friends from time to time just to make myself feel like people want to stalk me. LOL…KIDDING. I delete them after a couple days too. I think BB.com should put pending friends…humm…
July 17, 2009 at 5:42 pm
LOL! I totally do the same thing - I think the "stalking" category is a little extreme. I agree with the other comment that they should rename it as "pending". Too funny…
August 19, 2009 at 9:28 pm
I may appear to be stallker’ish’ because I am detail oriented. If I find someone inspiring I will read their profile, find our Who inspires them and why.
I look for inspiration EVERYWHERE….
I seldom stalk(friend request) people….BUT I certainly WILL comment every profile that intrigues me, to let them know what I’m thinking about their physique.
August 19, 2009 at 10:20 pm
I like to add people that I admire here. Not purely for the numbers. Now after I read all the comments above. I might consider make my friend list "leaner."
My rule is, add friends that I think is interesting, who might have positive impact to my life, or simply someone I would like to STALK!! I think I’m becoming a more selective stalker now.