WHAT IS UP WITH MEN IN THE GYM WITH NO GAME?
Well I have not posted in awhile but I had to know because I have had enough of dudes with not game trying to come up. Well the gym I go to there is this guy that always has some small talk. Basically I am not interested in that because it is a waste of time. Well he always has some old plain crap to say to me and I am not interested. Well the last time I was in the gym it was the same thing. So I just was trying to ignore him and he did not get the point. So fellows what is up with dudes that do not step up and just be real. Let me state this I do not like small talk waste of time. I am not into a dude coming up and saying stupid lines that are suppose to sound all poetic. Nope not me. Also, the gym is the last place I would want to deal with dudes being lame. I have had this happen to a lot and I am not going to limit it to just the gym. So what is up with that fellows? Why do dudes do that? All that beat around the bush crap. Is it so that rejection will not be so hard if a woman sayings no or is the dude just lame?
September 10, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Sorry to hear about the "lame" guys at your gym.. I personally do not believe in using "lines" on women I believe in being up front and open other wise your just bull****ting and I’m not into that plus the gym is to work out not for chatting…. LOL but that’s me
September 10, 2009 at 12:38 pm
too funny, me and my wife use the same technique to avoid those people at the gym…….headphones and dont make eye contact, should keep the type of person that ur uninterested in away. good luck
September 10, 2009 at 1:18 pm
personally, i don’t think you should take it so wrong. who cares if they have no game, you should be happy that they come up to you, they obviously think you look good. some guys have wack game and some girls end up being wack when guys go up to them. people in general use small talk to break the ice, if it stays at small talk it gets annoying so just tell those guys you aren’t interested and they’ll go away.
September 11, 2009 at 10:08 am
My vote is their lame. You’re not at a party where you meet and mingle. You are at the gym were there are too many heavy objects around for you to be distracted.
September 11, 2009 at 10:30 am
When you attend a facility on the regular you tend to see a few of the same people all the time. So its not out of the ordinary that at some point one of them might try to strike up a conversation. However, for me, when I’m working out….thats my primary objective. I’m in and out of the gym in 60 minutes, so I really dont chat on the gym floor. And by my work ethic, most people get that about me. But if you see me in the locker room, or in the main lobby, i have no qualms about shooting the willy bo bo, with you for a minute.
Tell dude flat out that your focus is on your workout and not in small talk. Chances are he’ll walk away and sing the same song to another lady somewhere in the gym.
Peace!!
September 11, 2009 at 11:18 am
njplaya1981 I am not a woman who goes looking for attention also for you to state I should be happy guys come up to me is crap. I personally do not care if some never come up to me I do not need a man to hit on me to make me feel pretty. Also guys do not just go away when you tell them that, So that is not true so dudes think presistence is game and it is not. So I do not know where you live it but man can be aggressive and even get ignorant. So your comment is some punk crap.
September 11, 2009 at 11:30 am
The gym is not a bar. I’m there to get better and so are all the beautiful ladies that come in there to get better. But inneka if i want you i’m just gonna come straight up and call you my boo and we getting down tonight!! Well….no i won’t LOL
September 11, 2009 at 11:31 am
Wayne,
You are so crazy! LOL!
September 11, 2009 at 11:37 am
You need me to come over and be your workout partner for a day or two? That might help….lol
September 11, 2009 at 11:40 am
I am tired of lame men. I have had lame dudes try to hit on me all the time I am sick of that. Then they do not admit to it. They try to step down when they are being busted out. I mean where are the real men at? Cause I am tired of lame dudes.
September 11, 2009 at 11:48 am
and the women are no better…they are more like gym rat groupies and it’s ridiculous. there are but a few females on the floor WORKING while the host of them are behaving like they are looking for a good pair of shoes. if you intend to hookup at the gym cool but can you please wait until you are in the parking lot
September 11, 2009 at 11:52 am
yeah that is ture. I mean they are out of control. Those type of females mess it up for women like us who work out. Because then dudes think all females are lilke that.
September 11, 2009 at 12:00 pm
in fact there is a young lady that has/had the hots for my PT and would sit and watch him train WTF I say had as i told him he need to check that and quick well she’s moved on to the next guy. i’m often told i don’t look approachable…good then it’s working. Somehow paying gym membership and PT fees for the possibility of getting hit on is not good money management. I’ll take my $$$ and go to Chippendales instead LOL
September 15, 2009 at 12:40 pm
What I wrote is far from punk crap, if you read the mere title of your blogs, it is easy to tell what type of girl you are so I will leave it at that. Don’t worry I will remove you from my friend list, but I’m sure these guys who are agreeing with you would just wanna get with you and do the same thing you are complaining about if they saw you in the gym.
September 15, 2009 at 12:46 pm
Being that the last statment was so general I feel the need to defend myself. To make it real short and sweet, I have no time for conversation when I’m in the gym. I’ve been that way for as long as I can remember. I’m not saying i dont notice people in the gym, but when I’m there I’m focused on the task at hand. When I’m working out, i dont speak, I dont wave, I dont do anything but lift, crunch, Press, or pull weight. 60 minutes, and I’m back at work. End of story.
Peace!
September 15, 2009 at 2:42 pm
Okay remove me I do not care. You stated that I should be happy that a guy is approaching me. Therefore I take offense to that. First in most cases most dudes are disrespectful so if a man steps to me like that I should not be happy. Yep you are in the wrong blog. I am for women rights for real and I will not tolerate disrepectful comment towards women. I am not looking for anyone I do not have to so do not try to imply that I am some man hunter or hater. It seems like everytime I expose lame dudes some dude get upset. Well for too long men have picked on women in this society now I turning the table and men are getting mad. Sound like a no gamer dude to me. That is what I do not like about the internet people can act all tough in the type but probably is some weaklin in person. THIS IS MY BLOG AND WHOEVER DOES NOT LIKE IT CAN GET OUTTTT! AND I MEAN THAT. Then gonna say some punk stuff like the other dudes are just saying stuff cause they want to get with me. That is lame you take me off your friend list I do not care. You got the wrong female. That ignorant statement . Actually I try to tell issues in a comical fashion. Also I talk about stuff women do also. These post are general and I see the men are taking them more personal then women. After all I thought women are more emotional. So get some glasses and read the other blogs I posted. IF YOU ARE SOME SOFT OVERLY EMOTIONAL DUDE GET OUT OF MY BLOG NOW. I SEE SOME MEN NEED TO TAKE MIDOL (THAT IS PMS MEDICINE)
PMS (PRISSY MEN SYNDROME)
This is why I broke up with my last boyfriend.
Lex29us that was not for you.
September 15, 2009 at 2:43 pm
THIS IS MY BLOG YOU DO NOT LIKE IT GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
September 15, 2009 at 2:55 pm
Well if I saw you at the gym I wouldn’t even say hello. I’d just sweep you off your feet and we would ride off into the sunset (as long as you workout in the early evening). I know Wayne’s got first dibbs though….
September 15, 2009 at 2:58 pm
Now that is a man with some game.
September 21, 2009 at 10:09 pm
Wow, that was a long post just for me, must have hit some sensitive points. I’m sure there are some things that happened in your life that made you so angry in your blog. You can tell me to get glasses or that I have no game but I don’t feel the need to defend myself with that. Real men don’t list the reasons why they are. I hope you find what it is you want, I don’t know you and have no reason to wish you ill. But in the mean time, you can take me off your fan club.
September 23, 2009 at 9:57 am
Ha! Oh sweet Jesus, it’s been a hot minute since I REALLY "laughed out loud" reading an internet blog! Y’all are too much!