inneka63’s BodyBlog

I am having a major issue deterimining my weigh. I am 5"11 and I weight 175.  I have seen women on here who are my height and weight the weigh 150.  I am not flabby or anything like that.  I have a friend that weighs 165 and we can wear the same size.  What is up?  I know I have an large bustline so that is fat and gentics.  What is the deal.  I see women  a little shorter that weigh 140.  I need some advice. What determines the correct weigh for an individual height and body type?

I have noticed that some guys that work out regularly do not date women that are fit.   I have seen personal trainers and the women they date are completely out of shape.  Sometimes I wonder do guys do that to build up their ego.  I dated this guy who was adamant about only dating women that work out.  Well I saw pics of some of his ex girls and they were not in shape.  He was talking a lot of smack but apparently I was the first woman he dated that was fit.  I am starting to believe that some guys just say that. I think some guys are just frontin.  Lets be honest fellas some of you will take the unfit women after dark.  You know what I am talking about what some of you all call "closet cases".  I am tried of men telling me they only date women that are fit.  Also they have this high standard forwomen like me but a unfit women men love.  What is up with that? Some of you gym rat guys like women that are not. LOL

This is the point in my workout were I get frustrated.  I will admit I am a little vain therefore, looking a mess physically is not on my list.  I cannot believe that I let my abs become a mess.  I have been so frustrated.  I go to the gym 5 days a week.  I was running almost 30 miles a week. I have had to cut back on the running for over a month.  I been to the chiropractor and I advised to cut back.  I do not want this frustration to overrule my desire for my abs back.  I have muscle tone under the fat but the fat is fighting me like crazy.  This is so frustrating.  Now I know it takes time I am so frustration.  I have even considered getting liposuction.  I know that is cheating so I refuse to do that.  I am so desperate it is ridiculous.  I hope I am not coming off as been over the top.  I feel like I have no hope.  I almost gave up and decided to do the lipo.  I have heard some of the fitness people have gotten a little lipo.  Well I am giving myself to the summer of 2009.  I am pretty sure I will see something before then.  I look at my progress pictures and I am not satisfied.  I do not see any progress.  My friends think I am crazy.  I do not know what is going on with me.  I have not posted any progress pics yet because I am not pleased with my progress.  I feel like I should be further along.  Well any tips because I am losing hope.  The wierd thing is that every part of my body is coming along but the ab fat.  I have considered cease eating for a 2 weeks  I figured that I would not hurt.  I have enough fat to burn up to keep me from become to catabolic. I hope I am not having some crazy workout mentality issue.  I do not like the way my progress is coming.  I feel like I look a mess.  I will admit I have a very high standard about things.  Anyone deal with this.  Am I just been obsessive?  Help I am drowning in this workout game!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am on my last with this ab fat.  I need a powerful fat burner.  I need a fat burner that is going to blast this ab fat.  I have been working hard.  My diet is clean.  Please someone recommend a good fat burner.  Now I am into natural health so I do not like a lot of chemicals.  Please help I am dire need of a good fat burner.

I am almost 6′ feet tall and I am having the hardest time with muscle development. Now I have noticed that most of the women that are fitness divas are under 5′8.  I wonder why people in that height range can develop muscle.  I am having a very hard time in my legs.  Now I know that some of it comes from endurance training.  But this tall people problem is very frustrating.  Any tips!!!!!!!!!