I thought I would post this just because! The following is a response that I posted to a blog by http://blog.bodybuilding.com/tswills/2007/12/01/off-my-chest/ talking about how friends disrespect him for being a bodybuilder.
I spent many years of my life worrying about what other people think. I am by no means a bodybuilder (yet) and at this late stage, who knows if I can ever really be one! All I can say is no one has the right to judge!
I have been training for a bit over a year with a bodybuilder and we have talked on occasion about this. Lets say fir argument’s sake that you do this because of some personal insecurity WHO CARES! Would it be better that you drink, do drugs, engage in who knows what else unhealthy behavior?
If the worst that can be said is that you are overly concerned about your body (I do not believe that but if..) well better that than you be overweight and eating unhealthilly!
I sometimes show pictures of my trainer to my friends and work associates and often get an UGHHH in response. Then I look at them or their significant others and I see overweight under active people who will be sick before their time because of their lifestyles.
Don’t worry about whay others say. I spent my first 35 years worrying and it was like living in a cave. It took about another 20 to totally give up on caring about others opinions of my personal choices. Two plus years ago I never would have posted a picture of me in my underwear with my real name! Now I am committed and I don’t care who knows it.
Maybe your friend was just having a bad day; maybe he is jealous or maybe he is just not your friend!
Either way, you keep up the good work and transform yourself into what you want to be!
Mike
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