…… what about ME?????
Okay, so I have been a member here for a while now. When I started I wasnt as dedicated at heart as I am now. I want this so badly but what do I do when I have no support? I know this may not be a big deal to many of you but I am having a hard time getting the "family" to cooperate. THIS…… is all I ask for! I dont "ask" for anything else. Its in my heart, it makes me feel good.. mentally and physically! There is so much more too, that cant be put into words. I dont know what to do because I am being held back in many ways and it just drives me crazy! I worry about others and take care of everything and everyone else but what about me? How do I keep my heart in it if I’m not allowed to do so? I have been on and off since the summer because I keep fighting for it! Pushing! Then I give in and let it be. In the summer we did a contest and my husband and I was in it together. There werent many problems then but we just have a difference in opinions on the gym, working out, eating, etc. I just need to know how I can do this myself and not feel guilty anymore. Any suggestions? I do know this is more of an emotional thing but I just had to ask.
November 4, 2009 at 9:22 pm
You make your work out a reward to yourself for doing all the things you do for others. Stay motivated by staying on here and reading. Surround yourself with people from here. Just never give up, if you have to slow down then ok but DONT QUIT : ) Deal?