It truly SICKENS me that people USE this site for the purpose of SOFT PORN & personal GRATIFICATION! This is not a place to "HOOK UP" or get your sexual jollies. I sincerely hope that enough of us sincere bodybuilding & fitness enthusiast can join together to BAN or make the harrassers uncomfortable enough to get OFF of here for good. Hopefully things can change before I have to lose another TRUE BODYSPACE friend.

I was a FAT kid so I never had this lean midsection to remember "what it was like when". I got SKINNY by high school but always carried this layer of flab aroung my middle. I’ve weighted as little as 124 lbs. in my adult life but still, no ABS. Since working out, my bodyfat has often been in the single digits but never more thatn a shadow of a 4 pak has appeared. I’ve tried working ABS everyday and I’ve followed workouts that are suppesed to strengthen the core without crunches…NOTHING! I gave up being very lean & vascular to try and achieve more size adn bigger muscles.

So, I’m not giving up, BUT I will no longer KILL mysel & worry to death over trying to get ABS. I continue to eat cleaner than anyone I know and drink almost 2 gallons of water everyday. I’m open to suggestions. Maybe someone out there has experienced the same thing and finally came up with the right combination of exercise, diet & supplementation to achieve ABS. If so, let me know. Until then, the DREAM continiues.