debbie bell’s BodyBlog

"I TELL YOU THAT AS LONG AS I CN CONCEIVE SOMETHING BETTER THAN MYSELF I CANNOT BE EASY UNLESS I AM STRIVING TO BRING IT INTO EXISTENCE OR CLEARING THE WAY FOR IT."
George Bernard Shaw

ALAS - ON A HAPPY NOTE -

"TO ENJOY AND GIVE ENJOYMENT, WITHOUT INJURY TO YOURSELF OR OTHERS: THIS IS TRUE MORALITY."
Nicolas Chamfort

"CHOOSE A FRIEND. HE WILL HELP YOU. ALAS, HE DESERTS YOU. CHOOSE AN ENEMY.  HE WILL FIGHT AGAINST YOU.  LO, HE CORRECTS AND PERFECTS YOU."
Sri Chinmoy

It is morning here .. and I have re read my blog .. thinking to delete .. then decided why .. so  I leave it.
I just wanted to make sure that I have not come across bitter …that was not my intention … I love people and life .. just at times
(especially late at night and quite tired ) life gets a bit exasperating.  
I live my life trying to make every day worth while and help others .. treat others as I would want to be treated myself.  yes there are many people that run jealous and want to interfere with the plans of someone who is successful .. however 99% of the time I choose to not associate myself with those people and not worry bout what they try to do .. I suppose last night was the 1% …
So today is a new day .. and I have many smiles to send out to everyone .. hope you all have a wonderful weekend ..
deb

Good evening my friends – first I would like to wish you the most happiest of evenings.
I have something I would like to discuss and hope that through what I say ( as I vent ) it might help someone else.
I have spent the most part of my life in fitness and health. Bettering myself so that I can help better other people’s lives.  I have been thrown in the dark allies – stepped on – copied – and fierce jealousy has been thrown my way – simply because I am true to myself – most of all because I am true to others and what I do!!  I do believe that people have a hard time believing how sincere I am being that there is such a lack of it in this world.  Most people are followers.. they unfortunately can not think for themselves and therefore either trash someone of a threat or copy them and make it their own.  Hum so very sad.  For them!  And the saddest part of all of this is that the more you might try to make them aware of what they are doing the more they become defensive .. the more their mind will play tricks on them .. so they actually believe that what they are doing is right … WRONG .. they know what they are doing is wrong .. people have this inane ability to block morality for selfish reasons…
Those of you that push yourselves in the gym with out taking illegal drugs know what I mean … you .. we .. block out the pain for the ultimate goal .. because that is OUR survival….there is no harm done to anyone and most definitely positive results will happen in the end!  Same concept as the people I am describing with no backbone.
Hey .. to be blunt and honest ( for it is the only way I know how to be ) this is why Hitler had his followers- peons . I hope I need not say more!
So getting to what I was speaking of :  Ok I will admit it .. for sure it infuriates me when I see people that imitate my words and the things I do.   It has been happening for quite some time .. oddly enough more so now than before ..maybe because I have taken a leave for a bit people thought that I wouldn’t notice – Just remember – a note to you all – NO BAD DEED GOES UNKNOWN!!!! -  just that now I have investigated a bit more and at first I got angry ….pissed off .. took a deep breath and realized that the only reason that these people are doing so is because they look up to me.  However unlike most I do not take this as a point of power – I take this as a flattery and reason to help more .. although I am a bit disturb still because when I speak I speak from my HEART!!!   Truly fully and soulfully!!!  In reviewing these people that are using my words and tactics (please do not ask me what they are for I will not discuss them cause it truly does not matter to me to go further in discussion aside to let people know that I AM aware of what they are doing )  in which come from my heart AND EXPERIENCE .. experience – something that can not be obtained by copying someone.
Well enough of that .. the other issue I would like to share is how badly people LIE…
Call me stupid .. for there is no other word to use – no I am not stupid ? … it is my lack of knowing how CREUL and selfish people really are!!  This is called ignorance for me.  I do not wish to go into detail with this one .. just want to say that anyone that lie’s to you FOR THEIR OWN BENEFIT ..is a PIG!!!   And no one should ever have to deal with a person like that in their lives-unfortunately the kinder you are the more they flaunt to you like a fly on fly paper …. It is definitely not conducive to a healthy life… there are certain lie’s that are acceptable .. the lie’s that do NOT hurt another human being .. lie’s that protect them for OUR MISHAPS.!!!!   If I have not made myself clear I will be happy to explain this to anyone that would like me to do so .. hey .. it is not a Rubik’s cube .. not that hard to understand  - just put your defenses down … step outside yourself and realize that you are not the only one in this life .. and especially if you care for someone .. goodness I hope you are able to do so!!
G-D bless to you all
Thank you for allowing me to vent .. please know that I am ok with the pettiness of what other people are doing to me .. ( meaning .. I will ALWAYS ..always shine through .. cause I am true .. and when you are true .. there is bad and good .. though so much more good than bad – and those that are bad will never live happy even in their death be happy )
So with all this being said .. as much as I want so very much to help people ( I have to make clear that it is not bb site that has pushed my buttons so.. I shall explain on a later date…) I wish those that have nothing better to do .. FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO…cause .. in all honesty .. I know you might not think this as a helpful note .. your life will improve so much once you decide to start focusing on yourself .. and not imitating – coping .. or berating other people!
Many smile to all of you who ARE .. my friends .. xo to you all ..
Sweet smiley dreams..
Deb

"THE NOBLER SORT OF MAN EMPHASIZES THE GOOD QUALITIES IN OTHERS, AND DOES NOT ACCENTUATE THE BAD.  THE INFERIOR DOES THE REVERSE… THE NOBLER SORT OF MAN PAYS SPECIAL ATTENTION TO NINE POINTS.  HE IS ANXIOUS TO SEE CLEARLY, TO HEAR DISTINCTLY, TO BE KINDLY IN HIS LOOKS, RESPECTFUL IN HIS DEMEANOR, CONSCIENTIOUS IN HIS SPEECH, EARNEST IN HIS AFFAIRS.  WHEN IN DOUBT, HE IS CAREFUL TO INQUIRE: WHEN IN ANGER, HE THINKS OF THE CONSEQUENCES: WHEN OFFERED AN OPPORTUNITY FOR GAIN, HE THINKS ONLY OF HIS DUTY."
Confucius.
Oh my goodness .. it does quite amaze me how the right quote approaches me at the right time … as my heart so is true to these words .. it is something I must remind myself every time I awake to do .. as I tell those that are dear to me .. which is why I am sharing this with you .. G-D bless and so many very happy smiles .. deb

"NEVER LOSE A CHANCE OF SAYING A KIND WORD.  AS COLLINGWOOD NEVER SAW A VACANT PLACE IN HIS ESTATE BT HE TOOK AN ACORN OUT OF HIS POCKET AND PLANTED IT, SO DEAL WITH YOUR COMPLIMENTS THROUGH LIFE.  AN ACORN COSTS NOTHING, BUT IT MAY SPREAD INTO A PRODIGIOUS TIMBER."
William Makepeace Thackeray.

So wish more people saw the world in such a way ..

"ONE OF MAN’S FINEST QUALITIES IS DESCRIBED BY THE SIMPLE WORD "GUTS" — THE ABILITY TO TAKE IT. IF YOU HAVE THE DISCIPLINE TO STAND FAST WHEN YOUR BODY WANTS TO RUN, IF YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR TEMPER AND REMAIN CHEERFUL IN THE FACE OF MONOTONY OR DISAPPOINTMENT, YOU HAVE "GUTS" IN THE SOLDIERING SENSE.  THIS ABILITY TO TAKE IT MUST BE TRAINED — THE TRAINING IS HARD, MENTAL AS WELL AS PHYSICAL.  BUT ONCE INGRAINED, YOU CAN FACE AND FLAIL THE ENEMY AS A SOLDIER, AND ENJOY THE CHALLENGES OF LIFE AS A CIVILIAN."
Col.John S. Roosma.

"NOT ONE OF US KNOWS WHAT EFFECT HIS LIFE PRODUCES, AND WHAT HE GIVES TO OTHERS; THAT IS HIDDEN FROM US AND MUST REMAIN SO, THOUGH WE ARE OFTEN ALLOWED TO SEE SOME LITTLE FRACTION OF IT, SO THAT WE MAY NOT LOSE COURAGE.  THE WAY IN WHICH POWER WORKS IS A MYSTERY."
Albert Schweitzer.

"WE SEEK PITIFULLY TO CONVEY TO OTHERS THE TREASURES OF OUR HEART, BUT THEY HAVE NOT THE POWER TO ACCEPT THEM, AND SO WE GO LONELY, SIDE BY SIDE BUT NOT TOGETHER, UNABLE TO KNOW OUR FELLOWS AND UNKNOWN BY THEM."
Somerset Maugham.

Now this is true and very sad in so many situations .. it is those that are not of this that I seek and look to continue my journey!