How to turn this into a partnership and not a challenge/war?
My wife and I are both trying to lose weight, but it seems without trying it turns into this competition! And yes, while it has some pro’s, the con’s are not working for us. Meaning the criticizing of each other diet, the rubbing of one’s weight loss in the other person face, some hurtful things might be said, etc. It’s like without even paying attention, we went from wanting to do this together, to doing this and rubbing it in the other person’s face.
I admit I am to blame for some of the things and my lack of tack in bringing up some of her short comings. She also have her faults. And now with summer around the corner and both of us determined to lose weight, I have a feeling it is only going to get ugly from then on out.
How to keep the peace and lose weight at the same time?
