New gym
Signed up with a new gym this weekend. It’s about 3 times bigger than the one I was currently going to. The equipment is old school, which I love. It’s all about good old fashion sweat and tears. I can’t go back to my gym anymore. Things are over for me and hot guy and I hate going to the gym knowing he’s there. I get agitated and always peeking out the corner of my eyes when he walks by. I want to get my focus back like it was before he showed up. Someone told me "never shit where you eat". They were so right. It’s a learning experience right? I have a hard time meeting guys. Well not meeting them but finding one that interests me. It’s like 1 in a 100 for me.
"Closed off from love I didn’t need the pain
Once or twice was enough and it was all in vain
Time starts to pass before you know it you’re frozen"
For me it holds true. I can see with each time I get hurt I just withdrawl more and more from the dating thing. It doesn’t seem worth trying anymore when it’s all in vain. So do you just give up on love? I can feel my heart freezing.
March 16, 2008 at 6:16 pm
Hey girl!
I think it’s brave that you TRIED - that takes GUTS! Life certainly is a learning experience, and you’re definitely a CATCH! Try to stay positive and stay open to possibilities, gorgeous girl! Don’t give up on love - I believe if you keep your heart open, you’ll find the right person in a beautiful and natural way. I think the journey to finding him is half the experience!
March 16, 2008 at 6:20 pm
You ar way too beautiful to be hung up on ANYONE. They should be hung up on you! It is all in your attitude. Make them wait. Make them SUFFER. lol Hey…best wishes at the new place! OLD SCHOOL…sounds cool!
March 16, 2008 at 6:25 pm
Oh Girl…i have experienced this too. There are definatly times I think its just not worth the pain…but then I think…if we didnt know pain, we wouldnt know love! And if we didnt know ’sad’ we wouldnt know ‘happy’. Try to find a new way to look at the whole dating game….let go of the attachment to the outcome and just be in the moment!! It will become fun again!! Big smiles!!
March 16, 2008 at 6:31 pm
Speaking from a guys perspective I have to agree with Maddi big time. Make their dumb asses chase you. You’re one hell of a catch girl!
March 17, 2008 at 9:38 am
Yes that saying is very true!! Never shit where you eat! I love watching people at work that have started dating and then broke up…lmao…they still need thier jobs…but now they have to put up with eachother…..
The New Gym sounds rockin to me! Always Love yourself first….then you will always be happy….. and when Mr. right comes along…it will be for all the right reasons…. Yeah sex!….lmao
Real Men Have Mass!
March 17, 2008 at 10:43 am
Unfortunately, I had to learn that never shit where you eat lesson a few times, both at the gym and work!! I definitely know how it goes (both with finding one that actually interests you and the withdrawing/getting jaded each time it doesn’t work out)… all I can say is that it WILL happen, it’s just that we get so focused on the moment, that we lose sight of the possibilities out there, you know? It’s insane the amount of pressure we put on ourselves, when really - we should be fine on our own? But chick, you’re intelligent, caring, HILARIOUS, with a gorgeous face and bod, and you’ll find someone equally so when it’s the right time for the both of you.
And in all honesty, that guy didn’t deserve you at all from the get-go with his games. You’ll find someone ten times better, I know it. Hope the new gym turns out fantastic for you. xo
March 17, 2008 at 9:11 pm
oh boy maybe i am glad i work out at a ladies gym only..it is like second home..who needs to have stress their as well.. I hear you about finding a man to date. I have a hard time finding one i like. I dont enjoy heart break as much as the next person.so that means i am single a lot and a long time..actuelly i think i am happier at that place at times ..but then again it does get lonely…whats a girl to do…