Bodyspace has ruined my life!
Well, maybe not quite so drastic, but it has ruined my social life to some degree. You see, I see a whole mega truckload of 30-40 year old totally stone cold foxes on this site. I try not to hit on them and make stupid comments like "hey sexy" and such. I imagine a lot of the females on here get weary of that, since this isn’t a dating site, at least as its main function. Anyway, I see all these super hot women on here and the women I see out and about don’t really float my boat. Now that’s partly my fault since I work out at home, so the fitness chicks at the gym as I recall are nice, but there again, I’m not there for dates, and I assume that most women don’t go to the gym for dates, maybe I’m wrong, but based upon blogs here, I doubt it. It’s not like I am going to try to get a date when I’m all sweaty and stinky anyway.
So, ladies of Bodyspace… next time I go on a date and she doesn’t make my teeth sweat, it is your fault! But I’m glad you are all here!
June 15, 2008 at 1:16 pm
ha ha ha!! oh man!! yess we do not like being hit on at the gym or on here! most of us are going to the gym to workout and thats it, and then on here we are looking for support and then compliments;) (they don’t hurt one bit!) hee hee hee!, ur a good lookin’ guy don’t worry bout’ it!
-PEACE-
iLoveIT
June 15, 2008 at 1:19 pm
lol!! Now that’s funny! And true… My favorite most brainless comment is ‘you look so good for your age’ lol!!!!!!! Duh….
Surf :0)
June 15, 2008 at 1:25 pm
I totally agree with what you’re saying. To take it a step further, seeing these really toned women and setting them as the standard makes dating and marriage very difficult. The vast majority of women are not as muscular as most of the women here but neither are most of the men (myself included). Yet by setting the standard that women and men must be a particular size or bodyfat percentage to be attractive, we or I set ourselves up for failure in good relationships. There are many women out there who don’t fit the mold of the many women who post here regularly but are more than engaging and attractive in their own ways. It is our decision to look at their personality and heart before deciding to date them on the basis of their looks and bodyfat percentage.
Changing that perception is hard, one I struggle with on a daily basis. Trying to be a better boyfriend and not comparing my girlfriend to others I see here is very difficult, one reason I shouldn’t come here as often as I do.
June 15, 2008 at 6:55 pm
LMAO! Hilarious blog, Jeff!!!
In my opinion, a compliment is ALWAYS a welcomed thing, so feel free to throw cheesy words my way ANY time. 
Sorry to hear that bodyspace has raised your standards of what you want your ladies to look like, but maye that’s not a bad thing! 
You are worthy of a hot foxy woman!! 