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ashleyannbarker's Stats for wedding… check! and one funny story from the night….
Created:06/29/2009
Last Modified:06/29/2009
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wedding… check! and one funny story from the night….

my dad gave jeremy and i a wonderful talk right after our wedding ceremony while we were doing pictures saying that the american wedding has three layers.  while we mixed up the order of ours, haha, the layers are 1. wedding ceremony to share with witness of friends and family.  2. legal documentation and officiation.  3.  sex.  we did it backwards haha.  but we did all three now and i think he was right… we both agreed we even feel more married!

the wedding was PERFECT.  I mean really!  call me bias but it was SO beautiful and classy.  the weather couldn’t have been any nicer. it wasn’t humid, it wasn’t too hot, too windy, too cold, too anything. it was perfect!  other than the ant that was trying to distract me crawling around on my dress haha… it was perfect! it was sooo nice that i really only have one story worth even sharing: (but this is good)…

so my cake was a white on white designs three teir layer cake.  it was small becuase i also provided an ice cream bar and other deserts like brownies and such… but it was super cute.  the thing is that with my allergies i coulnd’t eat any of it.  so our cater threw in a free small cake for me so that jeremy and i could do the cake cutting and feeding each other bit. (this was a suprise we didn’t know she was doing… very sweet of her!)  anyway.. when we went to feed each other i bit into what i thought was either a very thick layer of chocoalte or a nut… NOT SO… IT WAS INSTEAD…. MY POOR HUSBANDS FINGER!!!!!!!!!!!!  the poor guy tried to play cool and calmly ask me to release my jaws, but i didn’t understand/hear him and thought, "oh my goodness i’m never getting through this nut, what the heck!" and bit HARDER!!!  his poor finger was looking rough by the time i finally understood that the chocolate nut i was eating was a bone!!!!  oh i felt SO AWFUL!  we got a picture of it.. i’ll post it if my guy gives me a disc like i’m hoping, but take my word for it… it was bad!  i can still almost feel the finger between my teeth! it’s a wonder he wasn’t really injured. ha.. in hindsight and once he knew he was only mildly traumatized haha.. it was very funny, but boy did i feel awful!!! ha!

after the wedding we went to the bar where i promised to do whatever the cover band pulled out of a hat for me to do. i swore up and down that i would… till i pulled out and read it.  with the mic in front of me, i said, "i’m sorry i cna’t do this" they inquired why and when i said because i have no money and it says to buy someone a shot…. haha… they got me one instead… and so went my night!  i’m starting to feel better now but it was a rough day yesterday!  first time i drank in over a year (thanks to the little sweet pea in my lap right now!!!)  i ate terrible, drank a ton, and had a blast and felt awful yesterday for it!  i actually gained over eight pounds in one night!  (i know it’s mostly water, but i will feel better when it’s off and leveled out again!)  this weekend we will actually be celebrating our one year annerversary! (weird right)  how many couples weddings have you been to where the newly weds got to remain dtanding for the annerversary dance to say that they’d already been married a year! haha…

so all in all it was a great time, and a perfect night.  went by way too fast.  i can’t wait to get some pictures on here.  now if i could stop eating the leftover chocolates and such, i’ll be ingood shape!  i just wrote up my next plan for diet and am taking it "easy" on workouts this week (still doing my daily hour of cardio… yesterday was the first day off  after 132 days straight of my minimum hour a day)  so i’m back to cardio and did yoga today but i’m just ganna take bodypump twice this week so i can have some time to spend with my grandma and give myself a "small" break.  then it’s refocus and restart!  i need to work on building a LITTLE muscle.  i got down to 121 and looked a little too "skinny" lean is good skinny is not.  so now to tighten up instead of down!

can’t wait to share pictures!

4 Responses to “wedding… check! and one funny story from the night….”

  1. backto125 Says:

    HAHA!!! I did the exact same thing to my hubby! I told him it was his fault to be willing to put his fingers that close to my mouth when they had sugar and carbs attached to them. I hadn’t had either for 8 weeks. NOTHING but protein until after the wedding at the reception.

    Anyway, I am so glad your day was perfection! CONGRATS!!!

    Bet to you!


  2. backto125 Says:

    HAHA!!! I did the exact same thing to my hubby! I told him it was his fault to be willing to put his fingers that close to my mouth when they had sugar and carbs attached to them. I hadn’t had either for 8 weeks. NOTHING but protein until after the wedding at the reception.

    Anyway, I am so glad your day was perfection! CONGRATS!!!

    Best to you!


  3. Mamaof2 Says:

    Sounds like a perfect wedding. And how funny that you took a bite of his finger…ha, ha. I can’t wait to see the pics!


  4. heidismommy Says:

    Yay, congratulations! Sounds like an awesome wedding, but I’m sorry about the finger thing :O, lol. Good for you for taking it easy btw, I know it’s hard. Can’t wait to see pictures :) .


  5. mgoobie Says:

    hahaha:) love it!! that’s too funny!!
    i’m glad you had a great day! can’t wait to see some pics!! :)


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