Conservative women or most women?
I went to my husbands Christmas party on Friday night. Usually I have a blast. So this year I thought I have lost five pounds, been eating super clean, haven’t missed a workout and felt fantastic in the black dress I had picked. As the night grew closer, I grew more anxious about wearing the "little black dress". I am always soooo paranoid that I am one of those chics wearing something I shouldn’t be but thinking I look good. You know who I am talking about. The out of shape, bigger girls that want to wear something that a size 5 girl could wear. Anyway, so I grew a pair and wore it anyway. There are women so dressed up at this party. Some even have ballroom gowns so I thoulght I would be fine. Plus I have KILLER shoes! LOL So I get to the party and all of the sudden I saw what my table of women was wearing and I didn’t want to take off my coat. I had a glass of wine and figured scew it, I wore so I am going to show it. So I took off my coat and got up to go the the restroom and one of the chics looks me up and down and just kind of snickers as she is 40 and sitting there with her moo moo looking jacket. I was like WTF? So it made me super self conscious all damn night. I felt like sh*t! I kept going to the restroom and inspecting every part of my body and kept thinking what is wrong with my dress? By the end of the night I was like screw it and I went out there and danced and didn’t give a sh*t. My question is…why do women have to be this way? Why is it always a competition or something? Can’t a women wear something a little sexy and have another women say wow you look great instead of being jealous or judegemental?
December 14, 2008 at 9:22 pm
Women like that make me so mad. You probably looked fabulous and they were jealous!
December 14, 2008 at 9:23 pm
haha I have to say I went to a christmas party with my Girlfriend this past friday and we walked in everyone is alot older than we are and there were some women who were staring at her for the dress she had picked. But hey **** it. You and her worked hard for where you have gotten so **** them all! She wore my suit coat for a little while. Some people just dont know how to react to confidence.
Its all good though! Keep rockin it!
Seann
December 14, 2008 at 9:32 pm
My wife just got a little black dress and rocked it at our anniversary. I’m sure you looked fabulous. and who the F cares what the rest of them think. I’m sure your husband loved it. Women have a right to be hot.
December 18, 2008 at 6:27 pm
F’em. All that matters is what your husband thinks. I’m sure none of them could have worn the same dress.
December 18, 2008 at 6:31 pm
She wanted to feel better about herself so she had to put you down with the look and the snicker. Believe me, I guarantee she felt self conscious about herself after seeing how good you looked.
December 18, 2008 at 6:35 pm
Screw them!! You have a right to be proud of yourself & wear whatever the heck you want to wear. I can’t wait til i can wear my little black dress & trust me people will talk about me lol
December 22, 2008 at 11:11 am
I think all women are like this. EVen the ones that think they aren’t. If the next woman looks a little better they get self conscious. You made her feel bad, so she tried to do the same to you.
December 22, 2008 at 11:14 am
There is a shirt on the web that would be perfect for you. It says, "Do I Make You Look Fat?" Wear that to the next little league game. The fat at home moms will probably run and hide.
December 22, 2008 at 8:49 pm
I was looking for a bikini one time and a lady looked at me and said, "you have two kids and are looking at bikinis?"
My mind said F*** her and my mouth said yes!
Screw them they only wish they COULD wear a lil black dress!
February 16, 2009 at 3:01 am
Pretty much what everyone else said. Some people feel the need to degrade others to make themselves feel better. Smile, snicker back, and walk proudly with what you’ve worked hard to get. I get it cause I’m skinny, and its usually from fat jealous people. Live your life, dont let others live it for you