Thirdgensoldier’s BodyBlog

Loss can be described and defined in many terms. One may lose tangible objects, such as money, a wallet, a car etc. But also there are the intangible that seem to cause much more pain. One may lose inspiration, desire, drive. While someone else loses who they are and their own self respect. No matter what the intangible is, pain seems much deeper and harder than objects that help shape our daily life. Dealing with objects that are lost, for the most part, is easy and in a way not as expensive as repairing oneself.
Sometimes you come to wonder why you put so much into one person. You do all you can and hope for the best. When you fall flat on your face you realize that the person you should have put time into was yourself. If you are like me, you have made mistakes in your life but feel like you are still getting the raw deal in the end. One thing is true, keep your head up and keep on pushing. Stay true to yourself because unfortunately people come in and out of your life and friends can fade away. When it’s you and the world, you can only hope to invested enough in yourself to have the fortitude to accomplish your goals. Dream big and aim high, and never let anyone tell you, you will not make it. There are many types of people you can surround yourself with. Hopefully those you choose help you grow and are truly good people.
But unfortunately what would life be like without putting oneself out into the world? What would you learn, experience, and earn? There is no doubt that life experiences and your surroundings shape who you are. Your best bet is that you are a quick study and learn fast. Live life and play hard, but also be careful. If you feel love, go for it. But don’t let lust blur love or let your heart be the only part of the decision making process. There will always be those we loved and cared about, but unfortunately that is why they are referred to in the past tense.
I guess the point is that people will come and go. Feelings blossom, grow and end. But never care or love anyone else above yourself. You would sell yourself short. Make yourself happy with who you are and when you can do that, you are ready to find someone else that is the same.

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