Disappointed
Wow, someone just pointed out that a nasty thread was circulating about me on this site. I am so surprised to see as many as 10 different men speaking about me (or any woman on this site) with zero respect. I’ve been nothing but nice to everyone on the site and it’s really sad that people can’t engage in discussions about the body and fitness without resorting to 3rd grade humour and totally demeaning comments. Oh, well. One less place to feel comfortable or safe.
October 1, 2007 at 11:08 am
Always sad to hear, sorry you were the target. Hopefully the admins were able to ban them, this site has been one of the last bastions of productive physical comments, hate to see that change.
You look fantastic in every way, don’t let it get you down!
October 1, 2007 at 11:11 am
I know this is easier said than done, but forget them, Sugar! You look great and you are an inspiration to many of us. Just the other day I told my flatmate that I hope I look as good as you do when I’m 40! I certainly don’t look that good now! So be confident in yourself and take solace in the fact that you are a help and an inspiration to others!
October 1, 2007 at 11:22 am
I am sorry to hear that some people having been making mean comments about you. But you know that not everyone in the world is nice or respectful. I use to go to Getbig.com everyday, but the racism of some of the people on the site was so bad towards blacks.. No one was every banned or reprimanded, so I rarely visit the site at all. It is sad that even in this day and time you still have people acting so rude. But please do not let the comments of a few sour you to the other wonderful people that are on this site!
October 1, 2007 at 11:28 am
I rarely check the forum any more. I find it discouraging the way people treat each other over there. We are not in highschool any more. Some people really need to grow up. You are doing great and you should be proud of yourself. Keep it up. You are an inspiration to some of us here.
October 1, 2007 at 12:13 pm
I’ve seen a few of those kidns of threads. My mom always said something about if you can’t say something nice, say something else or something in garbled Italian.
Anyway, so is it juicy stuff? jk
October 1, 2007 at 12:22 pm
I have not seen it, but I hve seen plenty of other mean stuff said about people, usually in the misc. section. Sorry to hear you are a victim of this, but please don’t let it stop you. TDeroit’s mon is nicer then me, but I won’t say it on your blog
October 1, 2007 at 12:35 pm
absolutly.. I can’t belive some of the posts I saw about you.. on behalf of all the respectful men on the planet.. appologies to you. You are motivation to many people around the world.. don’t stop !!
October 1, 2007 at 7:16 pm
I can’t make you feel safe, but I can express my belief that there are jerks in every area of society and certainly the relative anonymity of the Internet absolutely emboldens and encourages poor behavior.
Keep it positive. I like that one phrase: "Don’t hate! Appreciate!" Too many haters and I suspect the hate is simply misplaced aggression or self-hatred. People may simply be bored and/or immature, too.
Sending you the positivity and the love, SugarMomma. "Water off a duck’s back!"
Sincerely,
Mr. Cliche
October 2, 2007 at 8:09 pm
I am really sorry to hear that. Just ignore them. People who disrespect like that are usually jealous. You look great and you are an inspiration to many. Don’t let ignorant people discourage you.
October 2, 2007 at 8:22 pm
The good books reads…Proverbs 10:18 He who conceals his hatred has lying lips, and whoever spreads slander is a fool.
Don’t worry about what they wrote, those are just words from foolish people.
October 2, 2007 at 8:42 pm
Don’t pay attention to the mf’ers who are ugly and disrespectful.
They do that out of their own pitifulness…
Your beautiful and doing great! Keep up the inspiring work!
October 2, 2007 at 9:44 pm
don’t listen to the detractors. they are just jealous of your success
October 2, 2007 at 11:29 pm
I agree with Viper1. That kind of gossip is probably from people who feel threatened at seeing your progress and not feeling terribly happy about their own. It’s childish and insensitive, but sadly happens and isn’t worth your time worrying about it.
You obviously have a lot of people here who are proud of you and do you respect you a great deal, so I say forget the nay-sayers. It’s just talk and not worth your time.
Have a great week, hun *hugs*
October 29, 2007 at 9:03 pm
All bodybuilders are subjected to unfair sexual advances. Many males have been groped in the gym at work or in other public places by females who think it is fine to touch a mans biceps ot pecs yet who would be outraged if the situation were reversed. Conduct of this nature is wrong on either side, and the coments are sad I must say you are an atractive lady and rude people will behave poorly, just press on I am glad to see anyone take care of themselves