I apoligise for the lack of motivational blogs of late. I have simply been finding between work and gym and triathlons that I haven’t had the time or energy to type. But I have been thinking about this post all week and reading one of Veronique’s blogs gave me the enthusiasm to type it out.
You see earlier this week I was sent to Melbourne for a couple of days to do a short course on giving presentions, something that I have to do from time to time in my work. This course involved having to give a short talk on anything you like so I decided that the best thing I could crap on for 10 minutes about would be an unqualified talk on burning fat and building muscle.
Rest assured for any Nutritionist/Personal Trainer Nazi’s out there I did qualify my talk that I wasn’t qualified but that I simply wanted to point them in the right direction.
I thought I would probably bore them to death when I started talking about Squating and Deadlifting, Eating 6 times a day etc but instead they got excited, they wanted to know more, my alloted 10mins quickly disappeared but I couldn’t stop them asking questions. They were genuinely excited.
But then the excuses came: "I can be really good at going to the gym every day for a couple of weeks but then I just stop if I haven’t seen results" said one overweight girl.
"I am really good at eating during the day but when I get home I just open the fridge and eat eat eat" said another.
One by one the excuses came out, the self defeating excuses for why something cant be done or why they aren’t in shape. The sad thing was that they genuinely did want to get fit, they did want to lose fat they just couldn’t defeat the mindset that put them where they are.
I just smile and nod when people start talking like that because I realise that until they find that motivation within themselves to change then nothing I can do or say will enable them to see past the excuses.
So I decided to use this forum instead and hopefully here I can offend some people to start thinking about beating the excuses for themselves. Chances are that if you are on this site then you are already one step ahead of the people I spoke to and maybe this will be the blunt object that might get you over the line???
I don’t care if you tell me that you don’t have time to get to the gym! If you wanted this bad enough you would either make time or you would go and get some weights to use at home. I have no more time than you do. Just because Australia is in a different timezone to most of you doesn’t mean we have more hours in a day. I just make the sacrifice!
So you have a bad back/knees/shoulders whatever. I would probably say that the problem is in your heart more than anything else. Do you think that any soldier comes out of the military without something wrong with them. My problem is my knees. I can squat 190kgs and leg press over 800 pounds. If you have a weakness don’t you think you should do all you can to strengthen the muscles around the area??? Sure take it easy and build up slowly just don’t expect me to care when you whinge about not being able to do something.
So money is the issue? I am pretty sure Sweet Potato and Brown Rice cost less than french fries from fat Mac’s. Smarten up a little bit champ. If you wanted this you would find a way.
So for all of you that stopped reading because you got offended good riddance. For any of you left go and check out someone like VT dad that runs in sub zero temperatures. Or maybe someone like ShanBl who works hard and gets it done (her latest progress pics are proof!!!) In fact just go and randomly look at peoples profiles - you are guaranteed to find people who have exactly your excuse….
Only they just see it as a challenge that can be overcome.
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