Second Place Is First At Being Last
I was watching the Military Channel yesterday (while NOT folding laundry) about men joining the Navy Seals. The documentary was covering 12 days of grueling exercises to see who would stay and who would quit and move on to the next phase of the program.
There was one exercise where they had to swim from one end of an indoor pool to the other end while staying under water. They couldn’t come up for air at any point. It took approximately 4 minutes or so to cross. Brain damage occurs around the 5 minute mark, so those men want to make sure they swim to the other side before that happens.
Well, quite a few of the men made it to the other side, but they were either on the verge of being passed out, or they WERE passed out and had to be saved.
What got me is that these mens bodies pushed themselves beyond the point of reasoning. While their minds were probably screaming at them to come up for air, they bypassed that instinct and somehow kept their bodies moving despite being barely conscious by the end.
I took that thought with me while thinking about myself at the gym. While I’m not about to lift weights until I pass out….how f*cking embarrassing would that be….I need to find a way to push past what my mind is telling me my body can do.
Another thing I saw that struck me is when teams of men had a boat race in the ocean. The first place team won the chance to rest, while everyone else had to do some excruciating exercises as punishment.
One instructor informed the men that the only thing worse than what they had to do is being captured by the enemy and to think of these exercises as being captured by the enemy.
He also said that "being in second place is just being the first to come in last". Because if you’re not first, you’re either captured or dead. I took that quote to heart.
It made me think of the quote Ricky Bobby’s dad always said in Talledega Nights: "If you ain’t first, you’re last." And then I laughed to myself.
Dammit! I can never take anything seriously.
Shows like the Navy Seals documentary, or seeing competitors in triathlon races or any other event that requires a lot of mind-strength, have always appealed to me. I love seeing people push themselves past the limits of what their minds set for them.
I also have to mention my son whose mind power is amazing to me. No matter how cr*ppy he’s feeling while playing a sport because of out of whack blood sugars, he fixes the problem by drinking some juice to raise his blood sugars, or coming in for a dose of insulin if they’re running too high, and he gets right back out a continues playing. He NEVER uses his limitations as an excuse to compete with less than 200% effort.
Usually I can never get past curling 15# dumbbells, but last week I was able to curl 20# DB’s 5 times during the end of a particular bicep exercise. The next time out, I plan to curl those 20# bastards for the majority of the reps I have to do.
The show also got me motivated to do more than I had done yesterday morning. It was my off-day for weight training, but I still did my 500 calorie burn. Well, Mdrane suggested I burn another 500 calories earlier in the day that I scoffed at. I decided to burn another 500 calories for a total of 1,000 calories for the day.
I expect to push past a lot of the limitations my mind has set for me.
Weight Training: shoulders, back, abs
Cardio: 500
Breakfast: Must I write it? I will anyway: 5 eggs (1 whole, 4 whites)
oatmeal
coffee w/ milk
Lunch: open faced Sardine sandwich (1 can sardines, 1 slice whole wheat)
Dinner: fish
brown rice
vegetable






January 12, 2009 at 7:05 am
That is one of the largest battles when training women. Most men’s egos push them past their comfort zone just to hit the "numbers" they see the big guys do. But for a lot of women they have spent so much time making fun of the people actually pushing themselves hard enough to require a little grunt hear or there, or to mentally jack themselves up to the point of tossing a weight or two that it is a task in itself to get them close to that point. The body really can take more than most people think it can. A really good example of that would be the difference in how you held and cared for your first child vs. your last. The first one you didn’t let anybody touch and you craddled close to your body at all times…by the time that last sucker came in the world you’re floppin it all over the place! LOL And like, "You want to babysit??!!! Great!! I got a just in case bag in the trunk!!" LMAO
January 12, 2009 at 7:22 am
Wow, you really hittin it hard! That body your chasing is definitely yours.
No, I didn’t get enough sleep last night. I stayed up till midnight cause I saw that one comedian on your videos and next thing I know Im watching a lot of his clips and I keep thinking, ‘Eh, one more video wont hurt…’ You seen his Walkie Talkie piece? Haha, HILARIOUS! Oh well, I brought this upon myself, so I’ll just suck it up and try not to drag today…
One thing about military training, no matter what branch, is that the actual training portion (besides basic training) is WAY more insane than the real world. And the reason is just to be over prepared. Deployments are hardly ever as intense as the training, and Im sure it crosses many soldiers minds, ‘Why the HELL did they put us though that!’. Not saying that crazy stuff never happens, but at least we know we’ll be able to endure it. The only thing they can’t prepare one for is those DAMN sandstorms!
okay, Im done. Tackle them 20 pounders full strength today!
January 12, 2009 at 9:51 am
THe Only easy day….Was yesterday! Thats the Seal Moto! I have trained in the teams…and lived a pretty exciting life when I was younger…. but he exciting thing is this! even at 41…I still get to do the mind battle… like today… I wanted to stop with 55 lbs Dumbbell Curls…. but I pushed on to 65 lbs. After 6 sets of double douch (thats what I call doing 10 reps each arm..then 10 more reps each arm without resting for one set) I was pumped pretty good…felt great to get in the extra! Keep on keepin!
Real Men Have Mass!
January 12, 2009 at 4:38 pm
What a great blog! I really am amazing sometimes at what I think I can do…and what I can actually do. Thanks Shan…you always know when I need a swift kick and I needed one this week!