What motivates me?
Well,people are emailing me EVERYWHERE asking what motivates me. I think they see the progress I am making in so short a time period, and want to know what keeps me focused. Ok, well first off I have to say: I probably have more free time than the average person. I am in graduate school and only have the thesis left. I also am not married/have children/in a relationship, nor do I have a job right now. With that said, however, I dont spend hours working out a day. I usually devote my nights to exercise. Abs and then 1 hr and 15 min at the gym. I guess I stay motivated because I feel like fitness is the only thing "I" can control. Im (BARELY) improving with the thesis but im not the best writer, I cant make a job appear out of no where, Ive never been able to make the people I like- like me/love me-date. So, its fitness. Its knowing that when I step into the gym, I can mold my body the way i want it and not be dissapointed. One time I was doing the preacher curl and a guy stepped back and was like "Wow, you are really ripped. You are pushing me to work out harder." Its just stuff like that. I go home, I see results. That motivates me the next night. Seeing my weight increase is a big factor along with coming here every day. I am probably going for a more muscular look then most females want, but its great to inspire people! I also want to add to the men that go to the gym……. maybe other females look great working out….. I dont. One day I left my earrings in when I went to the gym and the amount of reactions I got was crazy! One guy waved to me, one guy asked for my number etc. So, please keep that in mind if you are looking for a future gf- some peeps dont always have that ‘feminine’ look at the gym. Ok, Have a great day!!!
August 30, 2007 at 10:32 am
I can relate to the sense of control. I am a mom, graduate student, and work full-time. Sometimes it feels like everyone wants something–well, everyday everyone DOES want something. Weight training has been so good for me. In addition to the rush you get after a good workout, I feel accomplished, centered, and disciplined. And will all of that, I get to look better, too! It really is full of rewards.
August 31, 2007 at 11:00 am
I think you are an honest writer and this is the most important factor in writing. Controlling yourself is the first step to creating positive habits. You are doing a GREAT job! Staying focused is not easy when you are an attractive female your age with a graduate degree at your feet. 1 Thess. 4:1-8 has Paul telling a young church that the basics of believing in God and themselves is most important. We all will fall. Immorality is a constant predator. I believe so much in you and I pray that you feel the same for me while I am here in Afghanistan. Have a blessed workout!
September 1, 2007 at 7:38 am
Its much easier without life getting in the way. relationships, children, work can all be distractions.
I changed many aspects in my life so I could live a healthier, happier and get fit.
Funny thing is I think I terrify the guys at the gym even though I always wear earings lmao
Nah, its getting better. Im getting respectful nods and thumbs up now from the regulars which is kewl. Now which one is going to ask me out lmao
Love ya girl. You rock totally
September 2, 2007 at 8:11 pm
Keep up the fire! You’re dedication and perseverance is inspiring. I remember when the only thing I had was the nighttime workouts. Thankfully, the Lord answered my prayers and my wife came along soon after one of the lowest points of my life. You can never force people to like/love you. But I know that your spirit will shine through and someone will be amazed by you. stay strong in the Lord, and He will see you through.
September 2, 2007 at 11:19 pm
Remember to enjoy these times….Some of my best memories are from working out at Texas Tech’s SRC, late at night…not a care in the world! Funny, things have really changed for me since then, but my love for working out remains the same: almost twenty years later. Potentially, the best thing about fitness: it’s forever! IRON-MOVERS UNITE!!
December 3, 2007 at 1:56 pm
At least you are using your time in a constructive manner!! Rock on!!