Blog Entry
Ok, i am gonna tackle a few issues here. I actually dont write this many blogs but I am getting all the important ones out. First, whats with the stalking feature? I guess I see myself connected to everyone, and feel I can learn from everyone (unless they are just here to create a blank profile). Everyone has their own reason, but come on?
Here is the big one. Age…. haha. Ok, well, first off. It shouldnt matter. It doesnt matter fitness wise and it really doesnt matter relationship wise. Most of the people I have dated/liked were MUCH older than me. I think its AWESOME people who are a little older stay in shape and look great! Its not a competition? I think people make it out to be one but it isnt unless you are on stage……There was an oprah I saw one time, and they showed this 70 year old women who did Yoga/pilates most of her life etc. Now, she had great genetics but I swear she looked like she was in her 30s! No exaggeration! She looked awesome. So much so, she was getting hit on by 30 yr old men. Of course she is going to look better than someone my age that never works out lol? What matters in life/fitness/ or relationships is the mentality or what people share in common.
Supplements: They can only go so far. People say: Well, look how many you take; anyone can get ripped that way. Honestly, they work (or i wouldnt be taking them), but you cant build muscle unless you work out. Its impossible. I can honestly say that with a perfect diet, the right amout of protein, etc, you would still see a lot of muscle you see on my body. It doesnt "come" from the supplements. That comes from lifting HEAVY WEIGHTS consistently. I ‘pretty much’ got the same way in hs, and i was taking no supplements at that time (of course, I held back once I got to a point because I thought too much muscle was not sexy).
August 11, 2007 at 7:50 am
nice
"borat style"
lol
good luck and have fun
and who u stalkin’?
lol
August 11, 2007 at 7:56 am
nice
"borat style"
lol
good luck and have fun
and who u stalkin’?
lol
btw
what store did u buy the 6pack
lol
August 11, 2007 at 8:33 am
I agree with the age thing. I am approaching 44 and I can honestly say that I feel better physically & mentally now than I did at 24. As far as the stalking thing, that felt a little wierd when I asked to be someone’s friend and they never responded. After a few days I declined my offer because the number would never leave the "stalking" tab. It just felt wierd. lol.
August 11, 2007 at 8:56 am
Age is irrelevant. A person’s state of mind is much more important, IMHO. The only way age comes into play is if they’re legal
. Other than that, it’s how mature someone acts, what their interests are, and whatnot.
And the "stalking" thing IS a little creepy, that’s for sure
August 11, 2007 at 9:16 am
I do EXACTLY that with the stalking thing too. I mean I know its harmless here at BB, But, it kind of gives me a weird vibe as a person who studies stalking as a risk factor for victimization and lethality I take back my offer if they have been on here too or have viewed my profile.
The older I get, the more I am surprised people do consider age important; I keep hearing it recently, as some people I know are married to people younger than they are.It doesnt matter at all. I agree with you. The only time age comes into consideration is if one person is not legal. Even on a friendship level, people make it a big deal. Well, the person you are dating should be your friend as well. Heck, I have friends of all ages, but i tend to share more in common with people who are much older than I am (at this point). But, its all about interests and personality as you said.
August 11, 2007 at 10:54 am
I really like your blog. You make some good points about everything. I consider my grandmother to be one of my best friends. She is 81, works in her garden and goes swimming with me. I think she’s in better shape than I am. Oh, with the stalking feature, I don’t like that word either. I think they should change it to something like, invitations or something. Thanks for the support, and I hope your knee gets better too.
August 11, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Age is how you carry yourself and your mind set, regardless of the numbers. Muscles are sexy, there is a thing as too much muscle though, IMO. The new AVI SMOKING!!!
August 12, 2007 at 9:20 am
I used to spend some serious cash on supplements, but no longer. I have better things to blow my cash on.