PUA terms
Tuesday, September 18th, 2007
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neg / neg hit |
A negative remark towards a girl designed to break her indifference to you by showing her that you are indifferent to her beauty (or other striking features). Not an insult, that would be bad. More like “Those are interesting nails - are they real?” or “It’s really cute how your nose wiggles when you talk - look, there it goes again! <chuckle>”. No more than 2 negs on an average HB (7-9/7-9), a maximum of 3 on a super HB (10/10). Negs are pretty much a necessity for 10s or strippers (whether they’re 10s or not - simply because they are in an environment which is conducive to them thinking they are 10s). | Mystery |
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DHV |
Display High Value (action/verb) or Display(s) of High(er) Value. An action or story which increases your perceived value. Can be used positively or negatively depending on your perceived value prior to the DHV and whether the chick is Lower Value (you increase hers or reduce yours, preferably increase hers) or Higher Value (you increase yours or reduce hers, preferably increase yours). |
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IOI |
Indicator of Interest - signs/signals from you or from the chick which indicates (real) sexual interest. | ? |
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IOD |
Indicator of Disinterest | Mystery |
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one-itis |
A disorder commonly found in AFCs, that forces them to think that one chick is so special that they’ll do ANYTHING to get into her panties. The most common cure for this disease is to go out and **** a Baker’s Dozen of other chicks to see that one piece isn’t that special. Also see the first question in the ASF FAQ. | John C. Ryan, AKA Jack “Jetma |
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OQ |
OverQualify. The point where the chick rules herself out for not feeling competent enough for any kind of relationship with you. A situation where you come across so smooth and alpha that you simply overqualify yourself to your target. | Mystery |
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sarge / sargy |
The act of explicitly going out and picking up women using pick-up and seduction techniques. | Ross Jeffries |
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sargeholic |
Sort of like an alcoholic… except addicted to wanting to meet, pick-up, and seduce women…. do I really need to describe this? |
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shit test |
When a chick does or says something which is meant to judge the reaction or response from a male, whether the test is done consciously or unconsciously. The specific words of the response are less meaningful than the method and mode (attitude) of the response. | ? |
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Social Proof |
The concept that when you are seen with other women (or keeping a crowd entertained) your social status is raised in the eyes of HBs in the near vicinity. Other forms of display can be seen as social proof (chummy with everyone at a certain place, at ease in your environment, etc.) | Robert B. Cialdini, initiated as a seduction concept by Nathan |
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SOI |
Statement of Intent / Show of Interest. In initiating conversation, or perhaps during fluff-talk stage, making your intent (sexual interest) clear so as to nip LJBF in the bud early on. By declaring your intent (directly or subtly) clear early on, you avoid later resistance to taking the conversation in that direction and clear the way for an easier close. Show of Interest: A (sincere) compliment - Followed by a QUESTION intended to elicit some values (which can be fed back to her later). Statement Of Intent: To suggest doing some romantic activity together. Followed by a CHALLENGE - that is either to do a takeaway, or take the comment back with a “Just Kidding!” or whatever. | Rio |
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VC |
Victim Chick. A chick which comes with a lot of emotional baggage (possibly of past abuse) who gives guys the opportunity to be a rescuer, feel like a hero, feel loved and vitally important in an intense way. Quite often, you’ll hear this type of girl say “I’ve never told anyone this…” when talking about her messed up past. | Alan Palmer / SweetAssSweet24 |
Comments on rating girls by their looks…
Some guys use the following ranking:
- 1-7.5 is an UG
- 7.6-8.4 is a B or Babe
- 8.5-10 is a HB
- the TV gorgeous SHB (super hot babe) is 10.1+
Formhandle Rating System:
- 1-5 is an UG - 30% of all chicks
- 6 is a neutral until screened for personality (she can gain or lose points)
- 6.5 is a B or Babe (50% of the chicks run into on average)
- 7-8.4 is an everyday HB (waitress, receptionist, cheerleader, 10% of all chicks)
- 8.5-9 is an eye-catching HB (magazine model, stripper, aeobics instructor, 6% of all chicks)
- 9.5 is high-quality HB (girl-next-door who could be model/TV personality, healthy, natural, intelligent, 3% of all chicks)
- 9.9 is SHB, way less than 1% of all chicks
- There are no 10s
On my scale, 1 out of 5 chicks are a “HB” before getting to know them and, of the remaining 4 only 1 of them might be a “HB” after getting to know them. Of the rest, maybe 1/3 might be able to improve their appearance to be a “HB” if they took care of themselves physically, dressed & primped themselves better, increased their self-esteem, and improved their attitudes. So many girls let themselves go because of a mixture of laziness and western society’s PC message that people should be accepted for the way they are, even if that means being unhealty and obese. Also, western society rewards people for rudeness. Too bad for those chicks, I won’t deal with them or they’re going to get my Jerk Response.
Formhandle’s comment:
Keep in mind that people’s personal rating systems vary widely. A lot of people would consider anything above 8.0 a HB. Not that we should rank females in generic categories like this, but hey, we gotta track our successes somehow. Another thing to keep in mind is that some 8.0+s will have a < 5.0 personality but some 5.0+s will have a > 8.0 personality. Some guys also like to differentiate between the face and body. E.g. “She was a 7.5/8.5″, meaning a 7.5 face and 8.5 body (or is it the other way around?). Got it? Don’t got it? OK: 1 is bad 10 is good. Simple enough?
Also, some guys rate HBs on whether they could be a model, porn star, or stripper in order to determine the difference between an 8, 9, 9.5. I personally rate looks based on how much they turn my own eyes on rather than if they appeal to the masses. I’m an artist so I have a different aesthetic taste and prefer girls who are more natural looking than waify and more vibrant than curvy. For example, although I would take Pamela Anderson given the chance, she would only rate an 8.5-8.7 on my scale.
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