Non supporting people
After the clanging of the heavy iron and the sweat from the reps and sets of a workout;you’d think that a better half would help you in anything that comes in handy but they get jealous cause their man is training women.Here is someone who is trying to make a name in the training buisness &other ventures but when everytime the person trains a female;they get jealous and enraged because they don’t have the willpower to see that this person is trying to make things happen for their family.Does anyone here have that same problem?Society male/female signifigant others don’t understand that the person wants to make a living making money while helping others reaching their goals.Don’t get me wrong,i’ve got a great job but i want to train others and get certified so i can make more money to get nice things for everyone in the house.sponsership,blogs,mags,etc,.Oh yeah,the person who im talking about is my girlfriend.She never understands anything i try to do to improve the house and family.If you have a person who doesn’t understand about bodybuilding and who jealous about you training people(women included)Don’t listen cause everything will work out in the end for you and/or both.Peace,GMU!!!
May 13, 2009 at 8:36 pm
sometimes it seems like significant others don’t realize that we just love this stuff man. I’ll talk training with a guy, girl, dog..it don’t matter. It’s a big part of who i am, and it’s my favorite subject.
Go GMU! (just joined your crew last week)
May 13, 2009 at 8:43 pm
Toxic people can be anywhere and they usually do it to make up for their own insecurity. As Chris Shugart says, "these are often delusional people wrapped in a security blanket of defense mechanisms, and a reality check is just what they need."
Just say something like "So why are you trying to stop me from making more money and improving the household income?" "Why are you triyng to stop me from improving my health?" "Do you want the death of these people due to no one showing them how to eat, train and the like on your head?"
Then again, chances are she’ll just go off on some tangent you never even considered and well, in my case since I’m an evil jackass, not be spoken to by me ever again.