Mr. Farang’s mumbo jumbo corner

damn! I hate injuries….it means I can’t run for sometme. shittttttttt!!!

For the longest time, I feel I am ugly.  Yes, no kidding.

For an Asian in Asia, I do attract some praises from ladies, lesbian or straight.  But I feel very much uncomfortable with their compliments. 

Of course I do thank them out of correctness.  However, deep down inside I feel very uncomfortable.

Personally, I have a wide ass nose, a flap flap ears, receding hairline, poor skin texture, etc. Personality wise, I doubt I could attract any opposite sex.  Sometimes, those more ladies tease me, the more uncomfortable I feel.

I need to shoot a photo with bunch of kids…may be people will think I have many kids and they will stop all these teasing nonsense. LMAO!!!

:-D

A member family proposed to hand over 14 training sessions to me. I was delighted.

Here comes the problem.

Apparently, the internal system as well as the management of the gym club “denied” the request for transfer. The possibility is high such that the training sessions could be cancelled.

We were obviously upset and angry. The training costs a US$58 ~ 60bucks per session. That is a total US$840/= bucks loss.

Definitely, we are going to lodge a complaint to the club. 

I wanted the training sessions so bad that I have preplan what I like to achieve. This hiccup is not going to ruin my plan.

More and more, I feel this gym (California Fitness) is pissing off with the way they handle clients. It is increasingly favoring more and more NEW customers with special package and free gifts.

Regulars like my friends and I hardly get any free gifts. We have to “beg” for free tshirts. To us, it is not the tshirts we craved for. It is matter of treating your regular clients better. It seems to us, we didn’t get our good share of fair customer service at all. A friend of mine has to pay for the club membership at a much higher rate than newbies.

He left the gym and no one bothers to retain him as a client. What the fuck is that all about?

Recently, I joined a new gym (Planet Fitness), which allows me to talk to a few competitive bodybuilders whenever my rest time permits. The rest time is usually short – 20seconds or so.  If I were rest longer than usual, I will kill my bodyparts with 6 sets back-to-back exercises at a go prior to resting.

So far, I was lucky that a fellow competitive bodybuilder is share training advices with me.

Enough is enough.

It’s weird that dinner or drink is seen as a dating game. I have had it with people. You need to eat to live. Dinner is nothing but to socialize and certainly do NOT mean straight sex.

Dinner 3X = Sex 1 time? what kind of bullshit crap is that? I never think of that when I ask a person for dinner.  If it is a dude, I ask to go dinner with; does that I want his anus?

Women here in my country have some serious mental issues. E.g. A business partner shared with my department with few muffins. I was given one but without a second thought, I share my muffin with a cute girl from my other department.

I didn’t want those fats/carbs in me so I passed it to her. Just an innocent move as such. People from all angles started asking or hinting I have a thing for her. 

What the fuck?!? Women here in my country have some serious mental issues.

As for the girl whom I was going to do dinner/drink with, I’m going to tell  that I am an asshole

Being an Asshole is my manly essence. If you don’t like an Asshole, you can stay away from me.

These couple of months have been very terrible for me in terms of relationship with women.

I don’t know how to deal with them.  Being a patient person, I have tolerated their nounsenses for months now. I could see through all the bullshits, all the crappy reasons; I just keep it to myself - how I feel and tolerate those crap. 

Today, I exploded! I have to … I simply cannot tolerate full-of-shit people (whom let me caught right handed).

It’s so ironic that those I care so much about…they don’t bother about me. Those I don’t care about….they relate/call to me, whatever. So ironic! What is going on? Life really plays me out at this stage of my life, that’s hell !!!

While training has going well, recovery/intensity/growth has been on the uptrend. Work has been hectic and I enjoy that work portion because I get to meet people from all circles. However, people I care about/matters of the heart have been on the reverse trend. It’s so unbelievable.

I don’t mean to disrespect women (I love them). But come on, have some freaking balls to tell me off instead of going around in circle telling me "see how!","I’ll reconfirm with you", etc.  Datings & meetings are meant to communicate. They DO NOT lead to sex. They DO NOT lead to bigger things like affair or whatever is going on in their head.

I caught the woman right handed telling me a lie/lame excuses.

You know what?!? I can always go back to my work, my travelling, my training, my new bodybuilding targets. Do something useful for myself.

Skirt chasing is tiring. If it comes, it will.

Mr. Farang, if you can’t stop yourself; you will hurt your motherfucking self…

I do write to remind myself sometimes. At workplace, at home, at many places where I have things in mind to perform; I write down memo or set reminder.

This entry is for the heart. Yes.

So, Mr. Farang…be careful. You either burn the person or get burnt in return.  

http://blog.bodybuilding.com/MrFarang/2008/06/14/how-a-racist-victim-is-called-racist-what-the-fcuk/

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=108258821&page=6

I cannot believe people still making assumptions here.

Everyone assumes every forumer is America based that all are sharing the same culture. Sorry, if such assumption exists.  Don’t make assumptions.  

The world has so many countries. Don’t assume each & everyone is from 1 single country. Don’t & do not think so.

It puzzles me (again)….totally. Am I not allowed to ask question? Are those questions offensive?

Frankly, if anyone likes to make assumptions; I won’t sway people’s opinion NOR will I be seeking anyone, everyone to side me at all.

sorry, I do not agree and don’t see eye-to-eye with anyone/everyone on this matter.

Just asking a GENUINE skin tone question need NOT be seen as a racism remark.

Anyone, everyone can take it this way or other way.

My standpoint is clear …….. ask question.

Anyone failed to see it……..I rest my case.

I do not ask your agreement in return.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=108258821&page=6

I don’t know by asking a skin tone color question can have a racist trigger point.

see post #162 - #166 onwards.

Hardly, there is any blacks around my neighborhood, my workplace, my gym, my circle of friends.

Asking a skin tone question, I hope, won’t leave me with moral death sentence.

To be frank, I am more than a racism victim than a racist myself. You NEVER EVER tell me I am a racist. NEVER, PERIOD.

Growing up as a member of a minority race in a town where our race forms less than 7 ~ 8% of the population. I was picked on of members of other races as well as other illegal immigrants. 

To hell with them now, I survive the childhood and never go back since. I don’t miss that place. I survive that kind of racism hood without resorting to any violence. REALLY.

If anyone wants to know how racist our world, come join me (racism victim) in my world. I’ll show you, if not, my business contacts will show you how racist our mothafcuking country are. really.

damn. people really get upset over internet, don’t they? damn… To me, if you can get emotional/upset over internet, you seriously need to cut down your web time.

The other weird thing is really……..puzzling. In Asia, you never ask the other person “where the hell do you live?” To us, this is rude.  Why?!?

Home is where the heart is. I NEVER ASK another person ……”hey where the hell you live?” I answer the simplest way ever. Really.

It describe how I feel towards my home country as well as how I should respond to another individual.

Please do not take this blog entry as a target on any individual. It is not.

This serves a reminder to forumers……….. get a better life outside internet. that’s all.

Getting upset, angry, emotional over internet. That’s dumb.

Here we are projecting ourselves as a multi-racial country (dominated by 3 major race), living in harmony. We just celebrated our 10year anniversary visit our country year to attract tourists. We project ourselves to the middle east as the moderate Islam, fair to all, multi-cultural, living in harmony, good business practices,etc; underneath such prositive images, lived millions of people marginalized by economic wealth, business opportunities, education opportunities, etc.

E.g. We still hear voices telling us their kids scored exceptional, excellent results and not able to entry into the university.  The University entries are still based on quota allocating to 3 races. Once the quota for the 2nd & 3rd races have been filled, these students with excellent results are not allowed to entry into the same university.

There are voices telling us that 1st race had their grades entry qualified "loosen" by fill up their quota even as the results from the 2nd & 3rd race students are far more excellent.

Entry into university based on quota is such bullshit and old fashioned.

We still have a certain race group paying more for housing and vehicles whilst the 1st race group get better discounts. 

There is a recent email circulating in my country, which saddens me.  I gave my reply duly with respect to body building experience and support the boycott of that restaurant.

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