This is probably one of the best messages I have ever read. Please take your time to read this, and you will not regret it!!!!
“Waiting for Life to Level Out
The chronic contemplator’s motto is “When in doubt – wait till tomorrow.” If you wait for life to level out before you begin to take control of your life, you will waste a lifetime. Action creates motivation, not the other way around.
I believe many people who are stuck in a state of chronic contemplation have a very backward way of thinking. Most contemplators have a genuine interest in improving their health and physique; however, they still do not act because they are waiting. For what, you might ask. They’re waiting for life to level out, for the current crisis to pass, for work to let up until they have some more energy, after this semester at school – “you know how crazy this year has been?” when the summer is over and things aren’t so hectic and disjointed, and in general, they’re waiting for things to occur that never will. The chronic contemplators would like to cure life instead of manage it.
Life is simply one crisis after another, only broken up briefly by intermittent periods of peace and leveling. The leveling periods are the exception and not the norm! Do not wait for “leveling” or you will wait your life away.
Energy does not precede your Lifestyle choice. Energy succeeds your Lifestyle choice. If you wait to begin
The Lifestyle until you have more energy, you will wait your life away. It will not happen. You have to start. Quit procrastinating!
After a few days to weeks the energy will come. I never talk to anyone, ever, who says they have less energy after they begin a new training regimen and they get their food planning in order. I always hear people talking about waiting until they have more energy to start. Very simply, it does not work that way. It is like saying you are going to wait to start practicing
the guitar until you play it well. Huh? No, you have to practice it for years before you play it well. Start practicing to feel better now. Do not wait to feel better to begin practicing.
If you want to change your body, start with a change in behavior. In other words, begin to act the part, as well as you can, of the person you would rather be, the person you most want to become. Gradually, the old, out-of-shape person will fade away. If you wait until you feel like it to try to change your body, you will never change.. John Maxwell says it very well - “You have to act yourself into changing.”
You must manage life and not try and cure it.
If you are a chronic contemplator it is time to put your knowledge to work and do it instead of thinking and talking about it. The life you are living is not a dress rehearsal. You never get another chance to live it again. There is no do-over. Beginning the Lifestyle is not nearly as hard as thinking about it.
Procrastinating and continuing with the negative thoughts you have had in the past will always keep you at arms-length
from success. Just do it! Get off the fence and become the great person you were destined to become.
Your actions are so loud I cannot hear what you are saying.
I have alluded several times to this stage and it is clearly the one that everyone desires to be in because it is the stage that gets you noticed. Those in the action stage should recognize first that action without insight (contemplation and preparation) will likely lead to short-lived change.
Without question, however consequently, this is the stage where your behavior and surroundings are being modified most noticeably. You are utilizing specific objectives to measure progress, and are no longer living with false perceptions about “how you feel” to guide your change. You are fully committed and full commitment to changing is evident in this stage.
The distinguishing difference between wanting to drop some weight, and really knowing why you will really transform this time, is the depth of the feeling and the drive that ensues from it. Thus, what happens not on the first day or week, but many weeks after, is that you have truly realized why you are going to transform. The person who truly knows why they must transform will be driving, full steam ahead, weeks after they have begun to take serious action. They will no longer
be wishing and hoping for weight loss - the scale, the tape measure and old clothes hanging in their closet will tell them undeniably that they have lost weight.
Transformationists in this stage weigh themselves frequently, they measure body circumferences, and they throw away
junk in the house, log their foods, exercise properly, write goals, and commit to them almost daily. These transformationists also surround themselves with positive peer pressure. They ignore the comments of ignorant
bystanders, they realize they are doing this for themselves and no one else and, in short, they are doing all they
have been preparing to do up to this point.
“It’s not that some people have willpower and some don’t. It’s that some people are ready to change and
others are not.” — James Gordon, M.D.
The unprepared “action” person will become charged up for a few days (this is what I refer to as having
a hot flash) to a couple weeks, and then realize that it takes hard work and focus to really make it happen.
Eventually some emotional episode or short-term illness will occur and since most hot flashers have not set
any goals (realistic or otherwise), they fall off the proverbial wagon.
Hot flashers want all of the good that comes with the transformation and none of the bad. Unrealistically,
they believe they should not have to endure any cost dearer than money to make the change a reality. Hot flashers would love nothing better than to simply buy their way to a fit body with the next gizmo, gadget or miracle pill and powder.
The list of excuses and justifications when you are unprepared for action could fill a thousand pages. Since many of you have thought or spoken these excuses, I will not bore you with samples as they too are as diverse and varied as the individuals who think and speak them are. When excuses and justifications for over-consumption, not analyzing your food intake, and not exercising dominate your thoughts and actions, there is no doubt you are not truly in the action stage.
In short, your efforts were premature and without sufficient consciousness, preparation, and commitment..
During the action stage, others will take notice of what you are doing. During this time you’re likely to ruffle a few feathers, by creating uncomfortable or “different” eating arrangements, reducing the amount of time you spend doing now less important tasks around the house, and no longer seeming as unselfish as you once were. This is your time. Because people will take notice of your action, they are likely to cheer or jeer you depending on how much your action steps are
affecting their life.
The less you affect another’s daily grind, the more likely you are to receive cheers. The more you affect another’s daily routine in what they perceive as a negative way (”Hey, I thought we always had ice cream on Friday nights?”), the more likely you are to receive jeers. Do your best to work with those closest to you, but ultimately you have to decide to firmly commit to your goals and let the chips fall where they may. There are critical times in life when you must throw your whole heart, mind, and body into what you are doing in order to succeed. You must forsake short-lived pleasures for the ultimate goal.
“Whenever you find something getting done you find a monomaniac with a mission.”
Brian Tracy — Success is a Journey
I understand you need balance in life, but when you’re going to break new ground in weight loss and body composition,
you don’t get to assign the transformation process the same priority as your other daily tasks merely to maintain some sort of perfect harmony with the earth. You have to take your transformation to the next level and prioritize it accordingly.
Instead of weight loss being number sixty on your “to do” list of priorities, it immediately moves to the top position or as low as position three or four. What might remain more important than your transformation when it is time for action?: Husband, wife, significant other, career, and children. However, not much else and many times not even those I just mentioned.
Partying with the boys, saying yes to the potluck lunch at work, swinging by McDonald’s every morning on your way to work, sitting down to a nice, big bag of chips and dip at 11 PM at night and having your traditional, popcorn-sized bowl of ice cream every Friday night, all take a distant position somewhere below the success of your transformation. The “I just don’t have enough time” and false beliefs that “I just do not eat that much” are looked at with a realism and conclusion which cannot be avoided - they are excuses and they do not hold water. There will truly be a disruption in your present routine and this may last for several weeks. Because your transformation is now taking a top priority, other areas of your life may suffer for a while. If you clearly know why you must change, these disruptions will not seem as harsh. Being properly informed and prepared for the action stage will help you keep your transformation goals a top priority.
The applause and cheers from your supporters will motivate you to push on and excel. The scary part, however,
is it is typically only during this stage that you receive any recognition. The reason for this is that most people only recognize your change when you are overtly changing. People believe that action and change are synonymous. Although it is no less important when you move from Pre-contemplation to Contemplation, friends and family do not see these changes. You are not noticed and you do not “rain on their parade” until you enter the action stage. In the minds of bystanders you are undeserving of encouragement until they see the physical changes the Action stage delivers. In actuality, however, in order to reach the action stage you had to change significantly. Unfortunately, little recognition exists
for the prep and follow ups surrounding the action stage”.
Be sure and stay tuned for the next issue of Club Lifestyle
tips. In it I’ll share a great quote from Theodore
Roosevelt about who we should admire.”
Sincerely yours in health,
David Greenwalt CSCS
Leanness Lifestyle
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