The Official MANformation Blog

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development  Program for Men

He understands that disagreements, conflicts, and  confrontations are NOT necessarily bad things that should be avoided. 

The Alpha male understands that disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are bound to happen from time to time in the competitive world he lives in. He understands that occasional disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are just inevitable challenges that will sometimes happen playing in the “game” in life.

The Alpha male does NOT view every single conflict as a negative event. He understands that conflict is oftentimes a MANDATORY step toward getting to the very best solution. He is mentally and emotionally prepared for conflict. The Alpha male WELCOMES the opportunity to effectively resolve conflict when it occurs.

Have you heard of the expression, “It’s not personal; it’s business”? Well, that’s exactly how the Alpha male views the occasional conflicts that occur in his life.

“It’s  not personal; it’s just what sometimes happens when people interact.’”

Now, let’s compare the Alpha male’s perspective to that of less dominant men and Beta males: Less dominant and Beta males feel they are the “better man” when they successfully avoid disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations.

That is a belief system that must be DESTROYED immediately!

You must understand that are NOT necessarily a “better” person just because you can successfully avoid these challenging situations. If fact, you are probably selling yourself short with other people by doing so.

Disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are oftentimes important parts of the negotiation process between people that will eventually lead to agreements that can satisfy BOTH parties.

Of course, it may appear that you are getting along well with people when conflict is avoided! At least, it will in the short run it will.

Consider this point:

How hard is it to stay out of other people’s way and give them what they want? If you spend a lot of time and energy avoiding disagreements, conflicts, and confrontation like the supposed “good little boy” you were taught to be many years ago, you must realize this:

While you’ve been “successfully” avoiding conflict and have only gotten in five or so conflicts in the last couple of years, the other person that you need to confront may have gotten into five conflicts BEFORE LUNCH TODAY.

Who do you think is going to be more skilled, confident, and comfortable  when you go head-to-head with that person?

The bottom line comes down to  this:

Is that mindset and approach REALLY working for you? Be honest! If you are in a place of pain because you are unable to get what you really want in your life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself. If you want to have more and better options in life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself.

The Alpha male is extremely confident and comfortable in the midst of conflict. How does he become so confident and comfortable? The Alpha male gets confident and comfortable by constantly stepping up to the challenge every time he must.

If he THINKS that he must stand up for himself and his position—then he DOES it! He conditions himself to never back down during those challenging times—even if he is uncomfortable. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” this MINDSET until it is firmly integrated into his personality. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” TAKING ACTION until doing so is firmly integrated into his personality.

When you “practice and exercise” anything you do on a continual basis long enough, how can you NOT become good at it? And, once you are good at it, how can you NOT eventually feel more and more confident and comfortable when you are doing it?

The Alpha male understands that the competition for the very best options in life can be FIERCE at times! The Alpha male understand that the “game” is always in “play”—whether he chooses to participate in it or not. He simply understands the competitive nature that’s inherent in a select few number of people—especially in other Alpha male leaders.

The Alpha male also understands that other people do NOT always live by his rules, values, beliefs, and standards. He understands that other people may not even believe in them. He never makes the mistake of assuming that they will—or even that they should. And, the Alpha male never takes it personally when other people do NOT play life by his same rules, values, beliefs, and standards.

When the Alpha male does get into conflicts, he doesn’t feel the need to talk about them afterward. He doesn’t need the “emotional therapy” of talking, justifying, rationalizing, and explaining the conflict to other people. There is no need for him to do so because there is nothing for him to “recover” from because he never viewed any conflict as a “bad” event in the first place.

Make sure that you immediately adopt the perspective of the Alpha male when it comes to disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations. Then, start “practicing and exercising” holding onto this mindset and taking these actions steps every chance you get.

And remember, when it comes to effectively resolving  disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations:

If you THINK it—you  must DO it!

There’s no backing down from this moment forward!

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Learn how to START  LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session  Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the  options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get  the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

Read What Men  Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

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“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom  Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

“‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

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“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago,  IL

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“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

====================================

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development  Program for Men

Being a Man Who Simply  Assumes That the Best Outcome Will Occur Is the Most Powerful, Influential, and  Charismatic Quality You Can Have

The Alpha male has conditioned  his mind to assume the very best in himself and in other people in every  situation. He simply assume that other people see the best in him. He  simply assume that other people expect the best out of him.

Less-dominant men who struggle being leaders subconsciously prepare for  the worst in every situation—and simply view that way of thinking as being  “practical” and “realistic.”

It is that really true?

Reconsider  that way of thinking if it applies to you. Whatever you believe to be true for  you, WILL be true for you. You will walk, talk, think, act, and react as if it  is really true. The FACTS will be irrelevant.

Look, none of us are  fortune tellers with crystal balls that can predict the future. You really don’t  know for sure if you will fail or succeed, do you? That being said, why in the  world would you predict, focus on, and make contingency plans for FAILURE?

Start conditioning your mind to expect the very best outcome in every  situation. Expect the best out of yourself. Expect the best in your future.  Expect the best in other people. And, expect the best outcome in your  interactions with other people.

Just assume that everyone thinks  you are awesome. Just assume that everyone thinks you are intelligent.  Just assume everyone thinks that your ideas are amazing. Just  assume that everyone thinks you are handsome. Just assume that  everyone thinks you are “The MAN”!

Back up your highly assumptive spirit  with powerful and congruent body language. When you do, you will get other  people to willing, joyfully, and enthusiastically “buy into your frame”; live in  your version of “reality”; and actually WANT to help you get what you want in  life.

You will be AMAZED how people will automatically believe that your  beliefs about yourself are true—simply because YOU do. With enough “practice and  exercise,” you’ll be ASTONISHED just how effectively you can LEAD other people  into your way of seeing the world.

And, you know what? You’ll lead  YOURSELF into thinking that way about yourself at a higher level at the same  time.

Start “practicing and exercising” being highly assumptive. It is  the CORNERSTONE to being a powerful, influential and charismatic Alpha male.

====================================

Learn how to START  LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session  Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the  options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get  the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

Read What Men  Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a  Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I  find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing  something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts.  The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

====================================

“I am killing the  New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation  strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your  unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has  shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way  in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you  really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing  yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those  you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon  being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom  Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a  powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see  themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and  exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility,  and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I  highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

====================================

“I want to thank you for  helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always  dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I  realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take  charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male  Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a  consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the  face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and  confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an  Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago,  IL

====================================

“I just turned 50  but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as  fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served  me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that  these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking,  feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and  even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already  becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

====================================

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

<strong />Learn to React to What’s Going  Around You On YOUR Timetable–and Never Anyone Else’s

The  Alpha male is a master at displaying the “momentary neutral expression”  on his face. He makes sure that he does so during both positive and negative  encounters with other people.

The Alpha male is calm, cool, and  collected during every social situation. He never shows emotion on anyone else’s  timetable but his own. The Alpha male always controls the environment of emotion  in the group he is in and has everyone in the group working from his frame. They  are subconsciously “trained” by the Alpha male to seek his approval because he  establishes himself as the leader of the group.

The Alpha male will not  show any emotion without making the person he is dealing with or other people in  the group earn it. When someone tries to amuse or impress the Alpha male, his  smiles, chuckles, and approval are slow in coming. When another person greets  the Alpha male, he slowly breaks out his smile in way that lets the other person  know that this smile is just for them. The Alpha male understands that the other  person will appreciate the uniqueness of his emotion when it is earned–instead  of just given away quickly, freely, and easily.

People will sometimes  test the Alpha male or try to establish the frame of what’s going on for  themselves. They will try to “push his buttons.” When someone tries to get a  negative reaction from the Alpha male, that person immediately realizes that his  or her efforts are futile. The Alpha male simply gives the impression that he  doesn’t “get it” (although he certainly does). The other person will never get a  reaction from the Alpha male until the Alpha male DECIDES to react.

The  Alpha male works from his own timetable and decides when, how, and how much  emotion he gives to another person’s words or actions.

This is just one  more of the subtle ways the Alpha male is influential, persuasive, and  charismatic–and always controls the frame.

====================================

Learn how to START  LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session  Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the  options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get  the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

Read What Men  Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a  Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I  find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing  something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts.  The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

====================================

“I am killing the  New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation  strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your  unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has  shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way  in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you  really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing  yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those  you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon  being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom  Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a  powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see  themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and  exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility,  and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I  highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

====================================

“I want to thank you for  helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always  dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I  realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take  charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male  Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a  consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the  face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and  confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an  Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago,  IL

====================================

“I just turned 50  but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as  fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served  me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that  these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking,  feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and  even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already  becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

====================================

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program  for Men

“Practice and Exercise” Saying Less During Your  MANformation

The Alpha male has developed the unique ability to communicate his powerful message in the most effective and efficient manner possible.

He doesn’t waste time with unnecessary conversation. He  doesn’t use words that aren’t needed to get his point across.

The Alpha male only needs “seconds, words, and sentences” when he speaks to others. Beta males and less-dominant men, on the other hand, require “minutes, paragraphs, and pages” to make the very same point.

As far as his communication  style is concerned, the Alpha male lives by the rule that “Less Is More  POWERFUL.”

The Alpha male understands that, the more he needs to  explain himself, the more power and influence he loses.

For more  MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.

====================================

Learn how to START  LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session  Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the  options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get  the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click HERE for more information

Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and  Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

====================================

“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom  Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Click HERE for more information

====================================

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

====================================

“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago,  IL

====================================

“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

====================================

Your investment is only $99.97

Click HERE for more information

====================================

Copyright 2009 Skip La  Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a  registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program  for Men

You Must Understand and Appreciate the Massively Important Roles  of Influence and Persuasion in Your MANformation

The Alpha male  understands that he can only accomplish so much in this world by himself. It  doesn’t matter how hardworking and intelligent he may be, he knows that he needs  the support of other people in his pursuit of the best things in life.

There are countless numbers of hardworking, intelligent Beta Males and  less-dominant men who struggle because they haven’t figured this out yet. They  take pride in being “loners” who make it their mission not to depend on anyone  else.

In order to make your MANformation quickly and effectively, you  must learn the skills of influence and persuasion. You must become a “people  person” if you want to improve the quality of your life.

The powerful  men who get what they really want in life understand that everything ultimately  comes from other people. It will be your ability to influence and persuade other  people to help you that will determine if you get the opportunity to enjoy  better relationships with the most amazing people, live more exciting  experiences, earn more money, and gain access to the best deals.

Options  are all of the things in life that you REALLY want. Options can be material  things, feelings, or emotions. Your goal should be to have access to as many  options in life as humanly possible. You do not necessarily have to exercise all  the options available to you. You just want the decision to be YOURS—and not  hope it magically comes your way someday.

You deserve everything you are  getting in life—and you do NOT deserve everything you are not getting (at least,  not yet). It’s that plain and simple. If you want more, start working on your  influence and persuasion skills.

Do NOT blame other people if they do  not give you the respect that you “think” you deserve. Take 100 percent  responsibility for the way other people are currently treating you. Take 100  percent responsibility for what you are and are not getting in this world.

Here’s what you must do to influence and persuade other people to help  you get what you want:

1. Get other people to trust you; respect you;  and see you as an expert. Work hard on yourself first—and give other people  a legitimate reason to follow your lead. Actually BECOME the person that other  people trust, respect, and see as an expert. It takes focus, dedication,  practice, and exercise—so GET TO WORK NOW!

2. Have congruent,  matching body language that demonstrates to other people that they should trust  you; respect you; and see you as an expert. Powerful body language is an  extremely important “sales tool.” Work on it.

3. Be confident about  what you say and do—and other people will “buy into” your frame or reality.  People WANT to be led. The world is desperately looking for LEADERS. Trust  me.

4. If you are not as confident as you should be, then you  must learn to “fake it until you make it.” At the very least, play yourself  up where you belong—and do not play yourself down. Quit being humble! It is NOT  serving you well. Since the beginning of time, leaders who ABUSE their power  have DECEIVED the masses into believing that being humble, quiet, and to just  turn the other cheek when someone takes advantage of you is the RIGHTEOUS way to  be. Why would they do this? So the masses would just shut up and follow THEIR  lead without questioning them. As Dr. Phil would say, “How’s being humble  working for you so far?” It’s time to stop buying into this nonsense and start  thinking for yourself.

5. If you want to be a MASTER of influence and  persuasion, you must take responsibility for BOTH SIDES of the conversation.  I know it is sometimes tough enough to keep yourself in line. To become an  effective LEADER, you must become strong enough to carry BOTH sides.

6. Practice and exercise the skills of influence and persuasion.  Be patient. Be persistent. The chances are you will not be all that great at it  at first—just like you aren’t great at anything you first start doing. Don’t  quit just because you blow it a few times. Keep on, keepin’ on, my brother!

For more MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the  MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.

====================================

Learn how to START  LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session  Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the  options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get  the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

Read What Men  Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a  Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I  find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing  something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts.  The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

====================================

“I am killing the  New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation  strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your  unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has  shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way  in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you  really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing  yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those  you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon  being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom  Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Click  HERE for more information

====================================

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a  powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see  themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and  exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility,  and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I  highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

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“I want to thank you for  helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always  dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I  realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take  charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male  Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a  consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the  face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and  confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an  Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago,  IL

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“I just turned 50  but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as  fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served  me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that  these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking,  feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and  even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already  becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

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Your investment is only $99.97

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

He Understands That the More Effective Strategy Is to Have Other  People Step Up and Into HIS Frame and Live In HIS Version of Reality

The Alpha male never plays down his power just to make less confident or  judgmental people feel more comfortable in his presence. In fact, if other  people might be judgmental or uncomfortable in his presence, the Alpha male will  rarely even notice.

That will not even show up on the Alpha male’s  “radar.” Not because he is arrogant or insensitive. It doesn’t show up on his  radar because he understands those are other people’s issues–not his. They need  to deal with those issues–not him.

he understands those are other people’s  issues–not his. They need to deal with those issues–not him.

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Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and  Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant,  and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times  for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these  life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of  admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the  implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because  I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want  more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

“I was  extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is  presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think  about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new  possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I  highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best  MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way  they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out  strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take  responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want  in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

“I want to thank you  for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I  always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my  peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence  to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced  them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the  better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor  the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to  being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL

“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along  for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I  had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So,  I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to  stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20  years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have  stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my  life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

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Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. .  .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

Get the MP3  Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your  “MANformation” TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and  get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3  sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Click  HERE for more information

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

With the Greater the RISKS You Take In Life, the Greater the REWARDS You  Stand to Gain

The Alpha male is a risk taker. He takes the  necessary risks to get what he really wants in his life. His risks are  proportional to the level of achievement and fulfillment he wants in his life.

Many less dominant and Beta males have little chance of getting what  they really want in life because they are not taking enough risks. Or, they are  not taking big enough risks. The greater the risks you take in life, the greater  the rewards you will usually enjoy. Your ability to take risks will be a piece in  putting together your MANformation puzzle. Let’s face it, if you never put  yourself in a position to win big, you’ll have absolutely no chance of winning  big.

There’s a price tag for everything in life worth having. The bigger  the prize you are after, the more it costs. The unfortunate part about taking  risks is you may pay an outrageous price for success—and have no guarantees the  goods will ever be delivered.

I remember when I was an ambitious,  hardworking 19-year old employee at the grocery store. One day, I was mapping  out my financial future while putting cans of motor oil on a display. “By the  age of 27,” I said to myself, “I will be earning $100,000 a year.”

That  was a nice goal to have, but how in the world did I ever expect to do that? Even  if I was promoted up the ranks at a rather quick pace (which I was) and I became  a store manager at the relatively young age of 27 (which I was as well), how did  I ever expect to be earning $100,000? The manager’s position—even including a  great bonus—would only earn about $75,000. In the job I was working, how did  ever think I was going to earn more? The only way I was going to earn $100,000  by the age of 27 was to get off that track, take some risks, and do something  else for a living. What was I thinking at the time?

As you make your MANformation and transform into the man you really  want to be, there will be just as much discomfort and anxiety as excitement and  satisfaction during your journey. The good and bad feelings are directly  proportional—if you are really stretching yourself.

It’s up to you to  control your emotions during both the good and bad times. It’s up to you to  choose which emotions you will focus on—they are all always present. Risk taking  may seem unfair and uncomfortable at times, but this fact is undeniable: Behind  every awesome and fulfilling victory lies the possibility of gut-wrenching pain  and devastation.

As I stated before, if you want to win big you stand  the chance of losing big. The two are directly proportional. That is, if you are  going for what you really want—and not settling for less based on your fears.

If you want the great position in your company, you may have to work for  years climbing the corporate ladder and endure all the office politics that come  with it. You’ll need to deal with the heartache, pain, ups and downs, and  victories and defeats along the way—with no guarantee you will ever get that  sought-after position. If you want a relationship with a special person, you’re  going to have to ask that person with all the incredible qualities you really  want out on a first date. Even though she might reject you on the spot, you’ll  never go out on a date at all until you approach the object of your desire in  some way.

The Alpha male is courageous. Courage is what you’ll need to  take the risks essential for success. Courage is a character quality you must  constantly use and refine to achieve what you want at the level you want.

Courage is the antidote for fear. There is nothing wrong with feeling  the emotion of fear. In fact, I am fearful on a fairly regular basis. What will  determine your level of success is what you ultimately do and do not do when  that inevitable fear is present.

One other point: Risk only what you are  prepared to lose. Whether what you lose is time, money, a job, a business deal,  rejection, or emotional security, it doesn’t matter. That’s why they call them  risks and not “sure things.”

What every man is willing to lose in any  particular situation is different.

The Alpha male is more willing to “roll  the dice” and lose his time, money, a job, a business deal, rejection, and  emotional security because he is confident that he can put himself in a position  to win at a much greater level that his current status.

The Alpha male  is confident that risking losing his time will earn him even more time to do the  things he really wants to do in the future. Risking losing his money now will  earn him 100 times more money in the future. Risking giving up his current job  will lead him to a more fulfilling job with more pay or even lead to creating  his own business. Risking losing a business deal will make that business deal  three times as beneficial to him. Risking losing some of his pride and being  rejected will lead to him being a situation that he always dreamed of being in  someday. Risking losing emotional security to get to a place of absolute  fulfillment instead of settling for what barely satisfies him.

The  Alpha male understands that risk-taking takes practice. The more he practices  taking risks, the easier it becomes for him to take them.

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Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and  Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant,  and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times  for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these  life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of  admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV 

“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the  implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because  I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want  more.”

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

“I was  extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is  presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think  about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new  possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I  highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best  MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way  they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out  strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take  responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want  in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

“I want to thank you  for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I  always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my  peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence  to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced  them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the  better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor  the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to  being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL

“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along  for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I  had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So,  I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to  stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20  years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have  stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my  life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

====================================

Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. .  .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful  Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course

Get the MP3  Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your  “MANformation” TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and  get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30  minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3  sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Click HERE for more information

====================================

Copyright 2009 Skip La  Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a  registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.

<strong />The Only Time You Are Growing Is When You Are Uncomfortable

The Alpha male is a leader by design—not by chance. The Alpha male is s  strong and powerful FORCE because he has paid his dues in life time and time  again. He has continually stepped up to the challenges that have stood in his  way—and did not look for ways to avoid them. Whether he succeeded, failed, or  experienced something in between, the Alpha male became STRONGER with every  single experience.

The only way for you to become the strong and  powerful man you want to be is through the “practice and exercise” of these  MANformation principles during the tough, less-than-ideal conditions that life  inevitably offers.

Instead of hoping for times to get easier, you must demand yourself to  become physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically TOUGHER to handle  anything that comes your way.

Some pressure; some stress; and a little  discomfort are not necessarily bad things. The MANformation principles will help  you use pressure, stress, and discomfort to EMPOWER you. The Alpha male realizes  that, in order to maximize productivity in his life, he absolutely must create  some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort—and do so on a continual basis.

Some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort force you to step and up  and use all of your physical, mental, emotional, and psychological abilities to  the fullest. Without some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort, why would  you ever need to perform at your very best? You should willingly, joyfully, and  enthusiastically welcome some manageable pressure, some stress, and some  discomfort into your life to drive you to become a better version of you.

Some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort are necessary evils in  life if you want to get everything you want. They can become quite burdensome  and difficult to deal with at times. Without some pressure, some stress, and  some discomfort, however, there would be no real sense of urgency to get  anything accomplished whatsoever—let alone accomplish tasks that produce  outstanding results. Even if you don’t meet your ambitious, self-imposed goals,  you will end up far more productive over time than those people who do not allow  themselves to feel some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort.

The  only time you are growing is when you are uncomfortable.

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Learn How to  START Leading and STOP Following with Skip La Cour’s . . .

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Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to  You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!

Become the MAN you  really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This  course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP  strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed  to you today.

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Is Acting Humble REALLY Serving You Well In Your Life?

The  vast majority of us DO NOT have the problem of thinking we are BETTER than we  really are. Most of us sell ourselves WAY TOO SHORT. We don’t give ourselves  nearly as much credit as we should. We don’t carry ourselves with the confidence  we should.

While we are selling ourselves short, we unintentionally convince other  people to treat us accordingly. The people around us simply fall in line with  the way we are presenting ourselves. And we wonder why we sometimes don’t get  treated with the respect that we deserve? Think about that.

Even if you  actually thought and acted like you were as good as you really are, you should  NEVER play yourself down and act humble just to make other people feel  comfortable. You should NEVER act humble just to make other people (who may be  struggling with their own happiness and confidence) comfortable in your  presence. If they don’t feel comfortable in your presence just because you  display confidence, that’s their problem-not yours.

If you think and act  as good as you really are, that’s a GREAT quality to have.

The number of  people in this world who act BETTER than they really are is so small that I  wouldn’t even worry about that challenge. And, if you already know you are  having trouble convincing people to treat you with the respect you deserve,  acting humble shouldn’t even be a consideration.

Trust me. The people in  this world who are truly comfortable with their lives will be impressed with  your confidence.
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Learn How to START  Leading and STOP Following with Skip La Cour’s . . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to  You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!

Become the MAN you  really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This  course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP  strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed  to you today.

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“Skip La Cour’s  messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are  insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each  session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to  drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the  price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV 

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Your investment is only  $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Click  HERE to order

“The Mindset and Actions of  a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline

Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)

The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level  you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical  situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature,  productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want  in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were  expected to be when they were young.

Learn seventeen (17) of the  most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being  “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt  this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at  the level you want to win.

The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha  Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)

You can spot a powerful and  charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you  think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing  about him?

Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC  things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye  movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his  strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other  situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt  this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential,  persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.

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“I am killing the New York  City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most  of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to  the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY

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The Specific Influence,  Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4  minutes)

The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other  people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants  in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and  charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too,  will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.

The Structured  Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2  hours; 11 minutes)

Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha  Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows  he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll  start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.

Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58  minutes)

An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because  of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals.  With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you  will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your  life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This  goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model  to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.

Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader  Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)

Learn  thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader  executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth.  When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will  enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.

Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you  NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!

Click  HERE to order

===============================

“I was  extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is  presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think  about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new  possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I  highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best  MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl  Greenfield, WI

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

Controlling the Frame In A Relationship Can Be Like A Game of  "Chicken"

Wikipedia defines the game of "Chicken" is an  influential model of conflict for two players in game theory. The principle of  the game is that while each player prefers not to yield to the other, the  outcome where neither player yields is the worst possible one for both players.  The name "Chicken" has its origins in a game in which two drivers drive towards  each other on a collision course: one must swerve, or both may die in the crash,  but if one driver swerves and the other does not, the one who swerved will be  called a "chicken," meaning a coward.

When two people who are in any kind of relationship (business,  intimate, and friendship) have a disagreement, it isn’t always the person who is  “right” that is the most influential. And, as you have probably experienced at  one time or another in the past, the person who is “right” will not always get  his way. The person who controls the frame will get his way.

The Alpha  male understands that the person who values the relationship least is oftentimes  the most influential. If he is more willing to walk away from the relationship  if it doesn’t the way he wants more than the other person (or gives the  impression he is more willing) he can oftentimes get his way whether he is  “right” or “wrong.” Most of the time, “right” or “wrong” is merely and  opinion—and the Alpha male makes sure the relationship works from what his idea  of “right” is.

An Alpha male’s influence over another person can be just  like a game of “Chicken.” As you strive to take your Alpha male qualities and  characteristics to the next level, hold tight in your frame whenever possible.  Evaluate your situation and practice playing “Chicken” in the game of influence  whenever the risks allow you to do so. With enough time and practice, you can  take more and more skilled risks.

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Learn How to  START Leading and STOP Following with Skip La Cour’s . . .

“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio  Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to  You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!

Become the MAN you  really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This  course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP  strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed  to you today.

===============================

“Skip La Cour’s  messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are  insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each  session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to  drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the  price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV 

===============================

Your investment is only  $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation”  TODAY!

Click  HERE to order

“The Mindset and Actions of  a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline

Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)

The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level  you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical  situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature,  productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want  in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were  expected to be when they were young.

Learn seventeen (17) of the  most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being  “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt  this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at  the level you want to win.

The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha  Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)

You can spot a powerful and  charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you  think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing  about him?

Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC  things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye  movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his  strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other  situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt  this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential,  persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.

===============================

“I am killing the New York  City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most  of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to  the few of us who want more.”

Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY

===============================

The Specific Influence,  Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4  minutes)

The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other  people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants  in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and  charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too,  will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.

The Structured  Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2  hours; 11 minutes)

Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha  Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows  he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll  start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.

Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58  minutes)

An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because  of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals.  With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you  will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your  life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This  goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model  to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.

Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader  Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)

Learn  thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader  executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth.  When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will  enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.

Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you  NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!

Click  HERE to order

===============================

“I was  extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is  presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think  about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new  possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I  highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best  MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl  Greenfield, WI

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour  Consulting.

Get clear on exactly what you want in this world. That sounds like such a simple, easy-to-implement way of thinking—but it’s really not. Just like most of the things you do in life, there is always a higher, more accomplished, and more proficient level you can operate at. The higher level you can operate at in anything in life, the greater the rewards you will enjoy.

Learning how to take your “knowing exactly what you want” thinking ability to the next level is no exception. With enough focus, assessment, and practice, you will see that whatever level you understand and execute knowing exactly what you want now, it will pale in comparison five years from now. That is, of course, if you do the continual work needed to improve. The clearer you can get about knowing exactly what you want out of every situation in life, the better. When you get better at knowing exactly what you want, the options in life that you will create for yourself will dramatically increase. Never take for granted that you are already doing “good enough” in this area of your life. Adopt the belief that you can always do a better job.

Make sure that you ask for what you really want in life—instead of asking for what you think you can get. Instead of asking yourself “Hmmm . . . I wonder what I could get out of this situation?” get in the habit of always ask yourself “What do I WANT in this situation?” This may seem like a small difference as it appears in the written word but, in the real world “law of the jungle,” there is a MASSIVE difference!

This is a major difference between the way an Alpha male* thinks and how less dominant and Beta males think. Less dominant and Beta males will think to themselves “I really want ‘this.’ It would be awesome if it worked out that way—but I bet they’ll only give me ‘that.’ I’ll suggest a compromise that’s somewhere in between ‘this’ and ‘that’ instead.”

Less dominant and Beta males will take themselves through this back-and-forth thinking process BEFORE the negotiation with another person even begins! Less dominant and Beta males will oftentimes UNCONSCIOUSLY do this and then wonder why they never seem to get what they really want in life. There is no mystery here. These mediocre results they settle for are NOT happening by accident.

This is NOT the way an Alpha male thinks. In his most powerful and determined mental state, the Alpha male identifies, focuses on, and then tenaciously goes after exactly what he really wants—and never settles for a watered-down version unless he is forced to do so.

Be decisive when identifying what you really want. Learn how to make decisions quickly by practicing making decisions any time you can. It doesn’t matter how big or small the decisions you make are, just make as many of them as you can. Just like exercising in the gym, you will start building and maintaining your “decision-making muscle.”

You can always make adjustments or an entirely new decision later if needed or when you have more information. This is another key difference between the Alpha male and less dominant and Beta males. Less dominant and Beta males will collect massive amounts of information and invest a lot of time before making all of their decisions. If a decision they make doesn’t turn out to be the best decision, they go through the entire belabored process all over again collecting even more data and investing even more time.

Although the less dominant and Beta males might achieve a higher percentage of “victories” versus so-called “losses,” the Alpha male enjoys a significantly higher number of victories during the same time period because he has made so many more decisions. It’s the number of victories that you experience—not the higher percent of victories compared to losses—that will get you ahead in life. The more decisions you make, the greater your chances for more victories.

The Alpha male concentrates on racking up as many victories as he can in the shortest period of time—regardless of how any so-called “losses” might affect his ego (because he won’t let them) or how they may look in other people’s eyes (because he doesn’t care). Less dominant and Beta males get overly concerned with how many “losses” they will suffer, how those losses might affect their more fragile egos, and fear how badly they might look in other people’s eyes.

For more MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.

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Become the MAN You Really Want To Be with Skip La Cour’s MANformation One-on-One Coaching

Get the personal coaching you need to take your body, mind, and spirit to the next level during this year. Skip La Cour is now accepting a selected number of the most committed men for WEEKLY one-on-one MANformation coaching phone consultations. La Cour will direct you through an individualized, STRUCTURED program every week that will guarantee your MANformation success.Now, only a six-month commitment and monthly investment in yourself is required. If you are serious about FINALLY making things happen for you and interested in this exclusive program, go HERE and sign up NOW.

How much of an impact would the challenge presented in John F. Kennedy’s “Ask  Not What You Can Do for Your Country” speech have made if he wasn’t all that  “into it” while he spoke? Would the powerful words crafted into Martin Luther  King, Jr.’s “I Have a Dream” speech have made the same social influence if he  really didn’t think he could make a difference while speaking on stage?

Would it really matter how many times Michael Jordan successfully  executed his jump shot during practice if he wasn’t confident in his ability to  score when the game was on the line?

Would the hours Marlon Brando  invested rehearsing his role in “The Godfather” have made his performance just  as memorable if he doubted his ability as an actor during filming?

Sometimes, it doesn’t matter how much you know. Sometimes, it  doesn’t matter how hard you work at something. If you don’t have a confident and  powerful attitude when it’s time to deliver, your actions will not have the same  impact as if you did.

Mechanical strategies and tactics have very little  power if they are not fueled with the proper mindset.

Before you  implement any of the Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS) that you’ve  learned from the MANformation Program, you must find a way to quickly get  yourself in the right mental state.

Your Alpha Power State (APS)  is the “state of mind” you will deliberately and strategically call upon when  you want to use your powerful Alpha Male/Leadership qualities and  characteristics. You will summon your Alpha Power ON DEMAND—instead of hoping it  just comes about by chance.

Don’t expect this to come naturally! Be  prepared to do the work needed to master your emotional state. Have fun with the  process. You will develop this skill with time and practice—and finally take  control of this part of your life.

“The Mindset and  Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Course

Hello Men!  I just  wrapped up the MANformation “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Seminars series–and it was AWESOME!

Have you ever enjoyed those days when it seemed like nothing could go wrong?  Everything seemed to go your way. I mean, you were “on fire”! You were cool,  calm, collected and confident—and everything you did seemed to flow easily and  you executed perfectly. The people you came in contact with during your day  seemed to respond to you in a much more positive way. You were “the man” who was  influential and persuasive!

Of course you’ve had those times. We have  all had those powerful days at one time or another, haven’t we?

Those  days just don’t happen as a result of luck. They don’t happen by accident. You  CREATED them because of specific things you did and did not do. The question is,  “What were those specific things you did and did not do?”

Do you realize  that how highly you think of yourself; what you feel you deserve out of life;  your internal dialog (what you say to yourself); the way you hold and move your  body (physiology); your mindset when dealing with other people; and the way you  interact with other people are all much different when you are “on fire” as  opposed to when you are struggling?

How  do you do all of those things—that you obviously know how to do—more often?  Wouldn’t it be great if you could “snap your fingers” and make yourself think,  walk, and talk like the powerful Alpha male that you’ve been able to pull off at  one time or another?

The first step in creating what we’ll call your  Alpha Power State (APS) is being aware that you already have that power  inside of you! You choose to be a strong and confident Alpha male at certain  times—and you choose to be a less dominant man or a passive and weak Beta male  at other times. You may not consciously choose to do so—but you do indeed make  those choices.

Your Alpha Power State (APS) is the “state of mind” you  will deliberately and strategically call upon when you want to use your powerful  Alpha Male/Leadership qualities and characteristics. You will summon your Alpha  Power ON DEMAND—instead of hoping it just comes about by chance. You will  develop this skill with time and practice—and finally take control of this part  of your life.

Over the coming weeks, MANformation will help you develop  the skills needed to bring out the Alpha male inside of you on demand. For now,  just realize that if you’ve felt those feelings once, you can feel them any time  you want in the future with awareness and enough practice.

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“The  Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Course

Hello Men! I just  wrapped up the MANformation “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha  Male Leader” Seminars series–and it was AWESOME!

The Alpha male is always looking for creative ways to differentiate himself from  his competition and become “the best” at what he does. Here is another example  of how the Alpha male creates his own reality—and then boldly and confidently  convinces the world to willingly buy into it.

The Alpha male has an  incredible drive to be “the best” among his peers. However, the Alpha male  understands that being considered “the best” is simply a matter of perspective.  It’s a very big world and the competition to be the best is fierce.

The  Alpha male understands that, if he can create and accentuate unique qualities  about who he is, what he does, and what he is all about, he puts himself in a  category all by himself. Or, at the very least, the Alpha male positions himself  in a category with a lot less competition.

The Alpha male will creatively “spin” his situation to show himself in  the very best light. He’ll differentiate himself from the competition by  accentuating the fact that he is the youngest or oldest in his group; the most  educated or even the least educated winner if that distinction gets the job  done; the nicest “warrior” at what he does or the biggest “SO.B.” if that  separates him from the pack. Maybe the fact that he is stable family man or a  wild and carefree bachelor makes him a little different. He might even separate  himself from his competition by his ethnicity or gender if it is accurate and  effective. The Alpha male will do whatever it takes to get the job done.

This is not only an extremely effective strategy to become “the best”  among his competition—it is also the 100 percent truth. Finding ways to  differentiate himself from the competition is another way the Alpha male creates  the strong sense of confidence that radiates from every pore of his body.

Less dominate and Beta males tend to see themselves as “second tier”  individuals and “also rans”—even when they are actually accomplishing some  amazing things. Selling yourself well comes down to how you see yourself in your  own mind—not necessarily how you think the world might see you.

Less  dominant and Beta males oftentimes sell themselves and their accomplishments  short. They send out a message to the world that says “I’m not quite as good as  I’d like to be”—and THAT attitude radiates from every pore of their bodies.

Become a creative genius and spin your story and a way that showcases  you in the very best light. You’re not lying or even bragging—you are simply  telling the TRUTH now. From this day forward, NEVER sell yourself short again.  Leave that disempowering attitude to the less dominant and Beta males!

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Get the “Alpha  Edge” and Become the MAN You Really Want To Be with Skip La Cour’s MANformation  One-on-One Coaching

Get the personal coaching you need to  take your body, mind, and spirit to the next level during this year. Skip La  Cour is now accepting a selected number of the most committed men for WEEKLY  one-on-one MANformation coaching phone consultations.

La Cour will  direct you through an individualized, STRUCTURED program every week that will  guarantee your MANformation success. Now, only a six-month commitment and  monthly investment in yourself is required. If you are serious about FINALLY  making things happen for you and interested in this exclusive program, go HERE and sign up NOW.

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“Your weekly one-on-one personal coaching  sessions have increased my awareness of my personal power. Through your  guidance, I have become more financially successful and am able to more  effectively influence my patients toward getting and staying  healthy.”

Joel Nathan, MD
New York,  NY

“Skip has a depth of knowledge that is  unsurpassed in the industry. He knows all the pit falls and has saved me much  trial and error in my own life and business. The insight, clarity, tools and  strategies I have received during Skip’s coaching program have totally surpassed  all my expectations, transformed my life to no end, and have proven to be  invaluable.”

Ben Lewis
Fitness Expert
Radio and  Television Personality
Australia

“I have been spending a lot of my years  researching the science of bodybuilding and nutrition, but I never spent enough  time making things happen. Working with Skip La Cour has taught me to become a  results driven person and to focus on the outcome of the work. He’s extremely  motivating and delves deep into helping you form new habits that ensure success  in your goals. Making the decision to enroll in his coaching program was not a  decision I made lightly, but after spending just 4 weeks with him I can honestly  say it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!”

Agustin Rodriguez
Highlands Ranch,  CO

“Because of Skip La Cour’s outstanding reputation as a champion and  leader, I expected a very high-caliber coaching service. Within two months  getting with the program, I can now state that each week he delivers even more  than I expected he would! It was a very good move on my part to sign  up.”

Greg Prickett

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Go HERE and sign up NOW to sign up for MANformation  One-on-One Coaching with Skip La Cour.

Many of us men were taught growing up that it is “wrong” to act like you better than anyone else. This lesson was usually taught to us by well-meaning parents. Some of the time, this message was delivered by our peers who may or may not have had our best interests in mind.

At the same time, weren’t we also taught to strive for all of the best qualities that a person can have? Wasn’t the message to become better than most other people? Do you really think our parents would have been satisfied raising an average child? Did the most popular kids back in school gravitate toward the average kids?

Whether being “better” meant smarter, nicer, harder working, happier, more popular, better looking, or more athletic to us, wasn’t that the message we were directly or indirectly; consciously or subconsciously being taught? Weren’t we told to never settle for mediocrity?

Was the real lesson that we should aspire to become better than other people—but just make for damn sure we don’t act like it when we do?

You can certainly understand how, as adult men, we may have conflicting beliefs and values when it comes to presenting ourselves confidently in this world, can’t you?

Let me ask you a question: Do you think the vast majority of people in this world overstate their value—or sell themselves short? I would say, without hesitation, that most of us sell ourselves short. Then, we wonder why other people don’t recognize our greatness. Isn’t it obvious why they wouldn’t recognize our true value?

The Alpha male is very aware of the strong and powerful man he is and all of the strengths he possesses. He proudly presents himself exactly the way he sees himself.

Less dominant and Beta males will sell themselves short most of the time. They are very careful to not appear arrogant or too confident. Less dominant and Beta males never want to take the chance of offending anyone. As an Alpha male who is taking his leadership qualities to the next level, here’s your assignment:

Prepare a 10 to 20 second crisp and clean, well-planned, well-rehearsed introduction that accurately describes who you are and what you do. This introduction to other people that you create will not be fabricated and overly boastful—but it will certainly not humbly play down who you are and what you do like you may have done in the past.

If you are going to error when creating this introduction, make sure that you error on the side that’s fabricated and overly boastful. Chances are great that you will still sell yourself short because of the many years of conflicting messages you were given growing up. That is, until become aware of the importance of this skill and practice executing it over and over again.

You are ALWAYS selling yourself and your ideas. Always remember that fact. If you aren’t getting what you want in life, assume that it is because you are not selling yourself very well. If you aren’t going to sell yourself well, who the hell will?

This newly-crafted Alpha introduction will become your 10 to 20  second “sales pitch.”

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Get the “Alpha Edge” and Become the MAN You Really Want To Be  with Skip La Cour’s MANformation One-on-One Coaching

Get the personal coaching you need to take your body, mind, and spirit to the next level during this year. Skip La Cour is now accepting a selected number of the most committed men for WEEKLY one-on-one MANformation coaching phone  consultations.

La Cour will direct you through an individualized, STRUCTURED program every week that will guarantee your MANformation success. Now, only a six-month commitment and monthly investment in yourself is required. If you are serious about FINALLY making things happen for you and interested in this exclusive program, go HERE and sign up NOW.

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“Your weekly one-on-one personal coaching sessions have increased my awareness of my personal power. Through your guidance, I have become more financially successful and am able to more effectively influence my patients toward getting and staying healthy.”

Joel Nathan, MD
New York,  NY

“Skip has a depth of knowledge that is unsurpassed in the industry. He knows all the pit falls and has saved me much trial and error in my own life and business. The insight, clarity, tools and strategies I have received during Skip’s coaching program have totally surpassed all my expectations, transformed my life to no end, and have proven to be invaluable.”

Ben Lewis
Fitness Expert
Radio and  Television Personality
Australia

“I have been spending a lot of my years researching the science of bodybuilding and nutrition, but I never spent enough time making things happen. Working with Skip La Cour has taught me to become a results driven person and to focus on the outcome of the work. He’s extremely motivating and delves deep into helping you form new habits that ensure success in your goals. Making the decision to enroll in his coaching program was not a decision I made lightly, but after spending just 4 weeks with him I can honestly say it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!”

Agustin Rodriguez
Highlands Ranch,  CO

“Because of Skip La Cour’s outstanding reputation as a champion and leader, I expected a very high-caliber coaching service. Within two months getting with the program, I can now state that each week he delivers even more than I expected he would! It was a very good move on my part to sign up.”

Greg Prickett

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Go HERE and sign up NOW to sign up for MANformation  One-on-One Coaching with Skip La Cour.