MANformation 
"MANformation - Alpha Strategies That Transform You Into The MAN You Really Want To Be!"
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January 26, 2010
Hello Men.
It’s Skip La Cour.
Most of you know me as a bodybuilder. Many of you have been following my bodybuilding career and reading the articles I’ve written in the international “muscle” magazines since the ’90s.
That’s causing many of my “bodybuilding brothers” to ask me:
“What the heck is this ‘MANformation’ stuff all about, Skip?”
MANformation is a personal development program that I created for MEN. It teaches men of all ages and levels of accomplishment Alpha Leadership Skills.
What you may not know about me is that I’ve been heavily involved in the personal development business for over 25 years. In fact, I give a lot of credit to the time and attention I invested into that way of thinking for helping me become a six-time national champion bodybuilder.
I worked closely with three different world-recognized personal development leaders. After my competitive bodybuilding career ended, I traveled all over the United States for over TWO YEARS with a top-ranked peak performance specialist learning more about people and our potential to achieve more in life.
MANformation will transform you into the MAN you really want be–and get the things in life that you REALLY want (and not settle for).
When you learn how to more effectively lead you own life, you will be better equipped to lead other people.
Your success in life will depend on your ability to be confident, charismatic, influential, and persuasive enough to lead OTHER PEOPLE!
When you learn how to lead other people more effectively, you get them to willing and enthusiastically WANT to help you get what you want in life.
And, don’t make the mistake of thinking that MANformation is only for passive, indecisive “Beta” males. MANformation is for already successful men who want MORE out of life and are looking for an “edge” over all of the other competitive men in this world who want what they are after too!
That, I call the “Alpha Edge”!
During a past episode of my MANformation ALPHA EDGE Talk Radio Show , I talked all about the program in great detail.
Click here NOW to download “Skip La Cour Explains the MANformation Program and How It Will Help You Get What You Really Want in Life”
This is one “Hour of Power” you don’t want to miss hearing!
Skip La Cour
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Take the MANformation Alpha Power Statements (MAPS) Challenge - Free mp3 attached
Here is a free 22-minute recording of a number of POWERFUL MANformation Alpha Power Statements (MAPS).
MANformation Alpha Power Statements (MAPS) are a series of empowering statements where I coach you and remind you of many of the key principles of the MANformation program.
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“Thanks Skip! I have been using the MAPS for about three months now. I listen to them during my cardio sessions. Great affirmations that get me focused on being a leader.â€Â
Chris Tunstall
“Well, Skip, I love the affirmations but I am a Alpha Femaleâ€â€and they works for me too!â€Â
Toni Robinson
“Thank you for this gift. You are always blessed because you help others in need.â€Â
Roy Smith
“Skip, this is THE mp3 that I listen to on the way to the gym. By listening, over time, I have increased focus and confidence during workouts.â€Â
Joel Nathan
“These are an awesome tool to trigger the subconscious mind, Thanks Skip.â€Â
Ricardo Freitas
Here’s the challenge:
1. Download this file to your IPod (or mp3 player).
2. Listen to the 22-minute recording every day during your 5-day structured week for 30 days.
3. Ideally, you want to listen to this recording while you are in the gym exercising in the morning.
4. Even better is listening to these MAPS while you are doing some kick-ass cardiovascular training.
5. Only listen to the MAPS five days during the week. There’s no sense in getting burned out doing too much. 22 minutes just five days a week will be plenty of “exercise and practice†to get these MAPS into your subconscious thought process and automatically integrate them into your own personality without a lot of effort.
6. If you must work out in the evening, listen to the MAPS then.
7. If you can’t listen to them while you are working out, then download this mp3 file to your home computer and invest the time to listen to them first thing in the morning.
8. Even if you get “bored†with this process, promise yourself to stick with it for 30 days. Many times, we are getting positive results in our lives and we have no idea where to credit the cause of those positive results. These MAPS may be just one of those instances. Remember that when things are going well for you in your lifeâ€â€and you don’t feel like listening to the MAPS anymore.
Click here to download the mp3 file.
Good luck!
Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
P. S. I want your feedback within 30 days of taking on this challenge.
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For more MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.
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Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE NOW for more information and Order Your Audio Seminar Course
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!â€Â
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
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“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
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“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!â€Â
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
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Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE NOW for more information and Order Your Audio Seminar Course
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“‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
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“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the betterâ€â€even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!â€Â
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
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“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!â€Â
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
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Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE NOW for more information and Order Your Audio Seminar Course
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Copyright 2010 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
Post by:
MANformation
Posted in Other, Mental Attitude
December 16, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
Get out of “the middle” and earn RESPECT from other people.
Most people seek love, approval, and validation from other people to some extent. That’s just being a human being. However, some people NEED approval more than others do.
How about you?
Understanding this common element in human nature and how it affects your relationships with other people can either work for you—or against you. It all depends on how you use this powerful information.
important organizing principle to becoming a powerful, influential, and charismatic Alpha male is to either stop needing approval from other people—or do an awesome job of giving them the impression that you don’t need it.
The Alpha male needs approval less than the other people in his group—or reveals that he needs it far less than the other people in his group.
There is a saying that goes “Nice guys don’t finish last. Pleasers do.”
You simply can’t aggressively go for what you really want in life with 100 percent focus, effort, and enthusiasm—while being a “nice guy” who desperately tries to please other people at the same time. It just doesn’t work.
Why?
You will end up pleasing no one. You will end up “in the middle.” I suggest that you start viewing being in the middle as horrible and extremely ineffective place to be.
You will never make yourself happy and you will never make the people you are trying so hard to please happy either.
To make matters ever worse, you will never be RESPECTED when you flounder in the middle. And, that’s a heck of a lot of effort to exert when all it earns is a lack of respect from other people.
Take a stand. Pick one side or the other with certainty and confidence. Other people will appreciate your decisiveness. You’ll discover that other people will adjust to your way of thinking without much of a challenge when you do.
Have the courage to just SAY it.
Have the courage to just DO it.
Have the courage to just BE it.
Start conditioning other people to live in your “reality.”
Trust yourself. Trust that other people are fair and rational.
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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
Invest NOW in Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
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“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
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Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
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“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
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The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
Post by:
MANformation
Posted in Mental Attitude
December 9, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
What is the REAL message you are communicating to others when you speak?
The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!
The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities–and NOT the words he uses.
Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does–and does not do–when he is SPEAKS:
• He understands that it’s not only WHAT he says that’s important—it’s HOW he says it that’s important
• His “default” speaking voice is low, controlled, authoritative, and powerful
• He speaks at the appropriate volume at all times
• He speaks up all the time—unless he consciously chooses to speak softly for effect
• He speaks clearly
• He enunciates his words perfectly
• He even OVER-enunciate his words because he realizes that, although it may sound slow and awkward to him at times, it sounds clear, confident, normal, and extremely effective to the people he is speaking to
• His diction is precise, sharp, and crisp
• He makes sure he is in a peak and appropriate emotional state before he speaks—and then delivers his message
• His body language is strong, powerful, and charismatic because he understands that it bolsters the message he delivers
• He chooses to speak at his own TIMETABLE—and no one else’s
• He takes the time to think about what he says before he says it—and the process gets faster over time through constantly practice
• He demonstrates the voice qualities that he consciously chooses—and never what anyone expects of him (just because he knows that’s what they expect)
• He understands that being emotionally neutral until the very last moment before expressing the appropriate emotion is extremely POWERFUL
• He understands how effective and powerful “Pregnant Pauses” in his speaking patterns can be—and he uses them often
• He uses interesting, clever, and appropriate stories, metaphors, and analogies when he speaks
• He takes advantage of the opportunity to inject humor into conversation every time it is appropriate
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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
Invest NOW in Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
===============================
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
===============================
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
===============================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
===============================
The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
Post by:
MANformation
Posted in Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
December 1, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
What are you telling people about you when merely sitting in their presence?
The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!
The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities–and NOT the words he uses.
Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does–and does not do–when he is SITTING:
• He takes up as much space as humanly possible
• His torso is straight up (his butt isn’t tucked in or pushed out)
• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed
• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible
• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)
• His chin up
• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes will be are level or higher (never looking down)
• His head looks straight ahead—and never swivels around
• His eyes forward—never darting around
• He does NOT sway back and forth
• He does NOT lean to one side or the other
• His feet shoulder width apart or slightly wider
• If he does cross his legs, they are relaxed and send a message. This is a deliberate power play that shows minimal interest. He expects the person (or people) he is with to earn his approval, acceptance, or validation
• He does NOT cross his arms (unless he is intentionally sending a message)
• He does NOT put his hands in his pockets
• He does NOT hold anything in front of him (which gives the impression he is “protecting” himself)
• He always expose three (3) important areas of his body (throat, heart, crotch area)
• Having his arms spread out wide displays ultimate POWER!
• Anytime he can sit with his back against the wall and face out to the room—he does it!
Tip for Powerful Body Language when SITTING:
Remember the phrase, “Sit TALL, Sit PROUDLY, Sit like an ALPHA male!”
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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
Invest NOW in Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
===============================
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
===============================
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
===============================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
===============================
The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
Post by:
MANformation
Posted in Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
November 24, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
What are you telling people about you when merely walking in their presence?
The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!
The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities–and NOT the words he uses.
Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does–and does not do–when he is WALKING:
• He walks in a slow and controlled rhythm
• He always operates on HIS own timetable when walking
• His strides are long—not short and choppy
• His torso is straight up (his butt isn’t tucked in or pushed out)
• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed
• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible
• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)
• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes are level or higher (never looking down)
• His head points straight ahead—and is never swiveling around
• His eyes are looking forward focused on the place he is going—and are never darting around
• His chin is up
Tip for Powerful Body Language when STANDING:
Remember the phrase, “Stand TALL, stand PROUD, stand ALPHA!”
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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
Invest in Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
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“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
===============================
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
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“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
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The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
November 18, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
What are you telling people about you when merely standing in their presence?
The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!
The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities–and NOT the words he uses.
Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does–and does not do–when he is STANDING:
• He takes up as much space as humanly possible
• His feet are shoulder width apart or slightly wider
• His torso is straight up (his butt isn’t tucked in or pushed out)
• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed
• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible
• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)
• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes are at eye-level or higher (never looking down)
• He does NOT sway back and forth
• He does NOT lean to one side or the other
• He does NOT cross his arms
• He does NOT put his hands in his pockets
• He does NOT hold anything in front of him in his hands (as if he is “protecting himself”)
• He always exposes three (3) important areas of his body: groin, chest, and throat
• Having his hands behind his back when standing displays ultimate POWER!
• Anytime he can stand with his back against the wall and face out to the room—he does it!
Tip for Powerful Body Language when STANDING:
Remember the phrase, “Stand TALL, stand PROUD, stand ALPHA!”
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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
Invest in Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
===============================
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
===============================
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
===============================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
===============================
The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
Click HERE for more information
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
November 11, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
Practice and Exercise Making Decisions Quickly and Confidently
When deciding what he really wants in his life, the powerful Alpha male makes those decisions quickly and confidently. You too must learn to be quick and decisive when identifying what you really want as you strive to become a more effective leader.
You learn how to make decisions quickly and confidently by making as many of them as possible, any time you can. It doesn’t matter how big or small the decisions are, just make as many of them as you can. If your superior at work asks you how an important and involved project is going to turn out, quickly and confidently tell him what you think. If you are eating at a restaurant with a group of friends and the waitress asks what you want to order, make your decision quickly and confidently. There is nothing more appealing and charismatic to other people than a man who can make decisions. And gentlemen, there is probably nothing more unappealing and unattractive than a man who belabors over the simplest decisions in life.
Just like building muscle through exercise in the gym, you will start building your “decision-making muscle” the more you exercise making decisions.
So, what if you jump into the decision-making mode and make some bad decisions? You can always make adjustments to your decisions or make entirely new decisions later if needed or when you have more information. You can’t be afraid to make decisions if you want to become a more effective leader. And, you can never make any decisions based on fear. Any decision based on fear is the wrong decision.
This is another key difference between the Alpha male and less dominant and beta males. Less dominant and beta males will go through the process of collecting massive amounts of information before making any decision. They invest a lot of time into the process of making any decision. If a decision they’ve made doesn’t turn out to be the best one, they take themselves through the entire involved process all over again, collecting even more information and investing even more valuable time. The more decisions you make, the greater your chances for more victories. In life, it is the number of victories that you experience—not a higher percent of victories compared to losses—that will eventually get you where you want to go.
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Put Your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
===============================
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV
===============================
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course Outline
Why “Nice Guys” Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)
The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word “nice” in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being “nice” as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.
Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being “nice” and “fair” compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.
The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)
You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can’t you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is “the man” without knowing a thing about him?
Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.
===============================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY
===============================
The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)
The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.
The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)
Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you’ll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.
Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)
An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you’ve learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you’ve been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.
Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)
Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.
Your investment is only $99.97
Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your “MANformation” TODAY!
Click HERE to order
===============================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Mental Attitude
September 18, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
He understands that disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are NOT necessarily bad things that should be avoided.
The Alpha male understands that disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are bound to happen from time to time in the competitive world he lives in. He understands that occasional disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are just inevitable challenges that will sometimes happen playing in the “game” in life.
The Alpha male does NOT view every single conflict as a negative event. He understands that conflict is oftentimes a MANDATORY step toward getting to the very best solution. He is mentally and emotionally prepared for conflict. The Alpha male WELCOMES the opportunity to effectively resolve conflict when it occurs.
Have you heard of the expression, “It’s not personal; it’s business”? Well, that’s exactly how the Alpha male views the occasional conflicts that occur in his life.
“It’s not personal; it’s just what sometimes happens when people interact.’”
Now, let’s compare the Alpha male’s perspective to that of less dominant men and Beta males: Less dominant and Beta males feel they are the “better man” when they successfully avoid disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations.
That is a belief system that must be DESTROYED immediately!
You must understand that are NOT necessarily a “better” person just because you can successfully avoid these challenging situations. If fact, you are probably selling yourself short with other people by doing so.
Disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are oftentimes important parts of the negotiation process between people that will eventually lead to agreements that can satisfy BOTH parties.
Of course, it may appear that you are getting along well with people when conflict is avoided! At least, it will in the short run it will.
Consider this point:
How hard is it to stay out of other people’s way and give them what they want? If you spend a lot of time and energy avoiding disagreements, conflicts, and confrontation like the supposed “good little boy” you were taught to be many years ago, you must realize this:
While you’ve been “successfully” avoiding conflict and have only gotten in five or so conflicts in the last couple of years, the other person that you need to confront may have gotten into five conflicts BEFORE LUNCH TODAY.
Who do you think is going to be more skilled, confident, and comfortable when you go head-to-head with that person?
The bottom line comes down to this:
Is that mindset and approach REALLY working for you? Be honest! If you are in a place of pain because you are unable to get what you really want in your life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself. If you want to have more and better options in life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself.
The Alpha male is extremely confident and comfortable in the midst of conflict. How does he become so confident and comfortable? The Alpha male gets confident and comfortable by constantly stepping up to the challenge every time he must.
If he THINKS that he must stand up for himself and his position—then he DOES it! He conditions himself to never back down during those challenging times—even if he is uncomfortable. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” this MINDSET until it is firmly integrated into his personality. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” TAKING ACTION until doing so is firmly integrated into his personality.
When you “practice and exercise” anything you do on a continual basis long enough, how can you NOT become good at it? And, once you are good at it, how can you NOT eventually feel more and more confident and comfortable when you are doing it?
The Alpha male understands that the competition for the very best options in life can be FIERCE at times! The Alpha male understand that the “game” is always in “play”—whether he chooses to participate in it or not. He simply understands the competitive nature that’s inherent in a select few number of people—especially in other Alpha male leaders.
The Alpha male also understands that other people do NOT always live by his rules, values, beliefs, and standards. He understands that other people may not even believe in them. He never makes the mistake of assuming that they will—or even that they should. And, the Alpha male never takes it personally when other people do NOT play life by his same rules, values, beliefs, and standards.
When the Alpha male does get into conflicts, he doesn’t feel the need to talk about them afterward. He doesn’t need the “emotional therapy” of talking, justifying, rationalizing, and explaining the conflict to other people. There is no need for him to do so because there is nothing for him to “recover” from because he never viewed any conflict as a “bad” event in the first place.
Make sure that you immediately adopt the perspective of the Alpha male when it comes to disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations. Then, start “practicing and exercising” holding onto this mindset and taking these actions steps every chance you get.
And remember, when it comes to effectively resolving disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations:
If you THINK it—you must DO it!
There’s no backing down from this moment forward!
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Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
====================================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
====================================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
“‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
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“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
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“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
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Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
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MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Mental Attitude
September 10, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
Being a Man Who Simply Assumes That the Best Outcome Will Occur Is the Most Powerful, Influential, and Charismatic Quality You Can Have
The Alpha male has conditioned his mind to assume the very best in himself and in other people in every situation. He simply assume that other people see the best in him. He simply assume that other people expect the best out of him.
Less-dominant men who struggle being leaders subconsciously prepare for the worst in every situation—and simply view that way of thinking as being “practical” and “realistic.”
It is that really true?
Reconsider that way of thinking if it applies to you. Whatever you believe to be true for you, WILL be true for you. You will walk, talk, think, act, and react as if it is really true. The FACTS will be irrelevant.
Look, none of us are fortune tellers with crystal balls that can predict the future. You really don’t know for sure if you will fail or succeed, do you? That being said, why in the world would you predict, focus on, and make contingency plans for FAILURE?
Start conditioning your mind to expect the very best outcome in every situation. Expect the best out of yourself. Expect the best in your future. Expect the best in other people. And, expect the best outcome in your interactions with other people.
Just assume that everyone thinks you are awesome. Just assume that everyone thinks you are intelligent. Just assume everyone thinks that your ideas are amazing. Just assume that everyone thinks you are handsome. Just assume that everyone thinks you are “The MAN”!
Back up your highly assumptive spirit with powerful and congruent body language. When you do, you will get other people to willing, joyfully, and enthusiastically “buy into your frame”; live in your version of “reality”; and actually WANT to help you get what you want in life.
You will be AMAZED how people will automatically believe that your beliefs about yourself are true—simply because YOU do. With enough “practice and exercise,” you’ll be ASTONISHED just how effectively you can LEAD other people into your way of seeing the world.
And, you know what? You’ll lead YOURSELF into thinking that way about yourself at a higher level at the same time.
Start “practicing and exercising” being highly assumptive. It is the CORNERSTONE to being a powerful, influential and charismatic Alpha male.
====================================
Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
====================================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
====================================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
====================================
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
====================================
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Mental Attitude
September 3, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
<strong />Learn to React to What’s Going Around You On YOUR Timetable–and Never Anyone Else’s
The Alpha male is a master at displaying the “momentary neutral expression” on his face. He makes sure that he does so during both positive and negative encounters with other people.
The Alpha male is calm, cool, and collected during every social situation. He never shows emotion on anyone else’s timetable but his own. The Alpha male always controls the environment of emotion in the group he is in and has everyone in the group working from his frame. They are subconsciously “trained” by the Alpha male to seek his approval because he establishes himself as the leader of the group.
The Alpha male will not show any emotion without making the person he is dealing with or other people in the group earn it. When someone tries to amuse or impress the Alpha male, his smiles, chuckles, and approval are slow in coming. When another person greets the Alpha male, he slowly breaks out his smile in way that lets the other person know that this smile is just for them. The Alpha male understands that the other person will appreciate the uniqueness of his emotion when it is earned–instead of just given away quickly, freely, and easily.
People will sometimes test the Alpha male or try to establish the frame of what’s going on for themselves. They will try to “push his buttons.” When someone tries to get a negative reaction from the Alpha male, that person immediately realizes that his or her efforts are futile. The Alpha male simply gives the impression that he doesn’t “get it” (although he certainly does). The other person will never get a reaction from the Alpha male until the Alpha male DECIDES to react.
The Alpha male works from his own timetable and decides when, how, and how much emotion he gives to another person’s words or actions.
This is just one more of the subtle ways the Alpha male is influential, persuasive, and charismatic–and always controls the frame.
====================================
Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
====================================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
====================================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
====================================
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
====================================
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Other, Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
August 26, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
“Practice and Exercise” Saying Less During Your MANformation
The Alpha male has developed the unique ability to communicate his powerful message in the most effective and efficient manner possible.
He doesn’t waste time with unnecessary conversation. He doesn’t use words that aren’t needed to get his point across.
The Alpha male only needs “seconds, words, and sentences” when he speaks to others. Beta males and less-dominant men, on the other hand, require “minutes, paragraphs, and pages” to make the very same point.
As far as his communication style is concerned, the Alpha male lives by the rule that “Less Is More POWERFUL.”
The Alpha male understands that, the more he needs to explain himself, the more power and influence he loses.
For more MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.
====================================
Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
====================================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
====================================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
====================================
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
====================================
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Specific Alpha Action Strategies (SAAS)
August 19, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
You Must Understand and Appreciate the Massively Important Roles of Influence and Persuasion in Your MANformation
The Alpha male understands that he can only accomplish so much in this world by himself. It doesn’t matter how hardworking and intelligent he may be, he knows that he needs the support of other people in his pursuit of the best things in life.
There are countless numbers of hardworking, intelligent Beta Males and less-dominant men who struggle because they haven’t figured this out yet. They take pride in being “loners” who make it their mission not to depend on anyone else.
In order to make your MANformation quickly and effectively, you must learn the skills of influence and persuasion. You must become a “people person” if you want to improve the quality of your life.
The powerful men who get what they really want in life understand that everything ultimately comes from other people. It will be your ability to influence and persuade other people to help you that will determine if you get the opportunity to enjoy better relationships with the most amazing people, live more exciting experiences, earn more money, and gain access to the best deals.
Options are all of the things in life that you REALLY want. Options can be material things, feelings, or emotions. Your goal should be to have access to as many options in life as humanly possible. You do not necessarily have to exercise all the options available to you. You just want the decision to be YOURS—and not hope it magically comes your way someday.
You deserve everything you are getting in life—and you do NOT deserve everything you are not getting (at least, not yet). It’s that plain and simple. If you want more, start working on your influence and persuasion skills.
Do NOT blame other people if they do not give you the respect that you “think” you deserve. Take 100 percent responsibility for the way other people are currently treating you. Take 100 percent responsibility for what you are and are not getting in this world.
Here’s what you must do to influence and persuade other people to help you get what you want:
1. Get other people to trust you; respect you; and see you as an expert. Work hard on yourself first—and give other people a legitimate reason to follow your lead. Actually BECOME the person that other people trust, respect, and see as an expert. It takes focus, dedication, practice, and exercise—so GET TO WORK NOW!
2. Have congruent, matching body language that demonstrates to other people that they should trust you; respect you; and see you as an expert. Powerful body language is an extremely important “sales tool.” Work on it.
3. Be confident about what you say and do—and other people will “buy into” your frame or reality. People WANT to be led. The world is desperately looking for LEADERS. Trust me.
4. If you are not as confident as you should be, then you must learn to “fake it until you make it.” At the very least, play yourself up where you belong—and do not play yourself down. Quit being humble! It is NOT serving you well. Since the beginning of time, leaders who ABUSE their power have DECEIVED the masses into believing that being humble, quiet, and to just turn the other cheek when someone takes advantage of you is the RIGHTEOUS way to be. Why would they do this? So the masses would just shut up and follow THEIR lead without questioning them. As Dr. Phil would say, “How’s being humble working for you so far?” It’s time to stop buying into this nonsense and start thinking for yourself.
5. If you want to be a MASTER of influence and persuasion, you must take responsibility for BOTH SIDES of the conversation. I know it is sometimes tough enough to keep yourself in line. To become an effective LEADER, you must become strong enough to carry BOTH sides.
6. Practice and exercise the skills of influence and persuasion. Be patient. Be persistent. The chances are you will not be all that great at it at first—just like you aren’t great at anything you first start doing. Don’t quit just because you blow it a few times. Keep on, keepin’ on, my brother!
For more MANformation Alpha Leadership strategies, visit the MANformation web site at www.MANformation.com.
====================================
Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!
This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.
Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
““Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
====================================
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
====================================
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
====================================
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
====================================
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
====================================
Your investment is only $99.97
Click HERE for more information
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.
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Posted in Leadership
August 12, 2009
By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men
He Understands That the More Effective Strategy Is to Have Other People Step Up and Into HIS Frame and Live In HIS Version of Reality
The Alpha male never plays down his power just to make less confident or judgmental people feel more comfortable in his presence. In fact, if other people might be judgmental or uncomfortable in his presence, the Alpha male will rarely even notice.
That will not even show up on the Alpha male’s “radar.” Not because he is arrogant or insensitive. It doesn’t show up on his radar because he understands those are other people’s issues–not his. They need to deal with those issues–not him.
he understands those are other people’s issues–not his. They need to deal with those issues–not him.
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Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
====================================
Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour’s. . .
“The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your “MANformation” TODAY!
Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.
Click HERE for more information
====================================
Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.
MANformation is a registered trademark of Skip La Cour Consulting.
Post by:
MANformation
Posted in Leadership
August 5, 2009
With the Greater the RISKS You Take In Life, the Greater the REWARDS You Stand to Gain
The Alpha male is a risk taker. He takes the necessary risks to get what he really wants in his life. His risks are proportional to the level of achievement and fulfillment he wants in his life.
Many less dominant and Beta males have little chance of getting what they really want in life because they are not taking enough risks. Or, they are not taking big enough risks. The greater the risks you take in life, the greater the rewards you will usually enjoy. Your ability to take risks will be a piece in putting together your MANformation puzzle. Let’s face it, if you never put yourself in a position to win big, you’ll have absolutely no chance of winning big.
There’s a price tag for everything in life worth having. The bigger the prize you are after, the more it costs. The unfortunate part about taking risks is you may pay an outrageous price for success—and have no guarantees the goods will ever be delivered.
I remember when I was an ambitious, hardworking 19-year old employee at the grocery store. One day, I was mapping out my financial future while putting cans of motor oil on a display. “By the age of 27,” I said to myself, “I will be earning $100,000 a year.”
That was a nice goal to have, but how in the world did I ever expect to do that? Even if I was promoted up the ranks at a rather quick pace (which I was) and I became a store manager at the relatively young age of 27 (which I was as well), how did I ever expect to be earning $100,000? The manager’s position—even including a great bonus—would only earn about $75,000. In the job I was working, how did ever think I was going to earn more? The only way I was going to earn $100,000 by the age of 27 was to get off that track, take some risks, and do something else for a living. What was I thinking at the time?
As you make your MANformation and transform into the man you really want to be, there will be just as much discomfort and anxiety as excitement and satisfaction during your journey. The good and bad feelings are directly proportional—if you are really stretching yourself.
It’s up to you to control your emotions during both the good and bad times. It’s up to you to choose which emotions you will focus on—they are all always present. Risk taking may seem unfair and uncomfortable at times, but this fact is undeniable: Behind every awesome and fulfilling victory lies the possibility of gut-wrenching pain and devastation.
As I stated before, if you want to win big you stand the chance of losing big. The two are directly proportional. That is, if you are going for what you really want—and not settling for less based on your fears.
If you want the great position in your company, you may have to work for years climbing the corporate ladder and endure all the office politics that come with it. You’ll need to deal with the heartache, pain, ups and downs, and victories and defeats along the way—with no guarantee you will ever get that sought-after position. If you want a relationship with a special person, you’re going to have to ask that person with all the incredible qualities you really want out on a first date. Even though she might reject you on the spot, you’ll never go out on a date at all until you approach the object of your desire in some way.
The Alpha male is courageous. Courage is what you’ll need to take the risks essential for success. Courage is a character quality you must constantly use and refine to achieve what you want at the level you want.
Courage is the antidote for fear. There is nothing wrong with feeling the emotion of fear. In fact, I am fearful on a fairly regular basis. What will determine your level of success is what you ultimately do and do not do when that inevitable fear is present.
One other point: Risk only what you are prepared to lose. Whether what you lose is time, money, a job, a business deal, rejection, or emotional security, it doesn’t matter. That’s why they call them risks and not “sure things.”
What every man is willing to lose in any particular situation is different.
The Alpha male is more willing to “roll the dice” and lose his time, money, a job, a business deal, rejection, and emotional security because he is confident that he can put himself in a position to win at a much greater level that his current status.
The Alpha male is confident that risking losing his time will earn him even more time to do the things he really wants to do in the future. Risking losing his money now will earn him 100 times more money in the future. Risking giving up his current job will lead him to a more fulfilling job with more pay or even lead to creating his own business. Risking losing a business deal will make that business deal three times as beneficial to him. Risking losing some of his pride and being rejected will lead to him being a situation that he always dreamed of being in someday. Risking losing emotional security to get to a place of absolute fulfillment instead of settling for what barely satisfies him.
The Alpha male understands that risk-taking takes practice. The more he practices taking risks, the easier it becomes for him to take them.
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Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About “The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader” Audio Seminar Course
“Skip La Cour’s messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”
Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV
“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more.”
Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY
“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”
Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI
“’The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level.”
T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH
“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”
Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL
“I just turned 50 but I’ve been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour’s ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ seminar. Now, I’m thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”
Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA
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July 22, 2009
<strong />The Only Time You Are Growing Is When You Are Uncomfortable
The Alpha male is a leader by design—not by chance. The Alpha male is s strong and powerful FORCE because he has paid his dues in life time and time again. He has continually stepped up to the challenges that have stood in his way—and did not look for ways to avoid them. Whether he succeeded, failed, or experienced something in between, the Alpha male became STRONGER with every single experience.
The only way for you to become the strong and powerful man you want to be is through the “practice and exercise” of these MANformation principles during the tough, less-than-ideal conditions that life inevitably offers.
Instead of hoping for times to get easier, you must demand yourself to become physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically TOUGHER to handle anything that comes your way.
Some pressure; some stress; and a little discomfort are not necessarily bad things. The MANformation principles will help you use pressure, stress, and discomfort to EMPOWER you. The Alpha male realizes that, in order to maximize productivity in his life, he absolutely must create some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort—and do so on a continual basis.
Some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort force you to step and up and use all of your physical, mental, emotional, and psychological abilities to the fullest. Without some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort, why would you ever need to perform at your very best? You should willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically welcome some manageable pressure, some stress, and some discomfort into your life to drive you to become a better version of you.
Some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort are necessary evils in life if you want to get everything you want. They can become quite burdensome and difficult to deal with at times. Without some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort, however, there would be no real sense of urgency to get anything accomplished whatsoever—let alone accomplish tasks that produce outstanding results. Even if you don’t meet your ambitious, self-imposed goals, you will end up far more productive over time than those people who do not allow themselves to feel some pressure, some stress, and some discomfort.
The only time you are growing is when you are uncomfortable.
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