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Ive been working hard at not being negitive. I give myself one great things to do each day and if i do it then the day is successful. 
Something that was getting me down was definatly how I am the only one who cleans, cooks etc around the hosue. my guy does nothing and if he does cook he cooks for himself thats it. Then about a wekk ago i realized that im being stupid. I cannot make him do it and obviously explaining how it makes me feel doesnt help, and besides i like doing it, now i just make sure nothing is left for tomorrow so i dont wke up to a mess as i used to.
Im still struggling with not being a proiority in my relationship ,with my shyness, and the expectations people have for me. Im trying harder to live my life for me and no one else.
As far as training, i have to say im looking the best i have in a while. My diet is looking up. Im still struggling a bit but again its better than its been in a long time
June 3, 2009 at 5:26 pm
Keep your head up lady…looks like you are doing well and dont let anyone get in the way of that. I wish you the best!
June 3, 2009 at 5:28 pm
hey girlie, sounds like you deserve better
could be a sign of things to come. just remember, here you are willing to take charge around the house, trying to be a more positive force in the world AND you are making your body hot?!?! save that for a beau who gives a sh!t muah!!! good for you, making yourself more of a priority. you deserve it!
June 3, 2009 at 5:30 pm
I was just checking out your progress…awesome job!! LilMogul is right, you deserve someone who appreciates you and everything you do…enough to help out sometimes!
June 3, 2009 at 5:54 pm
We all deserve a life partner who contributes fairy to the relationship in every way. You are not being stupid. You are getting down about it for a good reason. This is a real issue that will have to be dealt with if your relationship is to grow in a positive direction. If your beau wants a maid let him hire one or go home to Momma!
June 3, 2009 at 5:55 pm
Speaking as a guy, sometimes we’re ridiculously stupid and clueless. Are you sure he realizes what a weanie he’s being?
June 11, 2009 at 3:53 pm
My wife is from El Salvador where men rule and women are an afterthought. It helps since I absolutely hate cleaning and she does 90% of it. Nevertheless no single person should be taking the full load. I cook dinner almost all the time. I do the dishes about half the time. The yard and garbage are all mine. I help with the laundry. My sister was married to a guy who did nothing… trust me, you don’t want to go there. Anyway you know your situation better than anyone… just remember, if you’re a sex kitten you’ll have an unlimited choice of men.