Dear Ex boyfriend
It has been almost three years since we broke up. As I am sure you can remember, our three and a half year relationship wasn’t very good. In fact, let me remind you, you become very emotionally abusive, treating me like nothing, like my existence means less than yours. You then become physically abusive, slapping me. Just who do you think you are? Thank god I knew when to leave and thank god that’s over.
It has been three years. Your last words to me were "don’t ever contact me again". Surprisingly, these were the wisest words of advice you’ve ever given me. Immediately I tossed the photos, I tossed the gifts, I erased your contact, I erased your memories. Poof. Gone. Down the ****ing trash where you belong. So thank you, those were some wise words. I guess it’s my turn for some wise words for you, here they are, STOP CONTACTING ME. GROW UP.
It’s been three years and like clockwork you contact me every couple of months. Get off my facebook. Stop trying to look me up. Stop trying to message me, no I don’t want any of my stuff back and no I don’t care that you want to know how I am doing. You lost that right when you hit me. I don’t want anything to do with you. I don’t understand why you don’t get that. I have never replied to any of your contact efforts so take it as a sign and stay out of my life. The past three years have been the best years of my life and I don’t want your toxic presence in it.
I reiterate, it’s been three years. It’s time for you to grow up. Be a man. You are scum. You are worthless. You lead a meaningless dull life. Stay away from me. You pathetic worthless sack of shit. Know this, I am not the same girl you left brokenhearted. Oh but I have grown. I am not like other girls. Come close and you will live to regret it. I do not fear you. I am strong. I am good. I lead a good life. I do not cause harm or pain in others life and I believe in leading a positive life. But I also believe in karma so don’t worry, you’ll get what’s coming to you.
Come close and you will sorely regret it. So stay the **** away from me.
And if you really don’t get it, yes I am over you, I have been over you for three years, I don’t love you, I don’t care for you, I don’t even care for your EXISTENCE.
Sincerely,
Your much better off ex-girlfriend.






January 22, 2009 at 11:22 am
Nice!
In fact, perfect!
January 22, 2009 at 11:41 am
Everytime I hear of any abuse to a woman it makes my blood boil, great decision and love your response to him…straight ahead full steam. Wish you all the best!