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Archive for December, 2007

Jimmy Buffett and 20 things to do

Thursday, December 20th, 2007

            Jimmy Buffett speaks to me.  Not literally, as in “Hey Mike, just off the East Coast tour and back in the Keys. Why don’t you come down and we’ll have some margaritas”, but metaphorically, through his lyrics.  Seriously, I’m almost convinced that he’s talking to me in his songs, urging me to make the most of the time I’ve got on the planet. 

            In Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes for instance, he sings “yesterday’s over my shoulder, so I can’t look back for too long, there’s just too much to see, waiting in front of me, and I know that I just can’t go wrong.”  

            In Cowboy in the Jungle, Buffett sings of businessmen on vacation, an alternate approach to life, and throws in a reminder that life is short, “They’re tryin’ to drink all the punches, they all may lose their lunches, tryin’ to cram lost years in five or six days…”,  “I don’t want to live on that kind of island, I don’t want to swim in a roped off sea…I gotta be where the wind and the water are free”, and finally, “twenty-four hours, maybe sixty good years, it’s really not that long a stay.”  Preach, Jimmy, preach!  

            In He went to Paris, he sings of an old man’s reflection on his life, saying “After eighty-six years of perpetual motion, if he likes you he’ll smile and say, Jimmy, some of it’s magic and some if it’s tragic, but I had a good life all the way”

            Buffett sings of another old man in Last Mango in Paris.  Sings of the adventures of this take-life-by-the-bottle-and-drink-it man and his thirst for more: 

            He said, I ate the last mango in Paris,
            I took the last plane out of Saigon,
            I took the first fast boat to China,
            And Jimmy there’s still so much to be done.

            Inspired by Buffett and his characters’ observation’s that life is short and no matter what you have done, there’s still so much to be done, at 40 plus a couple, I’ve put together a list of twenty things to do in the next twenty years.  None of them involve third world girls from Buzios or high fashion model wives, but I think it’s a good list.  In no particular order my twenty things to do are:

                        Get a tattoo (or two or three)

                        Mentor an at risk youth

                        Get my picture in a bodybuilding magazine

                        Stay fit and healthy for my wife and kids

                        Exhibit my photographs

                        Stay married

                        Have more sex

                        Take wifey on a cruise (or to Las Vegas)

                        Learn Spanish

                        Learn Latin dancing

                        Learn to play the guitar

                        Help my kids buy their first houses

                        Invent something

                        Write a book(s)

                        Learn to sail

                        Create a scholarship

                        Be more romantic

                        Take my kids somewhere amazing

                        Make a difference

                        Find beauty in every day

            Working toward all that should probably keep me pretty busy for the next twenty years.  Certainly doesn’t leave much time for laying around the house watching football games on Sundays.  Of course, some of these will be easier to accomplish than others.  Assuming I stay married, the have more sex/have a threesome might prove to be the most difficult to pull off! Oh well, I’ll give it the college-try.

            How about you?  What’s on your list of twenty things to do in the next twenty years?

 

Why do this?

Monday, December 3rd, 2007

I went thru a competitive phase a couple of years ago, doing three natural shows in one year.  It was something that for years I had been saying I would do when I turned 40.  As a testament to my competitive fire, my initial BodySpace.com goal was “to get my Pro card”. 

Now at 42, I’m feeling less of a need/urge to compete.  It’s curious to me as I never would have predicted this sort of change of heart.  I still want to compete to get my pro card, but it is not why I’m doing this anymore.  Which raises the question, “Why am I doing this?”

It got me thinking about what some of my reasons for bodybuilding are/might be.  I offer the following in no particular order:

1)      Continuing to look really good naked

2)      To try and get a pro card

3)      The looks I get at the gym

4)      Sore muscles for days after a workout

5)      To be a dad with muscles for my kids

6)      To be a role model for healthy living

7)      To see how long I can stay strong

8)      That fit and muscular feeling

9)      I like me with muscles

10)  I like trophies

Clearly, I have issues!  Perhaps major ones.  But, acknowledging that I probably could use some therapy (couldn’t we all), I think I’m at a pretty healthy place regarding this bodybuilding thing.  I like the way it makes me feel; I like the way I look with muscles; I like being the dad/husband with muscles; and I look forward to being the grandpa with muscles.  I will continue to work hard to improve my physique and hopefully get that pro card eventually.  But at the risk of sounding cheesy, I think I’m already a winner. 

 



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