I’m Ashamed!
November 19, 2007I’M ASHAMED!
I am concerned that society has become too sensitive about showing muscle development. Remember that bodybuilders were once prohibited to wear “Speedo-like” trunks when posing (compare the 1950’s to today). Remember that the original Olympians competed naked…to show their muscle development. Today, if you show a little butt (glut development) in a shot or while posing, someone usually complains.
I’m not saying that on-line or off we should all expose ourselves in a blatant sexual manner (creating offense to some), but all should be reminded that the human body is a work of art and is not obscene.
As the human race evolved, covering the body became less of a practical function when needed, and more of a required masking. Originating from a handful of religious radicals, the male and female “attributes” became labeled obscene. The mind-set continued to be cultivated by those in power, evolving to where we are today…ashamed of our bodies…feeling a need to cover/mask ourselves.
Although the human body is beautiful and an incredible model from God, great artists like Michelangelo have fallen prey by having to change art-work. After Michelangelo had painted his great work on the Sistine Chapel ceiling, the Pope ordered him to modify and cover all male/female attributes. In resentment, Michelangelo was forced to paint ribbons of cloth over all attributes. Instead of glorifying God’s creation, the church cultivated the mind-set that we should be ashamed of our body’s features by masking it.
Although there is gradual desensitization in today society about male/female attributes, the masking of our bodies in most situation still holds-true today. Think about the next time you may be in the gym locker-room walking to/from the shower…your mind is programmed to wrap a towel around yourself. Why? Are you ashamed? Is there any more of an appropriate environment to not have to wrap a towel around you? You can see the result of hundreds of years of programming (brain-washing) society that the body should be masked.
As those who workout and to get a better body (honoring it), I believe it is our duty to help de-sensitize society. Understand that bulges, breasts, a penis, or a butt-crack is a natural part of human anatomy…it is not an obscene thing!
If you believe you see a guy’s penis and balls in their shorts, so what!? It’s OK, it is human anatomy; it’s OK…it’s not obscene. Similarly, if a bodybuilder shows his glutes (ass) in a pose, should you scream that he is being indecent, obscene, or revealing too much? NO! He is showing the muscle development. Somehow shoving the back of his posing trunks up his crack is OK, but wearing a thong is not. The thong reportedly shows “too much.” Too much what…muscle? Folks need to calm down and not be so uptight…it’s just the human form! Appreciate it.
I encourage all to be more accepting and realize that the body is not something to be ashamed of…especially when tastefully done. Be proud of your development; and moreover, allow others to be proud too.
I find it hypocritical when guys approve of women wearing thongs while posing, but if a guy wears a thong, he is called a “***” or other hate-intended comment. I don’t hear guys yelling at the women in thongs as “Lesbian!” You probably see the hypocrisy and male insecurity by guys believing that any male-male admiration is homosexual. Even if it was homosexual (which I could care less), if the intent is not blatantly sexual, then so what!?
In my opinion, male bodybuilders should pose in “string” thongs….nothing sexual about that, just exposing as much of the body/muscle as possible while also respectfully covering the penis/balls (to satisfy radicals).
In a related topic to being ashamed of your body, I implore guys to PLEASE wear clothes that FIT! You workout in the gym to get a good bod, so wear clothes that compliment your body!
Too many (including me at rare times) wear crap that is two-sizes too big. Fit bodies should have fit clothes. Shirt-sleeve seams should ride on the shoulder, not mid-arm. Jeans should fit…complimentarily…not baggy making you look like you have almost no ass. Similarly, shorts should be comfortable and enhance your features, not double as a skirt.
Understand the psychology behind why most wear over-sized clothing; when we were growing-up, Mom would buy us over-sized clothes because we would quickly grow into and out of them. Thus, subconsciously during our impressionable development years we have been “programmed” that wearing over-sized clothes is normal. Now that you are an adult and are not growing dramatically, you need to de-program yourself and start wearing clothes that actually FIT your body properly and compliment your features. Don’t give the impression that you’re ashamed of your body by masking it in drapes of cloth. Wear clothes that compliment your body and enhance the features that you have worked so hard for in the gym!
In the gym, if you wanna wear tight spandex during a workout…do it! Honestly, it does feel good (not sexually) to wear spandex-like shorts in the gym. The freedom of movement and support is appreciated; ergo, why they are worn by many athletes (track, football, etc.). Have you noticed that athletes are not ashamed of the form-fitting? They don’t wear shorts over their spandex-like shorts. I believe that it reflects poorly on a guy’s mental outlook (insecurity) when he wears shorts over his spandex; along with looking silly. Now please don’t misunderstand, I’m not one of those who have a spandex fetish, I’m just saying that you should wear workout clothes that feel good and are functionally advantageous. If you try spandex-like shorts and appreciate the feel/support, don’t be ashamed that your bulge shows or your ass shows too much…be thankful it does! YOU (stress: YOU) should help set the pace by wearing clothes that enhance your features. Remember, do NOT be ashamed of your body! Help break the cycle!
For me in the gym, half the time I do wear spandex-like shorts; however, the other half of the time I typically wear regular workout shorts that fit well (not baggy and long to my knees) without underwear. Now again, I do not have some sort of obsessive fetish about going “commando,” I would simply like to hang without feeling bunched-up (the opposite of wearing my spandex-type shorts). Can you at times see the head of my cock or my shaft outlined in my short…yes; and, so what! Again, if you re-read from above, it is OK! All guys have a penis and it is not something to be ashamed of…it is simply anatomy.
On a related topic, bodybuilders know that the body’s production of testosterone increases muscle development, energy, and a wealth of other positives. Since taking additional testosterone (steroids) is currently illegal, we must get the most out of our own body’s testosterone factory. It is a medical truth that free-balling (going commando) helps semen (testosterone) production. Doctors advise couples that are trying to conceive that the husband should NOT wear briefs. This is because the testicles by design intentionally hang exterior to the body to regulate a cooler temperature for optional semen/testosterone production. Some even wear devices to force their testicles to hang as low as possible (optimal testosterone production). If you wear briefs or shorts with inner-liners, you are drawing the testicles closer to the body (a heater), which is bad if you want to have your highest testosterone production. Similarly, thick-fabric workout shorts and boxers under your shorts or jeans increase heat and reduce your testosterone production; thus, you should avoid wearing boxers unless you functionally must (as with some slacks). So, as many know, going “commando” as much as possible is GOOD for those who want to fully benefit from their body’s own testosterone…if you can get past your own psychological limits that you would be ashamed if your cock-shaft or cock-head might be noticeable.
As we are those who workout to get a better built body, you and I must help carry the torch by helping de-program society that the male anatomy is neither obscene, nor is going commando or wearing clothes that compliment your features taboo.
Understand that I am not saying that you should dress like a skank or be blatantly sexual, but you should wear clothes that feel good, functionally benefit it, and compliment your body…not mask it.
Again, wear clothes that compliment your features, not mask it!






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