Gut Reactions
I watched my child give the shirt off his back yesterday.
He’s on the 7th grade B Team. The shirts are far too big for any of the junior high boys, as they are hand-me-downs from the high school.
Jonah weighs 84 pounds and is counting the days until I let him lift. And because the shirts are so big, most of the kiddos wear Under Armor beneath their jersey. It is a MUST for Jonah!
So with seconds left in the game I look over and realize I could see more of Jonah’s skin than I could a few minutes prior.
I wait for him to get dressed and come over to me after the game. I say, “Jonah, what happened to your Under Armor.”
(Cause that stuff ain’t cheap, y’all!)
He causally points to the A game already in progress and says, “Number four. He forgot his.”
And I wanted to say, “Do you know how much that little red piece of fabric cost me?”
But thank goodness I controlled my reaction. Because immediately it struck me that my child had done a good thing. He shared something important to him and he chose to trust the other kid to take care of it and bring it back to him.
But I have learned to control my reaction to things. That was a big factor in my losing weight.
When my immediate reaction to sadness was to eat, I learned another way.
When my gut was telling me to skip the gym, I learned to ignore it.
Gut reactions are not always the ones you should go with. And I know every other morning exerciser will agree with me here…
Every single time my alarm goes off at 4:00AM, my gut tells me to shut that alarm off and catch another hour or two of sleep.
My gut hates me, because I ignore it every single time.






December 22, 2008 at 11:53 am
Yes, it is a wonderful thing your son did! My parents did overreact one time when I loaned my rugby uniform to the senior squad (I was a junior). After that I was very leary of loaning anything to anyone and it caused more harm than good. Keep teaching your children the good, they will listen.
December 22, 2008 at 5:35 pm
Hey, good to see you back online. I’ve been checking religiously for 3 weeks…
December 23, 2008 at 9:41 am
^^me too!! I love your blog, Adina. Thank you for the inspiration!
December 26, 2008 at 5:09 am
Good to see you back around Adina!