Tell me what you think is sexy
So tell me - how do we define sexy. Because since I stopped dieting after the show I have gained probably about 11 lbs - 3 weeks, not too bad, but I feel ANYTHING BUT SEXY! My husband tells me that he likes me this way, that I am more normal, but Lindsay, one of the girls I train with sent me a picture of us all with these crazy abs today and I wanted to cry.
I hate the way I look and I hate the way I feel, but I love being abl eto eat normally. I am very careful to make sure that I get all my proteins and I try to keep my carbs lower than they used to, but how do I go back to liking what I have? I am 5ft 9 and I weight 139 lbs - that’s not a bad thing, but I feel so bad about myself. I’ve often wondered if I should get help or what.
So tell me? What do you think is sexy? Is a woman with a little more curve sexy. Should I be happy about my butt that U carry in the off season and my filled out face, or is a woman who is rock hard all the time sexy. Now I know my body still looks better eh probably 60% of the population out there, but I always want to look the best. The only way to doi that is to diet all year round. Not healthy and not going to help me reach my goals. So how do I learn to like what I have. I don’t need to love it, I just want to not feel self conscious in a bathing suit now or worry about how others perceive me. What do you think?
May 5, 2008 at 5:38 pm
you have nothing to worry about sweetie. To me sexy is the path. I love girls that wanna compete and love their bodies and make the changes and all that. If you get a lil more curvy when you bulk it’s all good cuz ur boy’ll know that ur gonna look even awesomer for your next contest and really it’s not that much of a fat gain anyway, it’s in ur head
May 7, 2008 at 3:39 am
Your husband is right and he is the most important person to you, remember you can not stay in competition shape all year round, that would damage you immune sytem from long dieting
May 18, 2008 at 5:59 pm
I think your husband is right. That ripped lean look is awesome for shows, but overall I have to agree with your man.
April 16, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Confidence is sexy! Its all how you percieve yourself. You are strong,fit, and determined.What is more sexy than that? A little traffic in the back??? Thats just more to love!!